Alright guys, this is going to be aimed at those still struggling with oneitis, or those who might quite understand what it means.

Background info: Bit of a background on my episode of oneitis. I dated this girl, we will call her B, from my soph. year of high school to soph. of college. She cheated on me with someone I considered a good friend, and I took her back. Queue rambling of Bullshit that went with that, but it's not inportant. after taking her back, she then cheated on me with my roommate, someone else I had known since I was 12. This is when I came across TRP, and thank whoever, cause I needed this shit.

I'm not writing this because it matters, but to show you how large of a blow it left to my manhood, and maybe it will strike a similar chord to one of you.

All throughout TRP about ONEITIS and AWALT. But you think your special, so you don't see it that way, you think yours is different (unicorn).

You can read stories on the sidebar, but I'm going to try and put this in a different perspective. The perspective that worked for me, and prime sufferer of oneitis.

What oneitis is:

Think of oneitis as a VIRUS. Oneitis is not a noun, it is an adjective describing your mental thought process with current girls. Notice how I say that plural. When infected with oneitis, you will see most girls as someone who you long with and seek approval of, ESPECIALLY WHEN SEPARATED. it can be anyone, and as I say this you probably had a name pop into your head. With B, I don't see it as having oneitis for B, but as having a B strain of the virus. It was just my flavor of the month that I needed to get over, just like strep throat or a stomach virus. I came to a realization that you can have oneitis for multiple girls, strain A, C, D, and E, but B was the one that was most overpowering. picture this.

How to cure it:

Check out the song "same hoes" by Rick Ross. it's pretty fucking true with this.

to get rid of this virus. disassociate girls by their name. When you think of someone when you see the word oneitis, pant her black, and take her name away from her. Disassociate your strain of oneitis from itself. You can literally call every girl you meet Jackie (to yourself) and you have cured oneitis.

Let me put another comparison into your mind.

look at girls like a piece of meat. "whoa whoa this ass hole has no idea how to treat a woman"

yeah yeah, shut the fuck up and read this.

Think of every girl like a piece of steak. You order a steak, so you are getting a steak. There are perfectly succulent, mouth water, grilled to perfection steaks that melt in your mouth. Then, there are overcooked, burnt to a crisp and dryer then the Sahara desert. these are your Hb levels, a 10 being that perfect steak, and a 1 being the land whales. Then there's everything in between. There's that steak that has a little bit of fat (but you enjoy the fat sometimes, but only a little of it). There are ones seasoned differently (read: values, beliefs, morals, slut mode on/off) There are ones cooked differently, a little rare or well done, again, it's all preference (seriously a well done steak wtf you doing).

Now here's the kicker, that perfectly grilled steak, that's fake. it's not real. perfection is not real. THERE CAN ALWAYS BE BETTER! Maybe a little better seasoning, cooked slightly better, has slightly better texture. It will never be perfect.

Now, does that mean you should never eat steak because it doesn't reach your standards? Fuck. No.

Now you've had of fill of steak, but at the end of the day, it's just a fucking steak, not something that will give you need and attention and desire, it will just be fun and enjoyable to eat.

So when I say to look at a girl as a piece of meat, this is what I mean, not that ass hole caveman image you had in your mind who licks hit canine teeth and pounces like you need to have it. It's a much gentler, realistic approach that I hope will reach a few of you.

TL;DR:

A steak is a steak. A woman is a woman. AWALT