Is "Thousand Cock Stare" real, a joke, or something that some men are imagining/making up?

decoy88 · 2020-06-25T22:31:48+00:00

I grew up in a fundamentalist cult so on fundamentalist cult reddit this guy is famous for having the "thousand yard stare" bc of his abusive parents. I think you can see what people are talking about in this clip: https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=dXmZzm-9kC0&t=62s

I def think it can be a real response to trauma, like if the person is frequently disassociating bc whatever is going on in front of them is triggering PTSD from past experiences.

washington_breadstix · 2020-06-26T01:46:57+00:00

As you point out, the "thousand cock stare" phrasing is supposed to be a humorous reference to the "thousand yard stare". But I think the idea itself isn't really about a specific stare or a look in the girl's eyes. "Thousand cock stare" is just an umbrella term for any number of other so-called "slut tells". And you could start a separate debate about whether those really exist.

If I had to guess, I would say the reason why the thousand cock stare is so hard to define, and why so many guys say things like "I can't define it but I know it when I see it", is because they're actually referring to the attitude and tone that the woman displays when she's talking about sex. The "thousand cock stare" isn't a facial expression. It's a lack of eagerness to explore sexual topics because she's seen and done everything already. When you interact with someone, you can definitely get a vibe from them indicating that they've "been there; done that", and I think when men get that vibe from a girl regarding sex, they sort of retroactively apply that idea to her body language by saying "Look at [random facial expression]. She's definitely taken a lot of dick".

LotBuilder · 2020-06-25T22:57:07+00:00

There is a level of sexual experience that is hot and then there is a level of experience where you just know they do this a lot. They are unfazed by anything you do or say. They just shut down and go along with whatever.

MrEctomy · 2020-06-25T23:14:27+00:00

I don't think there's any such thing as the "thousand cock stare" (lol) but there is plenty of empirical evidence to suggest that excessive promiscuity can cause mental and emotional problems. (bonus)

SaBahRub · 2020-06-26T00:28:10+00:00

Oh no, it’s not trauma, stress, addiction or mental illness that makes women look dead eyed or out of it — only dicks! Very scientific, dudes!

psypD · 2020-06-25T22:10:06+00:00

There is no 1000 Cock Stare but the 2500 Cock stare is totally a real thing. It kicks exactly when you accumulate 1500 feet worth of individual cock though. It's science.

Sultmaker_9000 · 2020-06-26T00:08:56+00:00

Not this woman, anyone who knows anything about women knows they generally fit into categories. Her profile is a professional woman so a low n count from that profile compared to others in my opinion. Professional women have high self esteem and don't open their legs that easily. I'd go as far to say it was incels who deliberately target a professional women, because they cant handle a self made woman. Not that I would date one either because generally they are too masculine, but that's a whole different topic.

The highest n counts come from your liberal arts BS degree type girls , and plain Janes. Plain Janes are the most interesting category to fit this profile, since many would look as decent as any other woman done up, but they don't care. Those are the ones IMO who've surrendered their femininity to the most dick.

akaean · 2020-06-25T21:53:37+00:00

This is an example of how people normalize and internalize jokes. Of course it started out as a joke, but over time the red pill drank the koolaide and started taking it seriously, or some members did.

This is why jokes are important, and people who hide behind "its just a joke" are ignorant to the weight behind their words.

Of course this isnt as serious as some jokes, but nevertheless its a good example of the phenomenon

Nevidimka- · 2020-06-25T22:44:39+00:00

I've seen pretty much any sort of stare or gaze been called the thousand cock stare. At first, people ment dead eyes, like the ones you see on drug addicts, but then it shifted to bedroom eyes, when a woman tries to look sexy, or , you know, just commits the crime of have larger eyelids than usual, and lately if a girl looks too smiley or happy I've seen that called the thousand cock stare.

It's just another way to try and insult a woman when they don't have anything else to work with. ( Just like when they made up large inner labia ment a girl had a lot of sex rofl). Don't know any guy she's slept with and she's dressing wholesomely? Well she's still a whore because, uhm, uhm, her eyes!

Kyogan · 2020-06-25T22:29:38+00:00

I used to think it was bullshit, but now I believe, I can't describe nor teach you but I can identify one.

It looks like crazy eyes and dead eyes mixed together, this is all I got.

bonslytoss · 2020-06-25T23:56:06+00:00

Most of us know someone who at some time had a thousand yard stare, certainly I saw it a bunch in the military. I think of someone saying a woman has a "thousand cock stare" as a joke way of describing how she looks distracted or empty in that picture.

HollowLegMonk · 2020-06-26T00:32:44+00:00

Just thought I’d leave this here.

TripleMaxor · 2020-06-25T23:09:02+00:00

Likely real, it's the same look of a pro, or an escort. or a drug addict approaching you for money in exchange for her body.

