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Disgusting. Men like this have no business with women. Blue Pill on front page.

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June 16, 2020

The woefully pathetic inquires that end up on the relationship subreddit is a true representation of the bottom half of male society. I urge you to avoid any chance of tainting your mind. However, this post ended up making its way to the front page and I couldn't help but gag.

"[UPDATE] You were right. I ignored every single one of your comments and eventually caught my wife with the other man"

One of the few tenets that are repeatedly taught here is to either extinguish a fire while it is still an ember or walk far away and let the house burn down on its own. This man allowed a small indiscretion to become a larger indiscretion and it cost him nothing more than his pride and sanity. In the previous post we learn of a "man" who caught his wife in a compromising situation. Here is an excerpt:

Last Christmas, I found she had been having a long conversation with a coworker of hers, in which they talked about having had sex multiple times and that they couldn’t wait for the next one. The guy said he was going to book a hotel near their office right after Christmas. In this conversation, when he said he was looking forward to seeing my wife, she would reply with things like “I’m looking forward to much more than just seeing you”, etc. You get the idea. Overly flirty and sexual.

And thats it. Thats where this story should end. If you care about your well-being, it's over at this point.

The number 1 mistake you can make when dealing with infidelity is showing any sort of acceptance. Once it is clear that you are willing to overlook a females lustful character, then you are no longer in control. DO NOT RATIONALIZE. "You get the idea. Overly flirty and sexual" - this man is so blinded by the unicorn of a slut he has on his hands that he reduces clear disregard of the marriage to playful flirting.

My wife says she’s going to change this time and that I never really forgave her and that’s why she kept talking to the guy. She says this time she’s really going to stop but I have a hard time believing it.

Poor guy had a hard time believing his wife would stop. And since you are reading this here, you know the end of the story. Long story short. He moves out for a few months to get therapy and clear his head. Here is some advice. If your relationship is the root cause of you needing therapy, then you need to get out of that relationship. After his self-realization and forgiveness phase, he walks back to his wife with open arms and ready to start anew, only to find her stud co-worker hiding naked in the bedroom closet. But here is the part that really disgusts me. After all this women put him through, here is how he references her.

I knew it wasn't true but was willing to forgive the woman of my dreams, who continued being in the highest altar of my universe. I'm sorry. I still love her to death.

There are just certain people you cannot shake any sense into. They are a lost cause. The reason this women felt 0 guilt in what she did was because she was placed so high up, that she knew she could do no wrong. There is no reason anyone reading this would let it get that far. This is an EXTREME example of blue-pill cuckery. That is obvious. But there are some truths to be found here.

  • Do not react. Any reaction that isn't you walking away is more than you should be doing. They dont deserve any more.
  • It is in her nature. If you are not familiar with the story of the frog and scorpion, go read it. A scorpion will sting anything simply because it is in its nature. Do not be surprised when women act like women.
  • Do not place anyone higher than yourself. Maybe a hero father or saint brother can be an exception, but for all purposes, your own identity should be your main priority. Do not allow any person to overtake that.
  • Cut your losses before they cut you. This one is obvious. There is always another route to take.

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Title Disgusting. Men like this have no business with women. Blue Pill on front page.
Author drbrockstar69
Upvotes 678
Comments 150
Date 16 June 2020 11:57 PM UTC (7 months ago)
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[–]rickyyfitts50 points51 points  (8 children) | Copy

It's just a pitiable situation. How can one not see the bigger picture? Guess they never realise their self worth as a human being. Upbringing and IQ both play a role here

[–]TruthSeekingPerson35 points36 points  (1 child) | Copy

He was likely raised and indoctrinated by women and has no idea how nature works.

You can never fight nature.

[–]mikrodizels14 points15 points  (5 children) | Copy

Lots of times, guys that get bullied a lot in childhood get all their self worth beaten out of them, and that continues into their adulthood, unless they get into a social circle with decent people, that can notice and help them snap out of it.

Kids are like dogs, you beat them down long enough and they will start to think that they deserve it.

[–]rickyyfitts2 points3 points  (2 children) | Copy

You're right about kids. But how do you explain individuals who are in their 20s 30s or even 40s who refuse to see the red pill knowledge. It feels like a choice, to be in a comfort zone along with a lack of intelligence to study and understand society and people.

Or maybe it's just too much to ask of people. Some just want to live this life and get it over with. Embarking on a journey of spirit and hardship is not everyone's cup of tea

[–]jewishsupremacist882 points3 points  (0 children) | Copy

IQ man. corporate america is full of average middle class cucks like this.

[–]1chopping_livers0 points1 point  (0 children) | Copy

Lack of ambition.

Reasons vary.

[–]ryuamakusa_daq2 points3 points  (1 child) | Copy

Is a parent being a screamer (even for small things) and berating the kid similar to bullying or is it in a different category?

[–]mikrodizels4 points5 points  (0 children) | Copy

Could be both. The main point is that a person can become timid and discouraged by being punished for doing the right things, like self improvement.
Like Jordan Peterson once said - if you really want to punish someone, don't punish them when they do something bad, punish them when they do something good. A kid that tries his hand at sports and gets bullied for TRYING and gets laughed out of the gym for being a beginner can really fuck people up mentally. Same goes for rejection from women early, while not knowing that rejection is just part of life.
"I guess picking up women is not for me, so MGTOW!!!!"

