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Girls that you want to fuck are on Social Media, and use Social Media to gauge and check a guy out!

I use social media as a "marketing tool" where the women I meet/date/mate/plate can find me, see that I have a lot of friends, cool hobbies, a good sense of humor, and that I travel to fun places and do fun things, and that it is perfectly okay for them to drop their panties for me. And that's that.

SM is an effective way to show off your talents, like music painting drawing or fighting, and your hobbies, like rock climbing or camping.


I first began realizing the power of social media as I was developing my youtube channel. I hit 10k subscribers quickly, and was flooded with friend requests on facebook and follows on instagram. They started showing me alot of love, commenting and liking my posts -- and the women on my friendslist noticed. I once posted a new profile picture that had high engagement, and had THREE women open me based on that one picture. 3 dates, 2 bangs, and 1 of them grew to be one of my favorite LTRs. This is not even counting the amount of times women DM me to say hi or that they like what I post! I will admit I fuck up some of my approaches because my text game sucks, but my profiles speak for themselves, spark interest, and that leads to women wanting to be a part of your life and have sex with you, or at the very least, show that you are on their radar.

Social media is a peacock game. You are the prize, not the shiny object. They should be doing the work to attract you, not the other way around. In my experience, having a great SM account leads to women opening you and wanting to be part of your life. This is referenced by how girls OPEN & MESSAGE ME first


The case against Social Media

Some view SM as purely validation seeking, and Blue Pill, and some believe that it is a waste of time, with no value.

Social Media, whether you like it or not, has ingrained itself into our society and that is not going to change. It has literally changed the world, and how the human race communicates, at a faster rate than the internet or cell phones did.

Social Media, when implemented properly is probably the most powerful form of Social Proof that we have access to.

The next argument that I see a lot, is that no one cares about your boring life and that it is useless trying to create a "fake persona".

This argument is pretty interesting because yes if you lead a boring, sedentary and completely uninteresting life. Then your Social Media and the SMV associated with it would be pretty bad.

Where the argument falls apart, however, is if you do live an interesting life, then your Social Media will display that and your SMV will be positively affected.

Now, if you have been swallowing the pill for a while. Then you may have developed some interesting hobbies, and lead an interesting life. This part, is truly where you can't be fake, and where you should be doing things because you enjoy them, not because you think chicks will like it.

As far as being a waste of time, or of no value.

The amount of time it takes to post a picture here and there of your adventures through life is very insignificant. 2 minutes a day to post a status update, maybe 5 minutes while you doing something interesting to capture the moment. 30 minutes AT MAX per week.


Guys on the trp hate social media because guys on here are antisocial by an large and are intellectuals who hate superficiality and artifice. Well guess what? Women love superficially and artifice. Who you think buys people magazine? Who watches shows like the Kardashians? Women don't understand depth but they understand shallowness much better than men do. If you want to attract women, even if you are already talking to her one-on-one, manufacturing an attractive online persona is absolutely essential.

Ask yourself what, specifically, you get from being on Facebook, Instagram e.t.c. Is there a clear, discernible, objective reason for you to be on there when you know that it's all made to cater to the most self-absorbed aspects of our nature? Whatever answer you come up with is all the reason you need to be or not to be on social media.


Men and Women's Social Media game is actually different.

Theirs is based around likes for the validation. Ours is pretty much just used as proof that you aren't a social moron.

If yours is put together well, you will have pictures of you and friends with women around doing something fun. Those pictures will likely have comments from the people involved, and have likes. That is all you really need to display your social proof.

However insignificant those likes are, they still carry a weight to a girls mind. More if you have other women commenting on your posts. This is online pres-election and dread-game.

Also, your social media can be used to show that you do cool shit on your own.

I used to rap battle when I was younger in DC night clubs, I met a new chick and she checked my instagram and saw a video of me performing and getting a huge reaction from the crowd - she then messaged me about it, I took her to watch me spit raps one day, and then we banged.

Some girls will message you from there, aka little to no effort on your part on getting dates. And when she's browsing you and picks you, she's 100% willing to be in your frame.

If you already have a high enough SMV. Showcasing it on social media is a low effort thing to do that might get you dates, and plates in the future. The hard part is increasing your SMV because you actually have to work on it.

How many people do you encounter everyday that can see your SMV? The reason why I suggest using social media as a tool to showcase my SMV is because it has worked for me many of times already. When other people see me having fun, doing my own thing, and improving my life they want to be part of that. They want to be associated with you because you are a high SMV man.

But otherwise, yes, having a good social media presence will land you more social interactions, that's a no-brainer.

most of the parties and events i go to are entirely planned and the invites sent and all that through social media. the guys who refuse to use facebook simply don't get invited and if they don't happen to hear about it from someone who did get invited they don't even know about the event.


Social media is an amazing tool for socializing. It allows you to get your name out there along with other traits and aspects of your life. I see it as an open invitation. It is especially useful to those into art or performance, or are in school and entrepreneurship. It allows you to increase your reputation and social avenues, opening up many doors (and I don't just mean the bedroom one). New contacts = new opportunities and connections. Those of you in the entrepreneurship game will be familiar with these as 'Networking'. There are many business opportunities to be found in this tool, such as affiliate marketing or paid advertisements.

I noticed that mostly people aged 30+ seem to dislike using social media for game/displaying high SMV. Social Media doesn't need to be a time drainer. Just post your pic whenever you're hitting the toilet and reap the benefits.

