As a recent subscriber and lurker to the sub, I explain the details behind my reason to go MGTOW. My mother is a single mom, father unidentifiable. She has had a couple of rocky relationships here and there but they never stuck around for long, shocker right? Anyways, shes still my mother, and my responsibility is to take care of her as she had done me. My mother has had a critical illness since I was 16, and I had to work daily 8 hours after school so I could pay for her medication, nurse visits, rent etc. I barely scraped through high school. Her condition became worse when I was 21 and she had to be hospitalized, and I had to quit college halfway and take on a 12-14hour slightly above minimum wage job at a hotel (because I had no qualifications except for high school) with only 1 day off, that is the most off-time I could afford.

Even then, I somehow managed to get a dozen of FWBs (they upgraded themselves from ONSs on their own volition!) and most of them are from management. My whole life my mother taught be to be nice and respect women; I didn't even look at these thots and they came to *me*. Anyways the reason why I have gone MGTOW is that I am wary of being sucker-punched into a relationship I literally cant afford or have the time for. I use them to scratch my biological itch and send them on their way.

Now that I have a bit more time due to COVID19 (my hotel is still open, but due to low amount of guests I'm given alternate day shifts), I have taken an interest in touring pro-female circles to learn how to be as *LVM* as possible (I picked this up from r/FemaleDatingStrategy) so in no way any women get access to the my rainy day funds. Knowledge is power, keep your friends close, your enemies closer that sort of thing. In doing so I have noticed a few nuances and facts that I'd like to share and enlighten the MGTOWs who wont even comprehend visiting these spaces due to perceiving as a waste of time or for whatever reason (like sanity).

So first off, the Feminist movement is showing its cracks. The movement is not longer a "united front" for empowerment of women as it advocates itself to be. Now, there is an outlier group calling themselves "the 4th Wave" aka "radfems" those who oppose the sexual liberation brought on by the "3rd Wave" aka "libfems". Basically they are not happy with the "libfem" narrative of sexual positivity as they are "cheapening sex" and causing "objectification of women" by telling women to be promiscuous and shove down their body positivity onto everyone else. Of course this is not due to the the 3rdwave itself but because of "internalized misogyny" and the "patriarchy" that indulges in the commodification. Yup even when its women who are behind the whole thing the men are to be blamed. Women promiscous, women most affected.

Of course there are various other splits of the movement and other women movements, because different women have different opinions right? There is Womanism, Liberal Feminism (have lots of sex and take mens money), RadFeminism (have no sex and take mens), r/FemaleDatingStrategy (withhold sex and take mens money but keep having sex with other men while doing it), r/RedPillWomen (make him believe that you love him in a traditional sense and take mens money aka the chameleons), r/Feminism, r/PinkpillFeminism, r/BlackPillFeminism, r/SexWorkersOnly and a whole lotta other subreddits where women share their nudes for free out of their own free will.

The reason I brought up all these additional subreddits its because of a disturbing trend I notice in r/PinkpillFeminism (and probably other female spaces), where every other week there is a post on what a community or the world would look like if there were no men. Could you imagine if r/MGTOW or r/TheRedPill bring the that up the opposite every other week? There would be riots and pitchforks, it'd be called sexist and misogynist and the subs would be immediately quarantined. Oh wait, they already are even, if they don't produce this kind of content, while r/PinkpillFeminism gets a free pass bringing it up every week. Gee I wonder why. And don't you dare call it harmless or satire. It wont be harmless or funny if the genders were switched up, would it?

Why do women believe in these fairy-tales? Why do women think that all women share their own opinion and views? Why do women assume that if its woman only space its going to be sugar, spice and everything nice? Not all women certainly see eye to eye, the various subreddits I linked above give evidence to the contrary. I agree that the there is always the threat of violence by men, either be rape or abuse. Now you take away all men, who are the abusers going to be? Erm, certainly not the women because uh internalized misogyny! Wait what, that is already a thing? Same sex relationship violence and divorce is equal or higher than heterosexual relationships?? Is it possible that women wont accept all women into their spaces?? Is it possible that someone is not like the other girls??

https://ncadv.org/blog/posts/domestic-violence-and-the-lgbtq-community

https://en.wikipedia.org/wiki/Divorce_of_same-sex_couples

(Admittedly it varies from place to place, but female-female divorce rates are always higher than male-male. If you guys have any better sources to back up my claims please feel free to provide them).

