Women: "The idea that we're only truly attracted to a small percentage of men is pure bullshit."

Appomattoxx · 2020-05-08T15:54:07+00:00

Women: "My standards aren't high. It's just that 99% of men are losers."

inkybreadbox · 2020-05-08T12:22:35+00:00

Depends on what you mean. The percentage of men I find physically attractive is considerably larger than the percentage of men I would like to date or have sex with. I don’t want to date/sleep with someone just because they are technically physically attractive. But yeah, the percentage of men I would actually date is small. I feel like it should be for everyone if you’re really looking for true compatibility.

RamboHoodie420 · 2020-05-08T08:52:21+00:00

Facts

DebatePony · 2020-05-08T12:31:08+00:00

Someone can be physically attracted to someone and not want to date them.

Shocking I know.

blondierespondy · 2020-05-08T19:34:57+00:00

I don’t have to sort through losers based on looks, losers are, at least to me, people who talk like they don’t have a fucking inner thought process. Like I’ve tried to dig a little deeper and have conversation about some vaguely serious shit with people who I can tell are obviously either just stupid or they just don’t know if were past the level of casual conversation and they almost always just immediately change the conversation to drugs or sex or partying or whatever.

Don’t get me wrong, I love a good drug and sex party, but who did you vote for? How’s your relationship with your siblings? Do you think panini presses are worth the purchase?

flamingoinghome · 2020-05-08T14:51:15+00:00

You...you do know that you can find someone sexually attractive but not actually want to fuck or date them, right? You can be attracted to someone and know they're a bit loserly, even?

decoy88 · 2020-05-08T13:04:06+00:00

Women or Woman?

Because while true for any individual woman, women as whole are collectively attracted to a wide range of men.

Grand_Duty · 2020-05-08T14:45:53+00:00

Yeah it hurts as a guy! If you are not 6'2 and have muscles she thinks you a leper, and wants to avoid you. Women are biologically narcissistic.

StarchRunner · 2020-05-08T14:34:11+00:00

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HoneyNJ2000 · 2020-05-08T11:45:22+00:00

I don't think it's bullshit at all.

It's actually true for me (as a woman), that I'm only attracted to a very SMALL percentage of men. I find the majority of men unattractive and only a very very SMALL portion of them attractive enough to date or marry.

Just being honest.

PM_ME_JINX_FUTA · 2020-05-08T10:58:19+00:00

Men think being decent is being tall and having muscle. It isn't.

2020-05-08T16:08:32+00:00

It is only a small percentage of men that I view as awesome enough to be willing to submit to their leadership. I think part of that though is most modern men are not particularly interested in traditional masculinity or leadership. I am very generous when it comes to physical attraction but that personality needs to be on point. Regardless of appearance, most men do not have it. I am pretty sure that if my husband dies before me I will go live in a convent because I have so little faith that anyone could ever match him in my eyes.

TheseAcadia · 2020-05-08T09:18:37+00:00

Do women actually say that? I can count on my fingers the number of men I’ve been attracted to in real life in my entire 23 years of existence

pangolin001 · 2020-05-08T13:04:57+00:00

I wish it just stopped at this but it goes deeper. When women aren't attracted to men there's this deeper part of them that feels threat and revulsion. I mean, there are plenty of women I'm not attracted to but I don't feel scared or sick when they are around. Yes yes, women are going to say "well that's because men are rapists and we have to be scared" but that's a bunch of shit.

Their lizard brain wants to protect their eggs from men they aren't attracted too. That's fine. But it projects out onto the men and makes them assume ALL men are trying to fuck them. Can't even be polite or she's thinking "he wants to fuck me." I can see it in their eyes and movememnts sometimes. These irrational thoughts and feelings serve to feed the females ego that she's highly desired, even when she's completely wrong.

I see it more when I'm on my own than with my gf. Which tells me that women do use other women as 'social proof'. When I'm with my gf they can be more relaxed. They assume that my needs are met so I'm not hungry and therefore 'safe'. This doesn't stop them from thinking "he wants to fuck me" though. Hell, I had one screaming "I know you want me!" when my gf left the room. She was accusing me of flirting with her because she was singing at our house party and I said she was really good, while my gf was right there and agreed. But the second my gf left the room she was determined to have me admit that i wanted her. She was frustrated because she actualyl couldn't get that vibe from me so it drove her crazy. All I did was tlel her she's got a nice voice and she was bound and determined to make me admit I want her.

Women are ABSOLUTELY more sexist than men. It manifests differently, however. They assume 'he wants to fuck me' and I assume they are quite useless for anything except sex. It has been my revelation that the more useless a woman gets the more she depends on and hangs onto her sexuality. I mean, it makes sense. If that's all she's got she's going to hang onto it and use it. But they fucking lose it when they realize that their last and one and only tool is useless against me.

boomcheese44 · 2020-05-08T15:11:48+00:00

the majority of men are ugly, I thought we have established that by now

richlad · 2020-05-08T10:00:33+00:00

I am only attracted to pussy not the woman who come attached with it.

sharksk8r · 2020-05-08T12:12:35+00:00

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Andress1 · 2020-05-08T16:02:53+00:00

Maybe not a small percentage but less than 50% in any case.