Social media is not a replacement for day and club game. You can still do all of that, but Sometimes, you have to have a "portfolio" or some sort for showing people or giving them an idea of what youre into.


Hot girls, Chads, popular guys, and popular people in general have very active social media accounts with a lot of followers and a lot of likes on their photos.

I actually used to have a bet with myself that I can guess who is getting the hottest girls, dating them, and sleeping with them just based on these things:

  • Social media following.

  • Likes on photos.

  • Comments on photos.

Let me just say that I was right in my assumption. The guys I saw who had thousands of Instagram followers, 100+ likes on pics, and girls commenting on their photos saying they were cute and handsome were often the ones out with hot girls on dates, making out with them at bars, and even the guys having a lot of Tinder matches.

One time I looked through the girl I was dating's phone, and she was messaging her friend about how she was jealous that other women were complimenting me on my photos

Then I started to look around and see the lives of guys who had no social media accounts, weak social media accounts, and often terrible social media accounts full of selfies and bad pics. While I found that older guys generally were okay in this regard, most young guys (<30) were often screwed and had issues in their dating lives and with women in general.

The same guys were social outcasts, sexless losers, and often the kinds of guys who had a tough time with women. I talked to some girls about it and to them, a guy with thousands of Instagram followers and good pics is "popular" and has "things going in his life" while a guy without all those is a loser.

"But who cares they're women!"

Even if you don't care for their opinions, I found that they were right. Most younger attractive women went for those kinds of specific guys with a large social media following because that is social proof in a nutshell.

The evidence is too strong to ignore.

At this point, you just can't ignore the proof.


Having a massive following and curated content will give you local celebrity level status. But if you're a normal guy think about how much effort this entails, and how much bang you get for your buck.

Seeing that you're popular on SM is a boost to your SMV immediately. Seeing that you're not can hurt it, which brings me to my last statement...


You tinder users, it can improve your success rate

You can link your instagram account to tinder. Girls go see how many followers you have, and they assume that's how many friends you have. If you have more than them. They assume you're higher value. And I know what you guys think, it's just a fucking number. But to these girls, those numbers mean a lot.

I know this may go against traditional red pill ideas on social media. However, I do believe in certain situations and in the right context you can build attraction. There is a lot of potential in social media and I think not tapping into that is a waste. Play the game right, and it will help you a tremendous amount.

Along with lifting, grooming, and professional success, social proof is a key part of your SMV. I think social game is a great tool to supplement day game if you're looking for more than just ONS.

Think of social proof just like your credit history or your work resume, having none at all can be almost as damaging as having a bad one.

Networking is crucial for professional success, just as it is for social success. Oftentimes you will find one will bolster the other. The truth of the matter is the world has moved on. Those who can't or don't adapt get left behind, as can be seen by how ineffective beta provider game is in the modern dating paradigm.


In Closing

Can you have a successful and fulfilling social life without social media? Sure, there are plenty of posters on here who have demonstrated that.

Do with this info as you like, but to me the oft recommended "delete all your social media and be a try hard lone-wolf type" advice does more bad than good.

social media can be a useful tool but it's really only helpful if you already have a solid SMV. and the content you post and the image that you create is what matters.


But this is TRP, we accept the reality. Social media is a massive determinant of female behavior and I'd argue it's shaped the way women live their lives more than anything since the 70s era corporate integration of women. Social media + the smartphone era has changed the world and it's not just yuppie fucks in big cities anymore, it's the globe.

So you have to analyze social media like a tool. If I take some time to learn and get good at using this tool, can I get a good return from it? Some of you can and should. Some of you will not be able to. For me, I did a 180 when I went to vidcon(event where all the youtubers and streamers and their fans all meet.) It's like teenage pussy heaven, like the highest concentration of jailbait in full makeup and skimpy clothes I've seen. And these people who had some sort of status on there - not even the superstars like pewdiepie or all these random youtube faggots, I mean like normal ass dudes who had a little following and were considered somewhat of a someone - were pulling insane amounts of ass. Now this is the crowd that in 2-3 years will be in colleges in their sexual prime, and social media will be a gate you have to tap into to fuck them.

I generate a couple passive-income lays a year just by meeting friends of girls I know and then realizing they had already creeped on my through instagram and I already had passed the first baseline social value test.

Now, sure, this is fucking stupid. Is this worth it? You decide - that's the beauty of the red pill. Acknowledge the reality, tally the pros and cons, tally the time cost and the rewards, and do what your logic tells you to do. Don't have a kneejerk reaction like so many TRPers have to stuff that initially seems feminine or beta.

When we are all in our 30s, there will be two types of us. One will be stuck fucking 30 year old women because that's who we can relate to and access. The other guy will be fucking 18-22 year olds. And if you look at who those girls are now, they are way, way more stuck on social media than we were.

Post big accomplishments. You lost 100 pounds? That's incredible. You graduated college with all A's? That's pretty impressive. You got a decent job after graduating college? etc. Posting things that are impressive and showcase your hard work and determination so it can be seen by a future employer, or someone of importance that can help you further your career or help you accomplish your goals.

Post things that showcase your talents and hobbies. In general, you should have hobbies that involve going outdoors and being active, so if you like to hike, post pictures of the woods that you're walking through, if you like to bike, maybe post some footage from the go-pro you have on your helmet, etc.

Post pictures of you with inordinately hot women (and obviously together) with public privacy and watch how social proof works. It's truly magical.


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