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Every Bitch is a Movie Star

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July 30, 2020
678 upvotes her own head.

To understand women, you simply internalize that she is the star of her own movie - and every scene runs on feelz.

Everything that happens to her over the course of a day becomes a narrative that is later dramatized in her head. The screenplay becomes reality, and "drama" is a critical aspect of the show.

What happened is of secondary relevance, if relevant at all. What mattered was how she FELT.

Women absolutely love drama. It is better for her to be pissed at you (or feel any strong emotion), than not care - therefore, all you guys that are Super Serious Business, ego invested, and/or emotionally disconnected fail hard. There's no excitement in that. There are no feelz.

Don't misunderstand drama. Drama is useful. Some of the naturals I know are frankly histrionic people, but women are obsessed with them because their personality brings EXCITEMENT. She might hate his guts, but immediately gets a dopamine rush when her phone buzzes and it's him. Feelz are highly addictive.

Feelz are the currency the movie star treasures. Good game is all about making a story, laced with emotional highs.

You bounce venues on dates because it "feels" like you got to know each other so fast.

You keep an air of mystery because it makes her "feel" curious.

When I lived in nyc, I told girls to meet me under the clock at Grand Central Station. Why? Having to find each other and meeting in an iconic location is just like....a movie. When she was blabbing to her friends about me, I guarantee you it started with, "he told me to meet him under the clock, I was nervous but we found each other through this huge crowd, it was so much fun!"

Those are feelz. That is the screenplay. I gave her all the emotional ammunition she needed to create the fantasy of me and Our First Date.

That's why feelz are so useful. By channeling emotion, you can manipulate and control the situation. She's bitching about her coworker? "Yeah, that bitch Kathy SUCKS! I bet she dresses like shit, too." Now, instead of listening to 20 minutes of bullshit, you've revved up her feelz and she gets it out of her system faster.

Same with a girl you approach - "I saw you getting really animated from over there. What got you so riled up?" once she gets back into the high emotional state, you coast on it. Relate to that experience at the same energy level she was bringing. Suddenly, she'll feel that mysterious "connection" starting to form. It's all feelz.

So look boys....if you want to get to the next level, just remind yourself - this girl really thinks she's a movie star. Don't let it be PG rated - bring the excitement and feelz, fuck with her head a little, and you'll be amazed how many girls will be obsessed with you.

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Title Every Bitch is a Movie Star
Author itiswr1tten
Upvotes 678
Comments 157
Date 30 July 2020 09:22 PM UTC (6 months ago)
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[–]JedYorks292 points293 points  (6 children) | Copy

If the bitch wants a movie, it’s going to be a comedy

[–]Senior Endorsed ContributorVasiliyZaitzev22 points23 points  (0 children) | Copy

So long as it ends as a porn film. /heh

[–]Endorsed Contributoritiswr1tten[S] 67 points68 points  (0 children) | Copy

Laughter, also a great engine for feelz generation.

[–]RStonePT8 points9 points  (0 children) | Copy

That'll teach her, amirite?

[–]IvyExcess5 points6 points  (0 children) | Copy

With a lot of porn scenes

[–]drsherbert113 points114 points  (7 children) | Copy

Don’t be so serious all the time. Turn up the douchbaggery when you need to, just don’t be a bitch and don’t let the joke be on you.

[–]Endorsed Contributoritiswr1tten[S] 90 points91 points  (2 children) | Copy

Yep. If a girl asks for your insta send her a hot insta hoe who isn't your race and tell her it's 2020 and you're trans everything.

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[–]throwwayhubu44 points45 points  (1 child) | Copy

Thats why too tryhard, unnatural. They make fun of this on The Office when the guy says "that outfit is really cute but I'd like the dress better if you were a size smaller". Comes out forced, unnatural and leaves you looking like an autist. You just have to lay off with the bullshit compliments that women are showered with and stop taking them seriously about everything. Women are the most adult children in the room, once you treat them like that it becomes much smoother.

