I find it interesting that I hear guys say they dont want 30 year olds because of baggage, bitterness, trauma, etc. As if women in their 20s are blank slate with no issues to resolve.

From my experience, women in their 30s already solved their problems compared to women in their 20s who are still trying to figure things out, or worse, dont know they have problems yet. Like mental health problems and childhood traumas.

https://www.nimh.nih.gov/health/statistics/mental-illness.shtml

In case anyone wanted statistics: Young people are more likely have mental health problems and are less likely to get treatment for them.

I do suspect a DDLG fetish going on with this obsessing with “women should maximize their SMV” and “The Wall”. Afterall, kind of hard to get fucked if she’s stable and has outgrown losers.