Workaholiconew · 2020-06-25T22:49:08+00:00

It is between a joke and a serious thing men see.

Men are very bad at recognizing any social clues. and thus, are full of false positives and false negatives. But women are not as sneaky, not men are as clueless, as some women seem to think. Many high n count women don't even try to hide it either.

It is not literally 'a stare' per see, but set of behaviors and values which are hints of a high n count woman. They can be picked up if paid attention to with enough time. It is not something most men can see in a simple photo or even in some minutes of interaction, but most get there eventually. This stare, is probably just one of such clues.

You see, when humans have a lot of experience in something and confidence in it, they start an 'autopilot mode' or being 'in the zone'. This state is called 'the state of flow') which can be exemplified by 'the empty stare' people have when driving vehicles they are used to. Leading to some men calling women who show this 'flow state stare' when dealing with men, and yet not commit many mistakes, to have a "Thousand Cock Stare". It is one of the clues, but surely not the only one. It is just one they happen to choose to exemplify this characteristic set of behaviors and values.

SaBahRub · 2020-06-25T22:14:05+00:00

Men like to believe they can protect themselves from infidelity. This is one of its manifestations

TheBookOfSeil · 2020-06-25T22:00:40+00:00

I've known some women in my life, and some younger girls while I was growing up, that just had "that look" and they were all pretty big sluts. It's a look that naturally promiscuous women tend to have. Hard to describe, but you can identify it if you've seen it enough times.

sublimemongrel · 2020-06-25T22:36:50+00:00

I mean if you go on that sub it’s a bunch of circle jerking of mocking women. Of course they are gonna say terrible things about some woman who just looks normal. They are there to mock women for just about any reason at all, fabricated or otherwise

DareyFathom · 2020-06-25T22:47:34+00:00

I find it impossible to be a slut stare alone does exist, but plenty of other risky behavior indicators such as tattoos, piercings, fucked up hair, and revealing clothes sure do.

12112019 · 2020-06-25T23:36:14+00:00

100% real

SteveSan82 · 2020-06-25T23:59:40+00:00

It’s real. I didn’t know there was a word for it until last year but you can pretty much see on her face. As someone else said, women don’t appear able to see it but men do. I suspect it’s just part of human evolution.

taapy234 · 2020-06-26T02:56:30+00:00

So, there you go PPD. Is this really a thing or not?

Yes. It is a thing.

Jokes tend to have some basis in reality. Otherwise they wouldn't be funny unless the comedian is really an expert at absurdist humor.

The thousand cock stare is something that men notice from a woman who don't respond to the supposed attraction markers from the opposite sex.

For example, when a guy meets a new woman, he will be anxiety ridden to some extent and his emotions will be genuine. But women tend to have that routine canned expression that don't respond to men's cues like they supposed to.

Belive it or not, men and most importantly women have the ability to notice the body language of happy or sad people, or people with psychological issues just by observing people in their natural habitat.

Yes, we notice that empty stare from a distance.

Its kind of like looking at a "house" instead of a "home." The difference between a interior designer doing his work in a new house vs a family organizing their home to their specific tastes.

Here's one example of a woman with a 1000 cock stare. Remember this woman actually claimed she slept with 10,000 men (and counting).

A woman with thousand cock stare has absolutely decimated her ability to pair bond with a man and is pretty much a hopeless case when it comes to long term commitment.

woodenbiplane · 2020-06-25T22:06:45+00:00

I love all the comments here saying it's real, but then have tautologous definitions of it.

Pontifex_Lucious-II · 2020-06-25T22:09:43+00:00

It’s just a meme.

praneymo · 2020-06-26T03:50:28+00:00

Learnt something new today Thousand Cock Stare

rosmaskinen · 2020-06-26T08:11:45+00:00

Haven't heard but that's hilarious. Certainly gonna work that into my deadpan vernacular. It's so fantastically dramatic. I love it.

Jimmy-Turnchapel · 2020-06-26T14:42:21+00:00

Like all such terms it takes a truism and exaggerates it for comic effect.

Of course having 100, 50 or 0 previous sexual partners is going to massively impact how you view/treat your next one. It wouldn’t make any sense otherwise.

Christian_Kong · 2020-06-25T22:21:39+00:00

It's a joke but I think often crosses paths with women who "look slutty" also looking jaded in the particular picture.

KazROFL · 2020-06-25T21:57:10+00:00

No it's not a real thing.

Do too many morons believe in it? Yeah

cloudydays84 · 2020-06-25T21:59:46+00:00

I'm just now learning about it today and after a Google search I say no

ThatsMrRetardToYou · 2020-06-25T23:47:51+00:00

It was invented by boys that watch way too much hardcore porn. Pornstars probably take crazy amounts of drugs for hardcore scenes.

