How do you feel about men watching porn and pornography in general? I have always had the opinion that porn is a form of cheating. This is in part from my religious beliefs about lust and acting on it as well as my belief that porn is one of the biggest issues in our society and contributes to a lot of issues in relationships and how women and men develop and see themselves with unrealistic expectations of what sex is supposed to be. I know that in the past, when I found out my ex s/o had been watching porn I experienced a similar feeling that I remember from when I was physically cheated on yet it was just looking, no actual contact. When I discuss this with other people and including women they almost always disagree and say that they watch it too and it promotes a healthy sex life. I can’t figure out how most people are okay with knowing their partner sees the most intimate places on another woman’s body and then acts on it, knowing that their partner enjoys watching another woman’s naked body when they have a wife or girlfriend of their own. Do most of you disagree/agree with this and is it true that most girls really watch porn when in a relationship? Do you consider it to be a form of cheating?