My brother (26/M) has a one year old son with a woman he was never in a relationship with, apparently they were friends with benefits.
Long story short she got pregnant, he wanted her to abort and she refused, she had the baby, he got a DNA test confirming he’s the dad, now he pays child support. They share custody.
I had dinner with him the other day and as usually he bitched about how child support is unfair, etc. I told him for the first time that it’s his fault. He chose to have sex knowing the risk of pregnancy. He got mad and said it’s not fair because women can abort but men can’t, I told him he knew that before he has sex with her but he still risked it. He called me an asshole, but I was just being honest.
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I just woke up and I’m surprised at all the hate messages I’ve gotten from other guys. I AM A MAN. So many of the hate messages assume I must be a woman because I believe in sexual responsibility. Wtf is wrong with men today... this shit is weird.
[–]smokeythecat4202 points3 points4 points (3 children) | Copy Link
Comment section is interesting and worth reading
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[–]ProfetenEdgar5 points6 points7 points (1 child) | Copy Link
How come when it's a woman it's her body her choice, but when it's a man he has to be responsible?
[–]SquattermalianGibzme1 point2 points3 points (0 children) | Copy Link
yAlL cAnT bEhAvE
[–]vorpalraven1 point2 points3 points (0 children) | Copy Link
True, he made his choice to have sex, so did she. But she made the choice to keep the child, so why should he have to pay for her choice?
[–]Xxtourlife-3 points-2 points-1 points (3 children) | Copy Link
Nah Bruh,I agree with OP
He lay his bed and he has to sleep in it.It was nice when Screwing FWB,But now he fucked up.
I'm getting slack,Before u downvote,Read the Original comment
[–]Kitsunemitsu1 point2 points3 points (2 children) | Copy Link
In an ideal world
BOTH Parents get to decide whether to keep the kid or not.
[–]Xxtourlife0 points1 point2 points (1 child) | Copy Link
Bruh,Go read the original post.
I agree 9000% with u on both parents having access to the kid,But in that post,OP says that his brother made his bed by having FWB.
They are not talking about what u saying.
People,Read u sources
[–]bruh__bot1 point2 points3 points (0 children) | Copy Link
bruh 🔥🔥💯🙌😡😤