[–]SweatyElk117 points18 points  (4 children) | Copy

aborted several of his children without even telling him

Jesus that would be the one thing that could almost drive me to violence.

[–]pbar7 points8 points  (2 children) | Copy

Three times. Imagine, after the first time, ever letting the woman near your dick again.

[–]Alakazamon12 points13 points  (1 child) | Copy

Her pussy haunted lmao, straight graveyard up in this bitch

[–]StonedAlligator1 point2 points  (0 children) | Copy

Yeah...evil like that...shit that’s really, really evil - and this does cross that threshold - it begets yet more evil. Be careful out there.

[–]MilkMoney11115 points16 points  (0 children) | Copy

The sad part is the woman has reached her peak desire. She has maximized her hypergamy. Maximum commitment from a beta to provide security while obtaining the genetics of the alpha. So she will NOT change. She has no reason to.

Imagine being a king with a harem of bitches and one says “no more sex from me.” Are you going to see the “error of your ways” all the sudden? Hell no, you’ve peaked, you’ve maximized YOUR masculine nature. You replace her with several more. Preferably younger, tighter, prettier. You have no reason to change.

These women inherently know the game and their feminine nature. She will continue to use the dude and feel great about it. I honestly can’t blame her.

I just get frustrated with dudes that are that fucking dense. But more power to the womynz I suppose. Let the providers provide.

[–]Rememberthecodex13 points14 points  (1 child) | Copy

At least the altar is occupied by the lesbowhore so he is safe.

[–]BPasFuck4 points5 points  (0 children) | Copy

Good point. He'll never have to worry about wicked witch #2. Lesbowhore got him on lockdown.

[–]innerpeice7 points8 points  (1 child) | Copy

a lot of guys are mistreated at a young age or outright neglected by their mother during puberty or even younger. this starts the downward spiral of choosing women who neglect them like mommy did.

its a shame how many mens lives are wasted on this crap

[–]redknightcrusader2 points3 points  (0 children) | Copy

Truth, this cuts men deep. Mommy Issues is just as tough for a guy to overcome as Daddy Issues are for a girl.

[–]Coolrubbings145 points146 points  (8 children) | Copy

The less options a man has, the more afraid he is of his current partner leaving him,

And the more of her bullshit he will tolerate.

[–]1empatheticapathetic72 points73 points  (6 children) | Copy

thinks he has

This is why abundance mentality is a concept that is pushed on this sub. In my experience, location is one big factor stopping men from realising what number of options they really have.

Some people just can’t unfuck their minds and remove the learned helplessness. Sometimes they don’t want to. Guy in the OP clearly doesn’t want to despite likely having the ability to do so.

[–]blearx2 points3 points  (5 children) | Copy

What do you mean with location? As in which city/town someone is in?

[–]1empatheticapathetic18 points19 points  (4 children) | Copy

A guy may have 10 girls into him in one town and 200 in another. Location was the biggest factor for me and it’s the reason my brother will remain a simp for the rest of his life.

[–]phibetared1 point2 points  (0 children) | Copy

Same for me. Current situation, due to family obligations made me leave a great city where I had 2 different girls a week, easy. Where I am now, nothing worth approaching. Will get back to city eventually, but time is ticking.

[–]Revolverboi15 points16 points  (0 children) | Copy

Its not only that but when you dont experienced atleast say 10 women in a ltr or short term. How can you know whats a good women or a bad ? You need to learn the skill women like you need to learn how to repair different cars from different brands. Theres some pro and some contra.

When you only experienced your oneitis and married her + 2 childrens, thats what russian roulette is called, either you had luck or the ltr need work part comes to play for the rest of your life.

[–]RealMcGonzo90 points91 points  (6 children) | Copy

My wife says she’s going to change this time

I do not understand how anyone can write that without doing a double take.

[–]silent_dominant31 points32 points  (0 children) | Copy

"This time"

Makes my toes curl

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[–]ParsnipsNicker3 points4 points  (1 child) | Copy

A female friend

This is a joke right? Either fuck or get off the pot. Nobody wants to be friends with females. Not even females.

[–]Nobb_at_nite0 points1 point  (0 children) | Copy

Nah you just move in shit social circles.

[–]AstralAeonSoul1 point2 points  (0 children) | Copy

If she's cheating on everyone, who's to say she won't cheat on her country? She'll switch sides as easily as she cheated on all those guys. Should have dropped her ass ages ago.

[–]Eyeball3k51 points52 points  (10 children) | Copy

At least every second day I see a post on 'relationship advice' like this.

I once commented giving some Redpill advice and suggested the guy looks to this sub (I had a holy moment of wanting to save another bro).

Well my comment was blocked by mods in favour of the 'give her a chance' & 'sorry man, if it's true love she will come back to you' posts that swamped the replies.


The Redpill has to be found NOT given and society as a whole don't want men to wake up.

Only those who want to awake and take the plunge can truly be free.

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[–]Eyeball3k24 points25 points  (0 children) | Copy

Nice one - you may have saved a soul from a life of misery.

