I was “alpha widowed” (for lack of better wording but essentially I mean hung up on an ex) in my early twenties so much that I overlooked a guy that was even better for me/ a much better catch. This guy chased me for a year and I pushed him away. two years later we had another shot and now I’m the one heartbroken over him (he attended graduate school and now has more ladies throwing themselves at him). He was a great amazing guy from the beginning but I overlooked him because I was in so much pain over an ex.
Now that I’m heartbroken again I don’t want to repeat the cycle. Any tips on how I can make sure I don’t repeat history/ keep overlooking great guys because I’m hung up on an ex?
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