TheonuclearPyrophyte · 2020-05-08T18:19:33+00:00

I'll be honest, I'm extremely picky with men. And women, but either I have higher standards for men, or more women meet my standards. I only find 1 man attractive out of maybe....500? At least on camera; in person, they might be too tall. While I find more than 1 out of 5 women attractive.

The numbers I would have sex with or consider a long-term relationship with are even lower. Most men these days just don't strike my fancy, and I have major trust issues, especially with women. Both men and women must be physically fit, 5'5" or shorter, no more than 5 years older than me, with hair at least mid-neck length, plus share certain spiritual, philosophical, political, and economic values. These requirements are more open-ended for women, much more narrow for men.

I'm theoretically interested in women down to 4'0", and I don't mind if they aren't so toned. As long as they aren't obese, crackhead skinny, or Mother Russia. But men must be between 5'3" and 5'5", muscular, and my age or younger. Of course, I know shit happens and it's hard to stay in shape during periods of injury or illness. And I'm not a big fan of bodybuilder types.

Not sure why I have these particular standards, but I know I'm an outlier. At least in the eyes of many men on this sub. I couldn't care less about "Chad Thundercock" or whatever, and tall men are only attractive on camera so I don't really notice how tall they are. But it is indeed true that I'm only attracted to a small percentage of men.

Sewud · 2020-05-09T00:19:10+00:00

You don't understand. A top 20% woman wants a compatible top 40% man to hit on her, not the hoarde of bottom 20% men who perma populate dating.

Sparkmetodeath · 2020-06-13T02:52:06+00:00

Have you considered that maybe women have different opinions on this issue? You’re currently assuming that all women are hive minded, uniformly thinking creatures that do not have any differing traits or views. But perhaps 50% think the first thing, and 50% the second.

Nevidimka- · 2020-05-08T14:32:00+00:00

Here's the thing : if they would have put as much money and effort in to their looks as I did (so that means heavy weight training 4x a week, healthy protein rich eating, hygiëne, nice clothes, straight white teeth (I had braces and surgery) and maybe a cosmetic procedure, then a good 70% of ~30 year old guys that a see on a daily basis get to fuckable level. When I say I see a lot of losers I mean men who don’t take care of themselves.

Bntt89 · 2020-05-08T15:29:37+00:00

This is probably true for five women max, I dont think they have the luxury of being so pick. Only really hot women have this luxury most women are realistically average. Maybe a few women with higher standards they they physically, emotionally, and intellectually present but not all women say this.

2020-05-08T15:19:44+00:00

Attraction and using are two different things.

LillthOfBabylon · 2020-05-08T16:30:29+00:00

To a teen boy that thinks dating = fucking, Im sure it would be confusing.

Iluvalmonds83 · 2020-05-08T17:53:21+00:00

I think your post is mixing up two main markets SMP and RMP .

Sexual Marketplace (buyers market) - there’s alot more men(product) filling this market, for a longer part of their life, than there are women(buyers). It makes sense that a woman can be choosy, is goes with the best product for sex. Not her fault that the most desirable product is available to her to buy.

The other inferior products (looks,game,sexual performance) are going to stay on the shelf, plain and simple.

Relationship Marketplace(product’s market) - there’s a lot more women(buyers), at earlier and longer parts of their lives, compared to men(product) filling this market. Makes sense that desirable men are picky with who they give commitment to and choose the buyer offering the best price. Certainly not his fault that he can hold out for the best, meanwhile enjoying the free sex that buyers give him until he makes up his mind.

The other low-bidding buyers bitching and moaning about not finding the product they want are like r / choosybeggars .

The losers in these markets often blame the ones in high demand instead of their competition.

Dankmemerrrrr · 2020-05-08T14:47:18+00:00

Women only go for guys with big arms and a decent body. Skinny guys get ignored

assdreads · 2020-05-08T15:10:04+00:00

There's a major difference between being attracted to somebody and wanting to date somebody decent for the long term. Attractiveness wise there are a lot of men who are genuinely attractive and good looking, and the average standards for looks for men are pretty low and attainable. When it comes to dating, of course, you'll be pickier so you can find somebody that things will work out, hopefully indefinitely and in order to do that you do have to sort through a lot of people, not just a few of them and end up in an unpleasant relationship. And I don't think there are any women who genuinely say "I have to sort through all these losers to find a decent guy". And if she did she's not decent, she's not looking for a good relationship, so why bother to give her the attention because she's loud asf.

MissJeje · 2020-05-08T15:25:21+00:00

Plenty of guys are attractive - doesn’t mean I want to date them though.

ellnsnow · 2020-05-08T15:37:30+00:00

I was dumb and got played several times for trying to give everyone a chance so yeah, it’s overall better to be selective.

vanhookjon · 2020-05-08T17:31:09+00:00

It is bullshit since 60% of men are fathers

an_angry_witch · 2020-05-08T17:36:17+00:00

so? we have standards and we are not gonna compromise on them. males would fuck a banana peel. we don't stoop to the level men have set for themselves.

males who bitch about this are the ones no woman would date. not even a desperate woman would give them her time of day and that's why men hate us.

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Title	Women: "The idea that we're only truly attracted to a small percentage of men is pure bullshit."
Author	washington_breadstix
Upvotes	238
Comments	280
Date	May 8, 2020 8:09 AM UTC (3 years ago)
Subreddit	Posted in /r/PurplePillDebate
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