Intro

A lot of guys here have been messaging me thanking me for my posts and asking for further advice to help it click with them. I keep mentioning to several people. There isn't usually one giant thing you do that makes you great at whatever you are doing. If that was the case, all my titles would be "The one reason he's getting laid, Doctors hate him for it". It's all an accumulation of tiny habits that may initially feel awkward and become a part of your overall habits and lifestyle. As all the black guys in rap would say "stuntin is a habit".

Body

If you're truly putting some of the solid foundations here on TRP into action and not just nodding your head to them, then you really have been doing a lot. You should be proud of yourself. It really is a lot for some guys who may have had none of these habits in the first place.

Lifting/nutrition/health- This is beaten to the ground, but this is a huge thing. When you first started this may have been a chore at first. It was uncomfortable. If you've pushed through this is now your therapy. It just makes you feel good now. The thought of cramming a sleeve of Oreos into your mouth may repulse you (GREAT!) and the idea of missing a workout may give you mild anxiety (It does for me). That's great. It took time to build that attitude, but it's a winning attitude, and a part of an overall great lifestyle aka it's just one of the things you do everyday because you enjoy it.

Style- This was actually a problem of mine initially. GLL actually helped me on this along with the male fashion advice subreddit. It was nothing dramatic, but it makes a difference. When most of us started, we might have had ideas that what you were wearing didn't matter. Now you won't go outside dressed like a clown. You wear clothes that fit well and at least match. You don't even think about it, but you match your shoes to your belt, and even get the occasional compliment to your style. You don't even think about it anymore. Dressing well is just what you do now. Good job. That's just another part of your overall lifestyle that you don't even think about now.

Approaching - I'm not talking about standing at the mall spamming chicks for a 2 hour period. That was always kind of weird to me, but if it works then whatever. If you initially had anxiety approaching girls, then you've basically been performing exposure therapy on yourself by forcing yourself to approach and talk to girls you found attractive. It sounds silly, but it's what you were doing and it's not easy. Some people would never do it without professional help. You should feel good about it. Now when you see a girl you find sexy, you don't stand with a finger up your bootyhole staring like a weirdo, you go talk to her. It doesn't mean she responds by throwing herself at you. If she does, then great, but if she doesn't it doesn't bother you because you've done this a 1000 time, and know that occasional rejection is normal. You're not performing sets to do this. You're living your life and doing it when the opportunity strikes. It may be only once or twice a day. That's more girls than some guys hit on in a month. You should feel good if this is part of your overall lifestyle.

Closing - I made a post recently on Killer Instinct (GLL inspired). Believe it or not, even closing quickly with chicks is also the accumulation of tiny habits and lifestyle. Are you naturally quickly touching girls you meet (not like a creep, holding their hand, hand on the back blah blah). Are you heading out the door? Do you not have anxiety to pull out that good enough sized wiener when it's time for the dirty? Do you enjoy sex more than you enjoy validation? These are habits and mindsets built over time, and if you're already there then great, and you other guys will get there if you try to enforce the habits.

Reading/hobbies I felt as if this deserved it's own mention. I'm mostly grateful to the TRP because it built a habit of reading in me. For you guys it may have encouraged an interest in other new things that never ended. You already had some interesting things going on in your life, but now you have more. It's just part of your life now and it's great. You should feel good about it. For some people, the only interesting hobby they have is watching Netflix.

Conclusion

We're all different people here, but we all have a common thread regardless of our backgrounds and goals. We all want to keep improving in some way. Keep up the good work. It's just a part of your lifestyle now. I hope you guys go out and actually do this stuff so you never have to bother reading any of my posts again.