[–]dopexile21 points22 points  (1 child) | Copy

My favorite was one where this guy found a morning-after pill box in the trash can. I explained to him that this meant a guy was emptying his balls into his wife. I got like -400 downvotes and was called an asshole\moron by Reddit. The top upvotes had strange women's health medical rationalizations as to why a woman might use the morning after pill besides avoiding impregnation.

Sure enough, a few days later the guy found out the truth.

People believe women are heavenly angels that can do no wrong so when the reality is right in front of them they find strange ways to rationalize it.

I have to wonder how much of this behavior is motivated by liberal feminists' beliefs towards Men. The news media and social networking are flooded with propaganda about how women are paid less than men for doing the same work, how they are discriminated against, how the patriarchy oppresses them, MeToo movement, Rape culture, etc.

Once you accept the premise that Men are evil then you can go full sociopath mode. It probably makes them feel comfortable and justified in lying, doing shady behavior, and ending a marriage.

[–]Eyeball3k5 points6 points  (0 children) | Copy

Ignorance is bliss to many people.

[–]TheGreatConst6 points7 points  (0 children) | Copy

IDK, I checked the comments for his previous post and the top answers are "Dude, you are being blind", "Flirty? They've clearly been nailing each other. Tell her to....and feel free to paraphrase..."fuck right off", and " RUN.SAVE YOURSELF.". Society sure is bluepill, but not completely cucked.

[–]valourtore[🍰] 7 points8 points  (4 children) | Copy

Never help another man, if he’s intelligent enough he’ll realise on his own

If not, he deserves to rot like the rest

Exceptions if he is your family member or smth

[–]RedGille26 points27 points  (2 children) | Copy

I say, give 'em the pill if they are ALMOST there by themselves.

When I found the pill, I was almost there, just needed to hear it from other people.

Only when the student is ready...

[–]Echo60918 points19 points  (0 children) | Copy

This. We are our brothers keeper.

[–]HerefortheTuna1 point2 points  (0 children) | Copy

Agreed. I’m glad I found this sub three years ago. My life is better. I didn’t struggle with women before but I didn’t understand their nature.

[–][deleted] 3 points4 points  (0 children) | Copy

Never help another man, if he’s intelligent enough he’ll realise on his own

Be wary of giving advice, a wise man won't need it and a fool won't heed it.

[–]Austrian_madman148 points149 points  (1 child) | Copy

Infidelity? Yeet that bitch. She wouldn’t have cared about your feels, why would you care about that p.o.s?

Yes, AWALT, but some women at least acknowledge TRP and try to understand/live it.

If she’s a hoe, don’t wife her, don’t have kids (unless you want to spend useless money) and certainly don’t trust her. You could duck countless bitches, that you don’t have to use up all your beta-credits for.

End of story.

[–]BoJvck34Empire35 points36 points  (0 children) | Copy

It’s sad that you even have to post this, but some guys just don’t get it.

Blue Pill = Clueless Cuck Clan

[–][deleted] 61 points62 points  (47 children) | Copy

There really is no way to keep a bitch loyal. The only way you can maybe pull it off is if she knows you will leave her if you find out. And I dont mean leave her and create a firestorm of drama. I mean like next her and be disappointed but not surprised

Remember, women dont often leave men that have options, so keep your game tight, and no matter what, you will be ok.

[–]drbrockstar69[S] 16 points17 points  (14 children) | Copy

If she knows you care less then her, she will do whatever to keep it alive

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[–]drbrockstar69[S] 39 points40 points  (8 children) | Copy

The fact that he went out of his way to message you instead of walking way, then it’s obvious he was chasing her

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[–]Domebeers4 points5 points  (6 children) | Copy

you made a girl your 'ltr' while she was 'officially' seeing another dude? That's not good vetting. Nothing to brag about.

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[–]1DubbleFUPAwitCheez5 points6 points  (1 child) | Copy

long distance relationship

Even more evidence that LDRs do not exist.

[–]unhappy_browsing0 points1 point  (0 children) | Copy

And even more evidence to never trust a girls girlfriends

[–]novalentineforyou2 points3 points  (2 children) | Copy

In hindsight were there any signs?

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[–]mexipill2 points3 points  (0 children) | Copy

You say it like it’s a bad thing but in all our human complexity. We’ve found rules and behaviors that half of the people seldom deviate from. I think that’s pretty amazing.

It makes me wonder about amalt.

[–]silent_dominant15 points16 points  (0 children) | Copy

Did you reply with: " if you're a smart guy, I'm fucking your ex"?

[–]skyrunner2211 points12 points  (1 child) | Copy

Yea, when they are uber submissive like you say you dont really need to dial it up that high. Like a nob on a frequency you have to kinda pay attention and see what makes sense. Dawg ass hoes, turn it to the max and it still might not be enough.. Calibrate is the name of the game..

But even if you do it right sometimes, Awalt, lol..

[–]BPasFuck4 points5 points  (0 children) | Copy

Hah. Was he really her bf though?

Some guys will put that label on things, but if you were to ask the woman she'd say 'he's just a friend,' and not even be lying.

Niceguys believe they've earned the title, even when they haven't fucked.

In any event, probably not worth the drama.

[–]Endorsed ContributorSKRedPill1 point2 points  (0 children) | Copy

If there is one expectation to drop it is that things will last. That's attachment to a preset outcome.

Everything and everyone comes and goes. It's only a matter of when and how. So enjoy it while it lasts, and learn how to untie all those knots when the time comes to cut loose.

