Introduction  

Demographics seems to be understated nowadays. But it has a really important role in sexual strategy. Mark Manson emphasizes this in one of his chapters from Models: Attract Women Through Honesty. Why? Because a good fisherman knows that in order to catch the right fish, he must pick the right time of day, the right location, and the right bait.

 

Let's go into demographic basics, and let's consider some examples and outcomes of demographics.

 

Demographics  

  1. Setting The location matters for a variety of reasons. If you're looking for a ONS girl, then you can find that girl at parties and bars. If you're looking for a girl to plate, perhaps you can find her on a college campus at the coffee store. It's relative to the location. But you get to choose.
  2. Time Naturally, the night is more sexual. During the evening and night times, girls crave more attention. This goes well with setting. At the proper location and time, you have a better shot at approaching a girl. Which brings me to the next point on the list.
  3. Ethnicity, race Girls that have a similar race or ethnicity to you are naturally more polarized towards you. Girls with a different skin tone are more polarized away from you. It's just how it is. Don't be put down by it, embrace it. Approach girls who show IOIs to you first, then go for the ones that are less open. Be aware of your surroundings and look for eye contact from girls.
  4. Proper game With all three above points considered, let's go into proper game. Although I'm not the biggest fan of PUA, it does teach you some basic approaching methods. Obviously, first consider your target. Is she showing some interest in you already? Then you have a better shot at getting her number and not a false number or rejection. Approach casually, as if you were to ask someone for the time. If you have this mindset, approaching is easier. Take a deep breath, and talk to her as if she were just another person and not some angelic model form America's Next Top Model. Treat her like you would any other guy, except obviously not. What I mean is don't sweat it. She is just another person. She's not special. Give the impression that your time is more valuable and that you could leave her at any instant. After you have done this, just open up with something simple, such as "Hey, what's going on." Roosh V says that you should make sure you have their attention before you open up. Repeat "Hey" multiple times to see if you have her attention. If not just leave. Another popular opener is "Hey, I bet you do ____ or ____" or "Hey, you look like you are having a blast here" depending if the situation is boring or not.
  5. Age Girls hypergamy targets older men, who usually employ better status. Read the next point for the explanation.
  6. Status Mark Manson says that the impression of status is what matters. So you can appear as a man with status if you dress to your personality, you're extraverted, you know how to talk well with others, you are the leader of the group, and so on. This goes hand-in-hand with pre-selection. If one or two women like you in a group, then other girls probably will as well.
  7. Personality This goes well withs status. Match your personality with the status you desire. Avoid considering feminist platitudes, such as "your personality matters more than your looks." Yeah fucking right. However, the truth is you can supplement your status with the personality you employ. Be natural. Don't try to act like you're some kind of god or king. Fit in but make sure you're different. Have your unique touch. Perhaps you're really good with humor. Perhaps you're good with sarcasm. Or perhaps you're just overall a cold person. Use that to your advantage. If you have humor, then make people laugh and stand out that way. If you're good with sarcasm, you're obviously going to attract more girls who value sarcasm (be careful with this one though, you can attract the wrong girl sometimes). Or if you're cold or introverted, just find others who value your personality.
  8. Income Income is also important. But remember, your status is more important. High income will attract a lot of gold diggers. So never try to attract girls with your income. Your income is just a supplement.

 

Summary  

Observe your surroundings. Choose a good target. Use your personality to your advantage. Employ proper game. And choose the right time and place. All of this can be summarized in one word: demographics.