Hi ladies, an amazing thing happened to me since discovering this sub. I worked on myself and became more feminine, and 6 weeks after I decided to become more feminine I suddenly met this really amazing guy. We’re still in the early dating phase so neither of us is committed yet, but there’s a lot of chemistry between us.
I was raised in a conservative household and was always taught ‘no sex before marriage’. I still believe in this to some extent, but have since revised it to ‘I’ll sleep with only one guy for the rest of my life’. ie if I feel the guy is a keeper, I’m ok with having sex before marriage. Previous guys I dated have never lasted beyond the second date, so it was never brought up.
However, this current man I’m dating is incredibly amazing, and I feel that we’re going to get to talking about sex very soon (from our conversations I feel that he has a very high sex drive). Because of my values I’ve remained a virgin at 28. I know it might be a dealbreaker to him, and I’ll understand if he loses interest. (I’ll be sad though!)
I’m just not sure how I can bring this up with him without sounding like I’m pressuring him into commitment so early?
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