Olympic1L19 · 2020-06-26T02:36:45+00:00

It absolutely is real, I’m surprised it seems to be a debate.

rubbooyuri · 2020-06-25T23:59:40+00:00

There is a lovely twitter thread from a man whose boss was ranting about “slutty” women, and pulled up a photo of a women to illustrate. The dude noted it was a photo on LinkedIn, and the woman appeared professional. After becoming increasingly frustrated because the dude could not see how this woman was “slutty”, the boss finally said, “well...she’s hot”. That was it. That’s all she had to do to inspire hatred...be hot

I have seen similar expressions of rage and resentment directed at women who were committing no crime except that of not fucking the men who wanted to fuck her. So...I take dude judgements of women with a large grain of salt

https://twitter.com/sswyrs/status/1139653530464206849?s=21

WilliamWyattD · 2020-06-25T23:26:06+00:00

If you want to keep your sanity on PPD, you have to look behind the overstated positions and exaggerations to see if there is some element of truth behind. Usually there is, though sometimes it's complete crap.

The 1000 cock stare as a meme is fairly uninstructive. However, there are legitimate questions about the effects of the higher levels of promiscuity seen today on men and women. And those effects may be somewhat different for each gender. So there is a discussion to be had here, but it is a lot more complex and nuanced than what is usually broached.

Bekiala · 2020-06-26T01:51:11+00:00

From what I can tell, it is a consistent phenomenon with some men that they like to imagine attractive women having sex. So the "thousand cock stare" is very much of a reality in the minds of these men. It has nothing to do with the women they assign this to.

BerkyMc · 2020-06-25T22:28:40+00:00

It’s insecure dudes projecting their weird worldview onto women who wouldn’t be interested in them.

goneaway2thewind · 2020-06-25T21:53:42+00:00

It's totally a thing. When you think of the term "trashy hoe" you'd likely think of a lady with a "thousand cock stare" lol

Terror-Error · 2020-06-25T22:43:13+00:00

I got invited to a chat earlier, title was please help me.

Like 40 guys already in there.

First thing this individual said was that they were thirsty for a man.

I suggested tinder and left.

I imagine that the TCS is just the look of a girl who is horny to the point you think they will start grinding on you if you stand still.

Grand_Duty · 2020-06-25T23:20:01+00:00

Realer than Caitlin Jenner's pp!

DaphneDK42 · 2020-06-26T00:20:47+00:00

I just thought it was the latest iteration of the meat curtains for high milage pussy. That is, not anything anybody took super serious.

LeJacquelope · 2020-06-26T01:42:39+00:00

No, it is real. Just like the thousand pussy stare is detrimental to men.

xFallacyx69 · 2020-06-26T01:56:39+00:00

Pussy has 9 lives. After that it’s dead

twentyversions · 2020-06-26T04:25:27+00:00

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Sid_Insidious · 2020-06-26T04:37:35+00:00

Or it's a euphemism for the negative effects of promiscuity and actual photos have nothing to do with it....

revente · 2020-06-26T07:57:07+00:00

I't more like a cocaine stare some porn stars develop.

DrBezmenov · 2020-06-26T09:45:14+00:00

My suggestion would be to download Tinder, set up a profile for a man, and just swipe through the photos looking for what you think might be the thousand cock stare. When you find a profile you think might be of such a woman, read it to confirm. They usually give it away. After a few dozen profiles you should be able to spot the look with 95% accuracy.

YetAnotherCommenter · 2020-06-26T10:06:40+00:00

I'm not sure if its a joke but it certainly isn't real.

The idea that women are psychologically "damaged" by each cock they take is fundamentally an attempt to rationalize away the fact that under traditionalism, most women (and frankly most men) were in relationships with someone they didn't find sexually exciting.

Men need to stop pining for traditionalism. Under traditionalism they were expected to bear all the responsibility and devote their lives exclusively to career and to lessen their involvement with their spouse and offspring. Under traditionalism they are held responsible for her dissatisfaction and even infidelity. Traditionalism is just a way to buy a house for a woman you end up hating.

People should ONLY marry others whom they actually both like and lust after. Yes, under this criterion, there will be less marriages. But they'll be higher-quality marriages with less breakups, fights, domestics, etc.

Willow-girl · 2020-06-26T12:36:46+00:00

The 'thousand cock stare' reminds me of those ads that used to be in the back of men's magazines touting a hypnosis technique that allowed you to easily seduce beautiful women. The accompanying photo was of an attractive woman with a dazed expression. Evidently this was before Rohypnol, lol.

usa_foot_print · 2020-06-26T12:51:47+00:00

Yes it is

look at this woman:

https://old.reddit.com/r/awfuleverything/comments/fftphs/using_abortion_as_contraception/

2020-06-26T14:53:23+00:00

I always took it as a joke. I hope that nobody takes it seriously.

