Reminder: Keep Your Problems To Yourself

Lol ok buddy.

You say this isn’t a criticism of me but go one to repeatedly call my SMV into question which you know nothing about.

Let’s break it all down:

I don’t think YOU understand how women the women I am capable of attracting work.

You’re not talking about how women work. You’re talking about how you work.

If your SMV is high enough, and you have a lifestyle designed to bring you into contact with lots of women, you should have tons of attractive women to choose from.

Agreed. Having abundance solves most problems. This doesn’t have anything to do with how women work.

You can then vet them for empathy, genuine compassion, willingness to help, at the very least not 'drying up' in response to anything less than a pure carbon copy of Marcus Aurelius.

This comment is counter productive at best and terrible advice at worst. To vet a woman for not drying up when you open up about your feelings to her, you would have to dry a lot of women up in hopes that one doesn’t react that way. And for what?

If the women you are dating cannot help but dislike you when you voice your problems, then you have either:

• ⁠Fucked up badly on your vetting • ⁠Fucked up elsewhere in the relationship • ⁠Not raised your SMV to a point where you >can date a girl with all the traits you want (i.e. empathy in ADDITION to physical attractiveness, etc.)

All I hear is you talking about how you work and what you want. This post was about how women work and regardless of your individual experience with one special girl, the majority of women react this way when a man opens up about his problems, fears, emotions. Since most men will deal with most women, it is valuable to understand women’s natural reaction.

Even if you are much higher in SMV your SMV will take a hit.

But this is nobody's problem other than yours,

And the thousands and thousands of other guys who experience this all the time

and my experience doesn't match yours.

It must match mine, because you’re vetting these women for that trait, so you must experience this phenomenon unless every woman you “vet” isn’t like that, in which case you wouldn’t really be doing any vetting on those grounds.

My current LTR is absolutely fine with me talking about issues I'm having, and I've yet to experience any decline in sexual attraction because of them (either at the time, or in the weeks after I've shown 'weakness'). And I do look to see if there is an impact, each time, because I'm cognizant that some here thinks there will be — but there simply hasn't been.

That you have noticed. And good for you if you need a mommy to talk to about your problems.

This isn't a criticism of you.

Is

It's just a note that, well, TRP is a playbook effectively oriented around getting guys laid, and attracting women who meet a very narrow set of criteria (mostly physical attractiveness).

If you actively want to expand beyond that, and start stacking healthy relationships etc. on top of that without having to sacrifice anything, you are a) going to need to raise your SMV even higher, b) going to need to draw 'playbooks' and modes of operation from sources other than TRP.

My relationship is healthy. I don’t burden my girl with problems and I do what I should to maintain high levels of attraction

There are levels to this shit, you know?

And you are king off the men, who need women to talk to about their problems, because that’s the highest level of achievement. My SMV is so high I just earned a new mommy.

Just because you haven't reached high enough SMV / relationship capability to acquire the skill of voicing problems without doing damage to your relationship, doesn't mean other men haven't acquired that skill.

Lol, there is no skill in the world that shuts off a woman’s biological gag reflex when she sees a man cry. I agree that you should be valuable enough to be able to cry in front of your woman and not take a hit for it, but I’m clearly writing this post for the 99.9 percent of guys who aren’t there. Not sure why they fuck you’re even commenting on this.

Speak for yourself, and not for all.

Lol. I don’t know why someone would ever speak about single dicked guys when we all know there are people out there with two dicks... like...the audacity to speak to the large majority of men, when you know someone in the minority is going to include themselves into that grouping and then call you out for it....