Introduction When you first start your philosophical and physically-intensive journey in RP, you start cold approaching girls and applying game. But 90% of your approaches end in rejection (Day Bang, Roosh V) . At first it hits you hard, you lose confidence and stumble a lot. And you continue to stumble a lot and on and on. You go monk mode and start again. But let's not get too idealistic. In RP we are realists. It's important to point out that you will forever continue getting rejected, so you should adopt a rejection mentality (Day Bang, Roosh V). However, you start noticing some significant changes. What changes? Well, you see a change in the way girls look at you.

 

How in shape you are One of the major cornerstones of RP is that of lifting or taking part of bodybuilding activities. The purpose of these exercises is twofold: 1) to maximize your looks and 2) improve your psychological well-being, which results from the release of endorphins and dopamine as you're lifting. Naturally, women are biologically turned on by guys who have broad shoulders, those who are buff, etc. Obviously, don't take this truth heavily. But it's just a pointer to keep in mind. After a couple of months of working out, you remake that Tinder account, take some new photos of yourself, and you start noticing that your matches are going up little by little over time. I'm not trying to sell a book and tell you this will guarantee you results. No. I'm merely stating a biological occurrence that will run in your favor in the long run. So you got the matches, or so you got the dates from cold approaching girls during the day and night from your improved looks. Now what? You notice that the girls maintain strong eye contact with you. This is when you start noticing you are making gains. You should be outcome independent either way, however, it feels good to know that a girl is actually interested in talking with you, right? You've worked so hard to gain that body and you see the results in action.

 

Leadership, communication, and confidence Perhaps you started off as a beta, or the guy that would be that nice guy just to have his way with women. Perhaps you were naturally good at talking with people or girls to begin with. Whatever you started out with, you built on your previous skills using the sidebar. You learned about agree and amplify, disagree and amplify, pressure flip, shit tests, etc. You start applying those in your conversations with everyone, not just girls. But especially with girls, who will test you nonstop to make sure you maintain frame. You learned that maintaining frame is essential, because it shows you are a man of confidence and constancy. You are not hindered by the silly remarks people give you. You are outcome independent of how others act or behave around you. You start noticing that you're getting better at communicating with others, maintaining frame, demonstrating confidence, and applying game. You also notice an interesting biconditional correlation: as more people want to be around you, the more confident you become. And the more confident you become, the more people want to be around you. Guess what is happening. More girls are maintaining that eye contact with you again. Was it your looks this time? Clearly not. It was the fact that you were a fun guy to be around with and someone that can lead during hard times.

 

Lifestyle changes Ok, so you've hit the gym for a while now, hopefully 3 to 5 times a week. Ok, you've worked on your game and you know how to start a conversation with strangers and girls that pique your interest. How about your past? Have you let go of that too and worked on your current lifestyle? Are you happy with your job, are you making enough to sustain? Are you developing a healthy diet? Are you sleeping well? Not watching pornography I hope? Not videogaming, god forbid. Surely by now you're working on fixing your lifestyle so you can focus on your passions. Perhaps you are aspiring to be an engineer, a software developer, a businessman with his own startup, etc. Whatever your dreams are, hopefully you are making steady progress in achieving them. Which brings me to another point. Are your dreams idealistic? Or realistic? Hopefully the latter, because your dreams do not always land you a job in the market. So you've got this down too. You continue gaming women, and this time you have even more interesting stuff to talk about with other people. You have talents, of course. You are a unique individual. Perhaps you are a musician. Maybe you are involved with Greek life. Maybe you're involved with a political party club or organization. Maybe you debate for fun. Whatever your talents are, hopefully you are amplifying them. With your looks, game, and lifestyle, I wonder if more people are giving you the eye. Oh wait, are girls looking at you more when you talk to them about your unique lifestyle? That you are a fun guy and that you are different from the other crowd of lazy guys? That you are independent and confident? Surely you are with this lifestyle that you have earned.

 

Unplugging from BP era Surely Romanticism is a lost cause in your mind by now. True love and unconditional love are fantasy, as you have learned from reading the sidebar. Hopefully you are open to ONS, plating women, FWBs, or RP monogamous relationships, being defined as holding frame throughout the entirety of the relationship. Surely you take a look at feminism and laugh at it in the face. You no longer accept getting friend zoned. You walk away from it the moment it begins. You are not afraid of your sexuality. You are a man. You embrace it. You do not develop beta mindsets, such as that of The Nice Guy, etc. You are not afraid to speak up and define the boundaries. You do not let others break those boundaries and when they do, you make sure they know what they did is wrong through your actions. For girls, you learned, that simply means giving them less attention and withdrawing your time. Hopefully you realize how important your time is and that others should not waste it, especially girls. Congratulations, you have become the prize. Guess who's giving you the eye again. Women tend to treat those who see themselves as kings like kings.

 

Conclusion What can you take away from this post? Well, it's quite simple. Your looks, your game, your lifestyle, and your current RP mindset have shaped the strong manly figure you are or are going to be in the future. With these changes, you have been rewarded. You are possibly getting more hook ups, more plates, etc. You notice that others look at you and respect you more, especially girls. They give you stronger eye contact, which shows how much you have grown since the first time you landed on the RP subbreddit.