So, I've been having conversations with a friend of mine that I met 6 months ago. In those conversations, he talks about how much trouble hes in financially, and how his wife is in charge of the finances, how she buys whatever she wants and then complains when hes not working, or buys something he needs for his business. He doesn't have good money management skills either, but he says it's not about the money, and that he's scared of losing his wife. (2nd marriages for both of them.) I tried to tell him, it's his responsibility to lead, and get his house in order, but I'm not married, and he says I just dont understand, but when I get married I will. I responded with Adam and eve, and AWALT and how Adam was to lead, and he abdicated to eve, and now we're here. He agreed, and it seemed to make since to him, so I'd like to slowly lead him down that road.

I would like to slowly introduce some red pill thoughts. What article do you guys think would be helpful to share with him for an introduction? (I'm thinking copy and paste, so I dont freak him out with RP immediately. ) I told him just briefly about the captain/first mate analogy, and that made sense to him.