[–]ChadUnbannable1 point2 points  (15 children) | Copy

Islam has a couple great ideas o. Keeping bitches loyal lmao

[–]JimmyTheIntern12 points13 points  (6 children) | Copy

It's not surprising that a death cult founded by a mass murdering, child-raping slaver has some ideas on how to keep human property in line. Not really useful for civilized people, though.

[–]ChadUnbannable8 points9 points  (5 children) | Copy

Still doesn’t change the fact that your “civilised people” are committing demographic suicide while the death cultists explode like breeding rabbits.

You can wring your hands all you want and pronounce judgement on them from your morality, which is quite correct, but at the end of the day if your bloodline dies out and theirs survives, the world doesn’t really give a shit about “high minded civilisation” does it.

It’s the Red Pill about Reproductive Demographic warfare. Denying it won’t change that it works

[–]JimmyTheIntern3 points4 points  (4 children) | Copy

Sure, they might all be inbreeding themselves into permanent genetic inferiority, but at least they're breeding?

No. Quality over quantity.

Though as far as bloodlines dying out, I guess marrying your cousin is a pretty good way to keep that bloodline going. For the pre-civilized, anyway.

[–]ChadUnbannable-5 points-4 points  (3 children) | Copy

Keep doing what you’re doing man.

You’re childless right now and they ain’t.

Quality has ZERO children

Quantity has 20.

With 20, quality can be created.

With Zero you get a thumb up your ass.

But please don’t change your mind. The extinction of mentally feeble and inferior people is good for humanity. And your mental masturbator kinds are good riddance

[–]TheGreatConst5 points6 points  (1 child) | Copy

Extinction of a population is literally impossible in a modern world, lol. Simple math would let you understand that even if current birth rates in any modern country decreased by tens of times it would still take hundreds of generations for complete extinction. Anyway, who gives a fuck about humanity? I only give a fuck about my own life and, at most, my children and grandchildren. I don't give a fuck what would be 200 years later, I would be long dead.

[–]turbospeedsc3 points4 points  (0 children) | Copy

i think the same, everytime i see guys claiming theyre more alpha, because theyre childless its a very funny oxymoron.

I migth have gone beta in many ways and fucked over one or maybe two marriages, yeah lost lots of money, buuuut, i have 2 kids with two different beautiful women, so more chances and more diverse bloodline.

A friend of mine is a complete loser in most senses, but the guy has like 6 kids with different women a 4 of them are 8+, for nature he is a very successful organism.

[–][deleted] 1 point2 points  (0 children) | Copy

The extinction of mentally feeble and inferior people is good for humanity.

Dafuq? What is it about "enjoy the decline" that you don't understand?

This is no place for collectivist thinking. Fuck society.

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[–]ChadUnbannable11 points12 points  (6 children) | Copy

Not bad but you know what these societies have that repress women? A HUGE POSITIVE BIRTHRATE

You know what societies have the “understand” women? A declining birthrate and a dying people

So, I prefer to learn from successful people what works and not from failing civilisations

[–]Sumsar011 point2 points  (3 children) | Copy

I think this comes down to more factors. For example in the west we have low growth, high cost of loving and houses are expensive. People usually dont form families under these condotions.

[–]ChadUnbannable2 points3 points  (2 children) | Copy


Actual research has proven that m, in the west, the biggest factor to bigger families is cheap housing.

And we are being priced out of the cities where everyone ruts like sterile mules but don’t procreate.

[–]turbospeedsc0 points1 point  (0 children) | Copy

Exactly, i wouldn't mind having a bigger family if i could afford it, but at least in México making 3.5x minimum wage i can barely afford a 2bd house without going over 40-50% monthly income.

[–]Sumsar010 points1 point  (0 children) | Copy

The Boomers will start to die off soon. Hopefully that will spread out some of the wealth. As long as to much 3rd world trash isn't imported low birthrates might be fine. After the Black Death came the Renaissance. Most things in life oscillates around equilibrium.

[–]TheGreatConst-2 points-1 points  (1 child) | Copy

Overpopulation is a problem, not something to be proud of. I personally think that birthrates should be controlled by the government to avoid overpopulation, but it is already too late for China and India. Quality is more important than quantity. Hundred million people is already a lot for an average country, why would you need even more people, for what? In modern times the quantity of humans doesn't even matter when it comes to wars. The USA or Russia could easily destroy India if it comes to it. The quantity also doesn't matter that much for economics, overall education and high tech production does.

[–]VirileAlphaChad2 points3 points  (0 children) | Copy

It's a problem, but not for us. Restricting our growth would lead to us being crushed by those that grow uninhibited, as some european countries already are. We can stop growing once everyone agrees that we should do so, a single people deciding that they will take more of the ressource pile will prosper while the others wallow in self pity.

[–]TheGreatConst0 points1 point  (14 children) | Copy

You are right, but you are also wrong. There are enough women who wouldn't cheat even if they want because of their upbringing or religious views. Women are hypergamous, sure. But men are polygamous which is supposed to be even "worse" for any monogamous relationship. And still, many men don't cheat even if they want and have an opportunity. Also, back when divorce laws weren't so beneficial for women, they were less willing to cheat because they financially depended on a man and being found out cheating was equal to life in poverty unless you find someone desperate enough to take care of you and your children.

