How to feel valuable and feminine as a single woman?

boobs_and_brains · 2020-06-23T15:14:35+00:00

Personally I just started exploring hobbies that I had any sort of interest in. Do things that you enjoy- and if you're not sure what you enjoy then start exposing yourself to different and new experiences and see what sticks!

amadexodus · 2020-06-23T17:00:10+00:00

For me, I learned to enjoy going out and doing certain activities alone. Go to a cafe with a book! Go to the movies by yourself! Go out to eat even! Be content with your own company. You don't really need to go with your friends or with a man in order to enjoy all these things.

This is not to say that you shouldn't go on outings with your friends or that you shouldn't join social groups to enjoy your hobbies; I'm just saying that in addition to working on your femininity and your character, you should get used to being by yourself and enjoying it. For me, I can say that by the time my Captain and I started dating, I was not feeling the void of being single; if I had been, our relationship would have struggled because it is not his job to fill that emotional void.

BonnieBelle255 · 2020-06-23T15:19:35+00:00

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lamarama451 · 2020-06-23T17:53:45+00:00

I focused all that nurturing and caring energy on myself. It sounds weird but I am a giver and was raised in Mexican culture were men are to be served. After a year of being in love with a delusion ( a man that needed help but would not help himself) I decided all the nurturing I wanted to give him I would give to myself . I started to work on myself and learn my worth. I am single and took covid as a sign to hibernate and love and work on me . Maybe when it all settles down I will start to date but with an entire different perspective. I’m in my late 20’s for reference.

Working on my self emotionally with therapy, physically by following a routine , financially by establishing own financial and career goals, and domestically by becoming my an organized individual as well as learning to cook healthy meals.

superkaro · 2020-06-23T15:10:34+00:00

actually r/childfree has inspired me a lot about valuing yourself for who you are and what you want instead of what you are tought to, so maybe it will help you, too.

pieorstrudel5 · 2020-06-24T22:22:59+00:00

I was single most of my 20s and even now in my 30 that I have a partner, we don't live together (it works for us) and so I have lots of free time. He loves that I have my own life and the skills I taught myself

Things I do...

Fitness/Health - cause y'all, high value men like healthy trim women. They just do.

Volunteer/Joined the Junior League - this is huge for me. It's a way to make female friends or network to find better jobs. It's fun and gives back! I also volunteer at the botanical gardens. I've volunteered at film festivals and art museums in the past too. I feel like high value men appreciate a woman who has a sense of Civic duty.

Gardening (it's all trial and error, but fun!)

Floral Design (or whatever crafty hobby you like)- I have really developed this into a skill. Borderline ready to try and sell wreaths and centerpieces! I'd say focus on one thing and become really good at it!

Podcasts/Audio Books - i'm a huge nerd. Makes you interesting to talk to.

Paper Planner - this is fun! Look up Kell of a Plan on you tube. Planning is part organization and part creativity. I have been mapping out personal development goals (weightloss, improving work performance, being neater at home). It's also just a glorified sticker collection. Again, organization is a great skill to have for when you are juggling family schedules.

I also reccomend hosting quarterly get togethers. Movie night, game night, cocktails, etc. They can be small affairs or bigger. But I love being a hostess and going all Martha Stewart on my guests. Also prepares you to host holidays for your future family!

I'm also an excellent cook and just challenge myself all the time. I decide stuff like "I am gonna make chocolate souffles!" Just to see if I can do it. I've also recently gotten into cocktail making at home and have gotten pretty dang good!

As far as personal development... I am focusing on being a better boss at my job through femininity. I really love Adrienne Everheart on You Tube. I feel like she is helpful whether you are single or in a relationship. I journal a lot! About what I want.... Ideas to get there. Etc!

Sorry if this is rambly! Just some things I have been doing!

MrsMandelbrot · 2020-06-23T14:55:33+00:00

What are your goals?

notjennyschecter · 2020-06-24T06:42:34+00:00

Start a daycare business

-MIDDLE-MAN- · 2020-06-23T14:56:31+00:00

first aid and nutrition!

masculinity generally describes compartmentalized individuals. they tent to have low risk and disgust aversion, which can get them into the kind of trouble a high risk and disgust aversion person can help with.

(as long as they're devoted)

Title	How to feel valuable and feminine as a single woman?
Author	BonnieBelle255
Upvotes	65
Comments	17
Date	June 23, 2020 2:28 PM UTC (3 years ago)
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