Women's dating problems stem from dating men who are too alpha (won't commit).

Therefore, when men are looking for advice, women assume that's the problem and go on to say things like "Be nicer. Be more romantic". Meanwhile, men looking for dating advice are always too beta (doormat, not masculine enough). It is the worst possible advice they could get but women aren't consciously out to sabotage these guys. They are just looking at it from their own dating imperative.

A good LTR, if that's what you're looking for, has to have the element of seduction always present. Men are not properly taught what this means. It doesn't mean 'be nice'.

thanks u/Atlas_B_Shruggin for illuminating this concept.