[–]Endorsed Contributorsadomasochrist5 points6 points  (7 children) | Copy

Your post : Some women aren't beholden to biology or evolution.

That stuff will buy a guy time if she's naive enough, but ultimately this is where a woman's hamster comes into play.

You honestly think big daddy evolution didn't put a backdoor in for that pesky feeling of guilt?

[–]TheGreatConst0 points1 point  (6 children) | Copy

Do you understand that men are polygamous by nature, right? You are just spouting nonsense right now.

[–]Endorsed Contributorsadomasochrist0 points1 point  (5 children) | Copy

How is this related to your post?

[–]TheGreatConst1 point2 points  (4 children) | Copy

By your logic people can't win against evolution. Men are polygamous. Do you really believe that all men cheat at the first opportunity they get?

[–]Endorsed Contributorsadomasochrist6 points7 points  (3 children) | Copy

It's more accurate to say that people are compelled to their evolutionary goal. To your question, it's more accurate to say "would all men cheat if they were constantly given opportunities to achieve their evolutionary goal?"

Most would. Just that men aren't handed those opportunities.

Where as women always have a line of suitors waiting for their turn.

It just takes a while before she comes up with a compelling narrative why he's wrong and deserves to be dumped\cheated on.

Ultimately at the end of the day, if a woman doesn't want to fuck you, the relationship is over. If she wants to fuck someone else more, the relationship is over.

Such a thing isn't necessarily true for men because of their wide arousal windows.

Ultimately what I'm saying is the distinction between "wouldn't cheat because she believes she'll die in hell", doesn't want to fuck you, wants to fuck other men, and is fucking other men is all superfluous.

[–]1DubbleFUPAwitCheez5 points6 points  (0 children) | Copy

I don't think our friend here can get past all the "noise" of modern society to understand what you mean here. If grug has a woman walk up to his cave and he already has 5 women, if he can feed a 6th he has 6 women. No other questions asked. That's how men are naturally polygamous.

[–]TheGreatConst1 point2 points  (1 child) | Copy

Have you ever heard about prostitution? In any country where it isn't illegal to buy a hooker (it is the case for the USA and most other western countries, the exceptions are Canada, Netherland, and a couple of others) any man has an opportunity to fuck a hottie for about 200$. In some countries, it is even legalized (i.e. you have a broader choice and no stigma or risks), doesn't change the fact that bluepill men don't cheat. Women could be "bluepill" in the same way as well if they are brainwashed by their parents, society, or religion. There are a lot of women in Muslim (and not only) countries that consider it their life mission to serve their man and even thinking about cheating on their husband makes them disgusted. It isn't only about being afraid of being hit by stones, lol. In my country (Russia) there are some very loyal women who can't even think about cheating or branch swinging.

And yeah, there is a big difference between desiring others and actually doing it. Most men, no matter how bluepill, still want to fuck other women. By your logic, it shouldn't matter for their women if they actually do it or not, but it does matter, a lot. In this sense, men have it better, as women will only want to fuck other dudes when you can't satisfy them or there is someone better available. Then again, if you were her best choice when she was 25, how could she have access to anyone better ten years later after she hit the wall?

[–]Endorsed Contributorsadomasochrist0 points1 point  (0 children) | Copy

Are you insinuating that men and women are more or less the same?

[–][deleted] 7 points8 points  (5 children) | Copy

If you are counting on a womans upbringing and religious views to keep her loyal than you are dumber than a bag of rocks and shouldn't be posting in TRP

[–]TheGreatConst1 point2 points  (4 children) | Copy

Does upbringing and religion guarantee anything? No. Do they make the chance of failure lower? Yes. Please don't be ridiculous. Statistically, most people don't even cheat. Statistically, in many countries divorce rates are less than 80%. Statistically, there are enough long-lasting marriages without any cheating. Humans, men or women, are different from other animals and can control themselves to some extent. There are things that are more important than just some tasty fuck. Moreover, most men don't even can give a woman proper orgasm, by my experience with taken women none of them get a proper fuck or orgasm from their man, none of them are dominated in bed by their husband or bf. Just solving this alone would make her cheating or branch swinging so much less likely.

[–][deleted] 3 points4 points  (2 children) | Copy

So your advice is to find "good girls" and "give them orgasms"?

[–]Redagogue0 points1 point  (1 child) | Copy

Only if she goes to church on Sundays.

It's endlessly fun spectating these people crafting blue pill dreams with red pill tools. It's one thing when blue pillers are building their blue pilled sand castle dreams on the beach and are puzzled when it keeps washing away, but purple pilled zealots think bringing in the red pill excavator will keep the sand castle from washing away either. Maybe don't try to build something that is fundamentally unstable. Weirdly, the purple pill fanatics cling to their delusions stronger than most blue pillers to theirs.

[–]SoldierTheHero2 points3 points  (0 children) | Copy

This makes a lot of sense to me. Also, I’m really dominant in bed and I can notice a big difference in women when I am vs when I’m not. When you wear them out, just own them in bed, leave them exhausted and worn out, they are happy to stay curled up in my lap. It’s when they start to get less of the domination, thats when issues have started.