Proteinsaurus · 2020-06-26T16:25:55+00:00

Maybe it's just the "Resting Bitch Face" that attractive women tend to employ.

Jaganshi93 · 2020-06-26T19:00:43+00:00

Real

ForceGlittering · 2020-08-22T12:26:58+00:00

I mean I have this but I was violently raped by a woman which led me to seek male conquests until I fell in love and stopped. I thought it would be referring to something other than the 1000 yard stare, it's very fucked up for trp to talk about that as if they know war or death to that degree

Original_Username7 · 2020-06-25T23:40:03+00:00

This is the 10,000 cock stare.

2020-06-26T00:39:17+00:00

In most women you can tell in about 5 minutes of interacting with them that they have seen a lot of action.

In some women you would never be able to tell.

The thousand cock stare is when someone looks like they have seen a lot of action.

But it is really just an educated but uneducated guess.

-Acta-Non-Verba- · 2020-06-25T21:59:42+00:00

It’s only something that men can pick up on.

SocietalEngineering · 2020-06-26T03:53:14+00:00

It is 100% true and not a joke. I’ve met many women like this.

It’s not so much the “stare” per say, but the inability to be excited by anything sexual or romantic. It’s as if all the joy and fun in that part of life is just...gone.

Magicus1 · 2020-06-26T04:59:32+00:00

The “Thousand Cock Stare” (TKS), as I’ll call it, is total crap.

I know, cuz I’ve met women (and men) who have had their fair share of “fun” and don’t have this stare.

However, when you get them on the topic of relationships, love, soulmates, & commitments, you’ll see something different.

It’s hard to explain, but some will have a longing in their eyes. Others will have a “Oh, great, here we go again” look, and others will grow defiant.

Some of them will even use a roundabout way to tell you that women (or men) are just garbage (or insert another derogatory adjective here) that usually includes all men or all women.

Since you’re asking about the origin of it pertaining specifically to its creation by men to describe women, I’ll say that while some do have it, usually you have to look deep in their eyes to see the pain and hurt of chronic rejection and constantly being used as a sexual commodity.

At this point, though, we’re talking more abut trauma and lies.

But, just like Resting B-tch Face, some people just naturally have a look and we can’t assume that’s the issue.

TL;DR

Nah, you gotta look deep in their eyes and bring up the subject of love to see the real pain in their eyes.

GunBullety · 2020-06-25T23:35:40+00:00

My take away from this is you've been smashed a lot, this is thousand cock paranoia, but no I don't believe it's real. I do believe I have a sixth sense for it IRL though, most guys don't. I don't care, btw, I don't judge women as impure or whatever or want a virgin or any of that gross creepy shit, but yeah I do believe I can detect a "quiet achiever". Never the ones you'd expect.

asdf333aza · 2020-06-25T23:40:19+00:00

someone posted a picture of a perfectly average-looking woman in a bathing suit.

I'm gonna go out on a limb and say OP is fos, cause guys on that sub don't post average looking chicks. The same way girls on fds and niceguys don't post average reactions from guys.

akihonj · 2020-06-26T06:21:30+00:00

Is it a thing, yes.

To be honest I think it's a brilliant term, of course it's derogatory and not very nice but then sometimes men aren't very nice when they are taking the piss.

Yes it's a thing, men can spot s mile away when a woman has had more loads dumped in her than a washing machine.

These women just have a certain look about them, a certain disdainful way of how they interact with men, not sure if I'm going to describe it well enough but here goes.

These women you see will flirt with men but not look at them but through them, through the person they are flirting with, like they are reading a script. Their behaviour is somewhat distant, it makes you feel as though something is just off, not wholly right.

I have a theory, it's because they have been with so many men, mostly the bad boys, been hurt by them so often and so badly but never learned that the bad boy is that way because that's what makes him attractive, he won't change because his behaviour has been reinforced through his life. Her then having a saviour complex finds that she can't save him, get badly hurt by this man and onto the next.

The pattern repeats for both, however the bad boy gets rewarded while she gets punished.

Eventually she finds herself sat in a bar talking to maybe another man and she's playing a game because she knows how it's going to go, she can see he's another bad boy and she knows how this is going bit can't stop it.

Like I said that's just a theory.

TechnicalMight0 · 2020-06-26T06:58:00+00:00

Some women really have this when they talk about sex. They're just completely detached, not even excited really, just detached. Usually they have severe sexual trauma and/or self-esteem, dependency, or substance abuse issues that make them crave sex with men for reasons other than love or her own pleasure.

Of course on the internet there are incels or men who were cheated on who see it in every woman, that's life.

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Title	Is "Thousand Cock Stare" real, a joke, or something that some men are imagining/making up?
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Date	June 25, 2020 9:45 PM UTC (3 years ago)
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