HOW do i handle this.

Im Not under the impression that my partner wont be attracted to other women. Its still shocking and hurts to see he follows models with their tits and ass out and likes all their pictures. I mean these are legit like boudoir photos in lingerie and all that.

I dont know if I should confront him about it because then I’d have to admit that yes i did go looking at who he follows. I definitely have my own insecurities and fears about long term relationships because I’ve been burned in the past by partners who were talking to other girls on instagram. I highly doubt that hes talking to others. But i just dont want to end up in a relationship one day where my guy is always looking at girls online.

I”m more annoyed because hes pretty anti feminist and believes that feminists are pro women wearing whatever they want in public. And he made such a big deal about how he doesnt follow celebs and models online because “why would i do that when i can just look at you “ *eye roll*. - brought this up on his own (i didnt ask) when we were talking about celebs and their instagram live stories during covid.

I mean dont act all pious atleast...

I really want to send him a screenshot of her profile and just straight up ask whats this about, why do you follow/ like a bunch of her pictures.. but i feel like thats the wrong aproach. I’m not sure. Its not like this is the last time this is going to come up (if the relationsihp goes the distance) so I do want to address it and altleast tell him that it bothers me, but idk how.