[–]Hjalmbere12 points13 points  (0 children) | Copy

The blue pill is stronger with some men. Oneitis is a bitch and I’m happy I never got it so bad I would tolerate infidelity even before the red pill.

[–]Old_Traveller32 points33 points  (3 children) | Copy

I knew it wasn't true but was willing to forgive the woman of my dreams, who continued being in the highest altar of my universe. I'm sorry. I still love her to death.

May COVID-19 mutate and kill us all. Our species is way past the expiration date.

[–]Korrangar22 points23 points  (0 children) | Copy

This quote is like a blue-pill caricature, damn

[–]Blazer80813 points14 points  (0 children) | Copy

I knew it wasn't true but was willing to forgive the woman of my dreams, who continued being in the highest altar of my universe. I'm sorry. I still love her to death.

Definitely got some sort of disease just from reading that

[–][deleted] 1 point2 points  (0 children) | Copy

There are days - good christ are there days - where I feel the same.

Usually it's any day I have to listen to young people in our family so much as open their mouths. At which point I'm convinced we are doomed anyway, so fuck it.

[–]KnownBeaner31 points32 points  (0 children) | Copy

I saw that losers post earlier. I died reading it haha

[–]____Weabooo_V26 points7 points  (0 children) | Copy

Take this as a sign, never under any circumstance should you ever ignore any signs of infidelity

[–]solstone1096 points7 points  (0 children) | Copy

How incredibly sad. It hurts me to see dogs happily crawl back to abusive owners.

[–]ChadUnbannable23 points24 points  (3 children) | Copy

He’s a weak man and weak men deserve this.

Nature and survival of the fittest is a bitch.

If you won’t take the red pill normally, society will give it to you anally and you’ll get it shoved up your ass

[–]AgreeableHelicopter22 points3 points  (2 children) | Copy

society will give it to you anally and you’ll get it shoved up your ass

Whats the difference between getting it anally AND shoved up your ass?😂

[–]BPasFuck1 point2 points  (0 children) | Copy

Well-- getting it anally could involve a certain amount of helpful lubrication, and gentle pressure to ease the process. Blue-pill affirmations, media programming, cultural structures designed to indoctrinate, etc.

Even with all of that-- there are still areas like the legal system, and others where things can get rude.

[–]mtriad12 points13 points  (10 children) | Copy

I wonder if it's just a troll

[–]Old_Traveller6 points7 points  (2 children) | Copy

Trolls wouldn't write that because they're smart enough to know that no one would fall for something like that. Truth really is stranger than fiction.

[–]parvdave0 points1 point  (1 child) | Copy

It's more likely that a dumb troll made this post than an even dumber BP man.

[–]mp1117 points8 points  (0 children) | Copy

IMO, if incels can exist, so can these dudes. Some people are so happy they finally get pussy they will do anything to keep it

[–]saynotokooIaid6 points7 points  (2 children) | Copy

Surely there's no way someone's this much of a cuck

[–]GuyWithAnAngel2 points3 points  (0 children) | Copy

You'd be surprised. And for your own sake I'm glad you've never met any.

[–]flacko_red6 points7 points  (0 children) | Copy

I agree. I understand that many men are blue pilled, but blue pill doesn’t have to mean you have zero self respect does it?

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[–]mtriad3 points4 points  (0 children) | Copy

To be honest - I don't doubt it but only because I've been to dark places before.

I feel sorry for them.

[–]myrainyday[🍰] 4 points5 points  (4 children) | Copy

Poor guy, he has no self worth at all. It just feels as if something was taken from him and he is just a spectator in his own life.

They are not a good match.

[–]GuyWithAnAngel3 points4 points  (3 children) | Copy

If that isn't the understatement of the year.

It's your time and effort that goes into a relationship and you have every right to ask, "What's in it for me?" At a minimum if you loose more than you gain then run.

Your self worth should be your highest priority. Never sacrifice your self worth for anything or anybody. I don't care how much of a goddess she is.

[–]myrainyday[🍰] 1 point2 points  (2 children) | Copy

Just a minor addition to this :Gods and Godesses don't walk among us. Everyone has their own good and bad side.

But when it comes to this particular story it just made me sick in my stomache. I just don't respect cheaters. But at the same time I am a bit mad at that guy for losing his character and personality.

I have however noticed one interesting tendency: there are certain people who on the outside hate when their partners cheat on them, but at the same time they like it in some dysfunctional way. I have seen couples like that in my life.

My gfs parents are a bit like that. Her dad is cheating her mother, but she seems to be OK with it and even makes jokes about it. My gf told me that they are not together anymore and just live in a same house. But there are Trully messed up people out there.

[–]GuyWithAnAngel1 point2 points  (1 child) | Copy

Second paragraph: It makes me sick too, but in many cases someone can only screw you over if you let them. In his case it was (or should have been) obvious that something was very wrong, and he deliberately turned a blind eye to it. I'm not in anyway excusing his wife's behavior, but his ignoring the problem is all on him.

Third paragraph: Interesting. There's no reason that you have to live in a bad situation, but I think it's easier for a lot of people to to stay in a bad situation then try to improve their lives. It's not necessarily that they like it, but that they lack the courage to change it because that change could be very uncomfortable.

My wife was cheated on by her ex. She tried to reconcile with him, but after 2 months she gave up. She showed more courage than this guy did.


