Everyone's heard of the 80/20 rule here. 80% of women are sexually attracted to 20% of men in our society. These 20% of men are having the vast majority of the sex.

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But is the 80/20 rule actually being pretty generous? Just from observing in real life over the years, I think the 80/20 rule has gotten even more skewed. Especially since dating apps have come about and the younger generation of women are more picky than ever before. I think this rule is closer to 90/10 or even 95/5. It's really rare to come across men who women have a genuine sexual desire for - even many decent looking, confident men have to wait until the conditions are just right (i.e. she's at the right point in her ovulatory cycle and she's drunk).

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Every man has to meet a woman's expectations based on the best fuck she's had in the past - women are always judging you against the best man she's had so far in her life (hypergamy in action). This means that if one high status, extremely sexually attractive man has had sex with 200 women, these 200 women will not have sex with a man below his level, because she thinks she "deserves" at least as good as him. This has become even worse since dating apps have been introduced, because women can search for the hottest chads in their local area, and thus even many decent looking guys must now compete with the top 1-2% of genetically gifted males.

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As a guy, there is also a horrible situation we must face - yes we can lift, cut our body fat, eat well and stay in great shape. But you can never compete with the guy in the gym who uses steroids. That's a fact. Guys who use steroids will just always have better bodies, assuming they put in the effort in the gym. These days, it's not enough to just lift. Lifting is the bare minimum. You need to be on bodybuilding drugs to compete with these chads. I knew a guy who was a natural in the gym, great diet and routine, didn't get very much pussy. Since he went on steroids, his interest from women skyrocketed.

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What are your thoughts?