Okay, let's give the benefit of the doubt of a woman only community. It would implode in record time. Why do you say so ToBeorToBeBe, that is sexist and misogynist! Well the answer is very simple. **Women simply cannot accept blame and would rather blame others**. They have no concept of accepting blame. If they fail, it's inevitably "the patriarchy was behind this" when there is no patriarchy to be found due to nature of said community or "the game was rigged from the start!!" or "internalized misogyny!!". No accepting of blame = no self-reflection and no self-reflection= no self-improvement. Same logic with women calling land whales "beautiful"; its detrimental to their health in the long term and a straight up lie.

This phenomenon reminds me of an episode of Gordon Ramsay's Hotel Hell (yes I work in a hotel, I like to watch service shows) where two strong and independent sisters were given a hotel paid for by daddy because they "felt" like running a hotel. https://youtu.be/SJPA0Pu5Z2E . Obviously it was fairing poorly, I mean why would Ramsay even visit it if it wasn't right? Ramsay asked the the 32 year old manager what she thought was the reason as to why the hotel was fairing poorly. She replied that her all female employees were "rude and unprofessional". So to resolve the situation between the management sisters and their employees, he organised a meeting. Turns out the 32 year old woman woke up at 3pm in the afternoon on the daily and couldn't even handle the cash register! Talk about unprofessional-ism and that attitude at 32 years old!! Cognitive dissonance much? Ramsay was rightfully appalled. Ironically, it was a man (aka "the patriarchy??") who had to step in order to save her female only dumpster fire of a business. I can only wonder how it's fairing now. (I mean I could look it up, but I'm probably right on my hunch so why bother).

As I was browsing r/GenderCritical, I thought it would be be gender critical of men only (given that the subreddit has a feminist symbol) but the reality is, its against trans-gendered people! Well not trans-gendered people per say but trans-gendered males (wow what a surprise). r/GenderCritical also lead me to r/LGBDropTheT , a movement where non-CIS males argue to remove the T from the alphabet soup Why do you ask? It's super simple. **The transgender community uses the same shaming tactics that the feminists and non CIS community has been using against men for decades**. Thats right. Feminists and the LGBTQ+ has been screeching for acceptance for decades now, and now that they have become the norm, the trans-gendered community have the spotlight of *the* marginalized community now and they **HATE THAT**. **The fact the trans people have a leg up in the oppression olympics makes them LIVID.**

There was a "meme" up on r/GenderCritical by (I assume) a woman. It went like this.

*Women exists*

TRAs(Trans Rights Activists): Transphobiaaaa

Thats right gents. This sounds familiar? *Men exists* PATRIARCHY!!! MISOGYNY!!! The self-awareness is non-existent. Men are hounded by "patriarchy" and "misogyny" every time we open our mouths (aka mansplaining) for decades now. Anti-TRA's are called TERFs (trans-exclusionary radical feminist) or straight up transphobes or a new one *transmisogynists*. Ladies, being called names for simply being born a certain gender doesn't feel too good, does it?

Obviously, as CIS males, we won't give a shit about Trans people ever, because literally in what way could they affect our lives? So lets see whether we can comprehend female issue with trans people. Trans women (aka men who transitioned into a women or MtFs) obviously can excel at women sports due to biology. MtFs can just be straight CIS predators trying to get easy access to female spaces (ie. female bathrooms). Those are valid issues. Thing is, the acceptance movement are the ones who created this monster! You wanted equality and acceptance for all, you got it now! Good and bad come in one package! Will they ever acknowledge that? No! Heres why: It was the 3rd wavers (libfems)!!!. Yup. The deflection games begin. The 4th wavers (radfems) will argue that it was the 3rd wavers (libfems) who enabled these behaviors, and the 4th wavers (radfems) firmly believe that physically wise they cant never be equal to a man. It was the 3rd wavers (libfems) that were accepting of everything and wanted to be like men!! Notice how they jump ship and deflect the blame when the situation doesn't favor them.

Anyhow, I am sorry to confuse you all if you can't comprehend or follow the names, the terms, and the alphabet soups. Frankly, MGTOW is the only alphabet soup you should consume. Non-CIS male spaces are not just clowns, they are entire circus. Only CIS males can't afford to act that way because if we did, we would be disposed without a thought.

In conclusion, it's simply easier, less confusing and more convenient to just walk away. Don't be ever shamed by others for your life choice of walking away, ie. you are not a real man as you ran away! How can others define the qualities of a real man and deem you as one, except by you know, a real man?