[–]myrainyday[🍰] 1 point2 points  (0 children) | Copy

Yes thank you for a well wrapped objective summary. Yes indeed, we have to remain true to our moral codex. That separates people from junk.

[–]Suqat5 points6 points  (0 children) | Copy

Tried to keep stoic thoughts throughout, almost succeeded. When I got to : " the woman of my dreams, who continued being in the highest altar of my universe. I'm sorry. I still love her to death " I couldn't keep it up.

He is at least honest about it; most men act this way they just don't express it in words. I guess props to him for that? He is a failure, but we can learn that many men have an inclination to this way of thinking, and that this is the antithesis of what is desirable.

[–]Endorsed ContributorSKRedPill5 points6 points  (0 children) | Copy

The less you love yourself, the more you become needy for someone else.

[–]Sonny_Luna2 points3 points  (0 children) | Copy

Fucking insane. I realized that the feeling I felt the last time I was cheated on was relief. I always get tired of LTR’s way too early and end up dragging it out too long because of shameful cowardice. But I had been completely checked out when I caught her so it was such an easy break.

[–]WOLFY-T2 points3 points  (0 children) | Copy

Love is obviously blind, if u actually dumb enough to really “fall” in it, that’s why I stand for love in general and not fall in it on some weak emotional shit 😂 it’s sickening to wholeheartedly care about someone and it’s not reciprocated.. cant risk my heart out here like that.

[–]justgotalpha4 points5 points  (0 children) | Copy

Last December i found out the girl i was talking to and possibly (“relationship material”) was fucking my closest cousin and even ABORTED A BABY BY HIM! The news came from my other cousin! I have never spoken to that bitch again ! I walked away and she still blowing my phone up wondering why i just stopped talking to her. GUYS WOMEN ARE MASTERS AT HIDING SHIT FROM YOU ! DO NOT COMMIT TO ANYONE

[–]1319Skew2 points3 points  (0 children) | Copy

Next stage would be him watching from closet as he pleasures himself.

[–]DerekMorganBAU2 points3 points  (0 children) | Copy

I'd legit beat his ass if he was my friend for every day that he didn't like leave the dumb bitch.

[–]1Obediah_Stane2 points3 points  (0 children) | Copy

Marriage counseling and relationship therapy is the biggest fucking waste of time of money. If your relationship or marriage has devolved to the point of needing "therapy" or "professional help" then you have already lost the battle and the best move is to simply pack up and move on.

If your girl is the one who suggests therapy, tell her no and start planning your getaway.

Ideally it should never even get to this point if you've managed to put out embers before the fire starts.

[–]kkikuyu2 points3 points  (0 children) | Copy

It’s been shown that infidelities are perpetrated by people with partners who score high on the psychological trait of “agreeableness”. This’s also known as “niceness”. The cheating partner figures that even though they’re caught, they’ll be forgiven for their indiscretions. That’s why niceness is so dangerous.

Please link the original Reddit post.

[–]Drive_Thru_Sushi3 points4 points  (1 child) | Copy

They’re betas, be glad they exist. Necessary part of society, it’s kinda gross, but hey less competition.

[–]Danolix1 point2 points  (0 children) | Copy

Exactly, the more betas there are the higher we can stand on society.

[–][deleted] 1 point2 points  (0 children) | Copy

I usually browse through those relationship and dating subreddits to give advice since I do enjoy trying to help anyone (who is willing to listen)

It is just so sad that there are so many men out there that just stick like glue to the first women that says yes to them and show real needy nice guy behaviour. I really dont know how these men even get a woman to agree to date them in the first place considering how many shit tests some women have thrown at me over the years and still do. Im not sure how these men get past any of them

[–]ZollJo1 point2 points  (1 child) | Copy

Cut your losses before they cut you. This one is obvious. There is always another route to take.

I felt that. Just recently cut off an affair I had a crush on (I know, terrible) . But that wishy washy shit was eating my soul.

[–]Johnnybeachboy0 points1 point  (0 children) | Copy

Been there, emotional and physical cheating hurts both sides, especially if feelings were involved. It made me question what type of person I wanted to be.

[–]bone_shadows1 point2 points  (0 children) | Copy

sad? yes. pitiful? yes. its easy to laugh or feel bad for this guy, but what ever your feelings are it really doesnt matter. He will do the same thing again. accept the same bullshit, accept the same lies. this is truly what its like living in a blue pilled world. He accepts it in all its fallacy. perhaps he has been through enough pain but honestly to me, it doesnt sound like it. this is the type of guy that needs 2-3 divorces under his belt before he ever understands trp

[–]Domebeers1 point2 points  (0 children) | Copy

I think he still wants to stay with her, too. Just pathetic. Abundance mindset and the confidence in yourself to be able to drop and pick up pussy really is everything. Options are about the only way to keep yourself safe.

There was one last week where a guy's wife got pregnant cheating on him, he took her back but was very very upset she wanted to keep the other guys baby, and gosh darnit she just wont listen!


[–]1DubbleFUPAwitCheez1 point2 points  (0 children) | Copy

The best part is, she is talking mad shit about him to that guy. If only he could hear some of the vicious shit she is undoubtedly saying about him behind his back. How do I know? Logic aside, it's because I have been that other guy... to an extent.

The girl in question was a very kind very sweet person. Very giving and nice to everyone but she loved me and not the guy she was with. She would tell me how big of a pussy he was in comparison how she would never deny me anything but she makes him wear a condom even though she's on birth control, etc. That was a few months into their relationship, during what would normally be the time filled with the most lust. A couple years later she contacts me again and tries to get me to fuck her. It doesn't change. This guy needs his heart maliciously ripped out and stomped on while seeing the utter lack of remorse in her eyes to even try to wake up.

[–]Ash_thearcher1 point2 points  (0 children) | Copy

This is a great reminder, thanks for the post.

[–]caf_app1 point2 points  (0 children) | Copy

In stories like this I always imagine that the wife simply gave the best blowies imaginable. Like it was actually a rational debate to leave her Becuase she just sucked that good. That the man wasn't possibly that pathetic. But then you realize that she was probably a shot lay and literally provided no value to her husband. And that kind of shit makes me sad. Of people don't provide you value for your time and energy - real value you truly appreciate, cut em loose.

[–]ay-fuh-q1 point2 points  (0 children) | Copy

I didn't see this particular issue, but these men are a dime a dozen. How dare you suggest their women cheat when their women PROMISED they wouldn't suck an extracurricular dick... again.

He still won't learn.... even from knowing what he knows now.

[–]ImNotSue1 point2 points  (0 children) | Copy

I urge you to avoid any chance of tainting your mind.

This is not really the kind of thinking that any rational man should encourage. You should strive to be able to take in any kind of information with a critical eye and evaluate what parts are worth valuing and what is not. If the mere exposure to certain kinds of information is enough to break you down, you still need to work on yourself.

[–]fuckmingaseatpingas0 points1 point  (0 children) | Copy

“The highest altar of my universe” christ, this cunts beyond help 🤮🤦🏻‍♂️

[–]aamour10 points1 point  (0 children) | Copy

What is protocol after finding out about the text messages? Do you try deal with it then and there before it gets worse or do you next her?

[–]RelativeTeal0 points1 point  (0 children) | Copy

I’m less disgusted and more of just shrugging. The guy is just a weakling, why do we care about the weakness of our competition? Only if you see his weakness in yourself.

[–]gediwer0 points1 point  (0 children) | Copy

I really don’t understand how a marriage would work if someone’s taken trp. Like the whole advice is about getting chicks and keeping plates. But if you get in a relationship with one soon she will realize that you are not the bad and cool guy you used to portray to other people. You know when plates tell you they love you? How do you shake the feeling that she isn’t in love with who you actually are but she is in love with the idea of you and all the “coolness” you will bring to her when you are by her side?

[–]DrunkOldBear0 points1 point  (0 children) | Copy

Question and please delete if inappropriate: is there a publication about not pedestalizing anyone -men or women? Tnx

[–]1meerita0 points1 point  (0 children) | Copy

Just read "The manipulated man" in the sidebar links and you will understand how low a man can land in order to feel his useful to a woman and how manipulative a woman can be in order to survive.

[–]BigAlTrading0 points1 point  (1 child) | Copy

If you're going to rant this much link to the source.

[–]drbrockstar69[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children) | Copy

Check rule #1. I tried once and the post got deleted. I gave the post title and subreddit idk what more you need.

[–]trpppp1230 points1 point  (0 children) | Copy

Ah... the life of a man in pure scarcity.

The only way to have a good shot of maintaining an LTR is having an abundant mindset throughout the relationship. Bit of a catch 22 if you place your cards in one LTR.

[–]hmsthinkingmeat0 points1 point  (0 children) | Copy

My favourite subs apart from this one are survivinginfidelity and relationshipadvice because you see the same behaviours and the same outcomes over and over and over again and it just validates (in the real world) RP theory by observing people who fail to follow it and the clusterfuck that follows.

After you've read the stories on there for a few weeks it's like a script, you can see whats happening, the games they play and what the outcome is going to be - while the person going through it can't make head nor tale of it, and is racked with guilt about how it's all their fault and maybe it'll all come good if they just try and work harder to please her.

[–]swaggyquack0 points1 point  (0 children) | Copy

How anyone can have such low self esteem to stay in a relationship with a cheating bitch is beyond me lol... have some self respect man!

[–]KneedHelpQuicc0 points1 point  (1 child) | Copy

What the fuck is wrong with these men? Is it an absence of the father to teach them self respect? How do they even get a girl long enough for this to happen? What is the root cause of this? Simps are so fucking disgusting, blue pilled shit like this should be classified as a mental illness, unfortunately it’s the norm for society. So pitiful. Hope he gets divorce raped, maybe then he’ll gain common sense

[–]Riddick_0 points1 point  (0 children) | Copy

Did you see how he keeps referring to that moron as his wife? This guy is fucked on more then one level and there is no help there. This is the autopsy of a life. Guy will never wake up and will continue to be the walking dead.

There are millions of them: Serfs for life. A life of mental slavery, material addiction and human despair. Exactly what the domestication system was perfected over millennia to make. Slaves. In great numbers. Obedient little creatures, that only know how to give.

One of the reasons why the TRP is considered despicable by the mainstream. For the simple reason we tell some boys the truth about Hypergamy alone. Imagine that. The truth. Honesty is way too fucking dangerous.

You can kill a man, but you can't kill an idea.

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