[–]sowhattwenty2033 points34 points  (13 children) | Copy

Great metaphor. For the girls who post on Instagram, you can see the stories they are telling themselves and want to present to the world laid bare.

I know many chicks, like my peach of an ex-wife, who start making scrapbooks with wedding ideas at a young age. They get fed the Disney princess bullsh*t and eat it right up.

Most don't lose this dream, even though they may put on a superficial, feminist front. Get her feeling like she's in a rom-com, except be the Alpha male lead, not like the Beta characters the movie studios sell us.

[–]Bobbybouche150125 points26 points  (11 children) | Copy

This honestly repulses me so much about girls my age. I'm 25 but have been noticing this since I was 19 or 20 probably. All I want right now is a cool hottie to do fun things with like music festivals and traveling etc... And if that ends with us spending our whole lives together eventually then that's fine but I want to be young and responsibility free for awhile and all these girls want is somebody to move in with after like 6 months and immediately have a storybook wedding plus kids because they are all so damned insecure and for some reason they seem to believe that if they just pile tons of responsibilities onto a relationship then maybe they can get a man to stick around. (SORRY FOR THE BOOK IM ABOUT TO WRITE)

For example, I Have a beautiful daughter who I love dearly but her mom is a complete idiot. After fucking for about 6 weeks and realizing I didn't really like her at all I say "we need to talk". She says " yeah we do" and proceeds to tell me she's pregnant and then goes " now your turn". I wasted no time and told her it was a huge mistake (we were both like 19 at the time and obviously heading nowhere) and in the nicest way I could I said I didn't think we were totally compatible and I BEGGED her to get an abortion but she had already made up her mind before calling me that she was keeping it and there was nothing I could do.

Why would a young girl with high possibility of a bright future decide to have a dudes baby who CLEARLY doesn't want her? Because she was emotional and she thought if she had my baby I would eventually just change my mind and learn to love her lol. When I finally realized it was past the point of no return and an abortion was no longer an option I told her that since I couldn't stop it I would choose to be in my child's life but that I wanted minimal contact with her and to this day I still can't forgive her for forcing us both into a lifelong and uncomfortable situation.

After failing to trap me in her miserable little web she eventually gave up and downgraded to this guy who get this, looks pretty similar to me but from an objective standpoint is honestly not as attractive and within a couple months they leased a house together and now roughly a year and a half after meeting she's pregnant again and I bet my bottom dollar it was on purpose lol. So she was willing to move in and have a kid with the very first person who was willing just so she could fullfil that fantasy of being mommy and daddy and have a little stability and a life that basically entails going to work everyday in the same hometown she grew up in and coming home everyday to do the same shit. She doesn't care about ever traveling or learning any cool new hobbies like skydiving or surfing or whatever and if she ever changes her mind it'll be when her kids are grown but by then she will be too old for much of it. Shits crazy man.

[–]Longgbottom13 points14 points  (2 children) | Copy

Different people have different priorities man. Not everyone thinks they are alive for a reason. Get a job, marry, have kids, die - the Blue Pill dream. Imagine if Newton prioritised pussy over science.

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[–]Longgbottom2 points3 points  (0 children) | Copy

True but I doubt if puss ever took precedence over the good things he hid. Everyone likes a good fuck but people who have tasted success/ power/ authority can never get enough of it

[–]sowhattwenty206 points7 points  (3 children) | Copy

Raise your daughter the best you can to be a woman unlike your ex. I have daughters. It is hard, but we can model being the kind of high value men we would like to see our daughters end up married to. An uphill battle, but our most important job, imo.

[–]Bobbybouche15012 points3 points  (2 children) | Copy

True that problem now is she barely let's me see her and I feel like she's punishing me for not wanting to be with her. It's so fucked that mom's have all the rights over a kid right from the start and if we want any at all we have to go to court to get them. Knowing that she can do whatever she wants and I really have no control really eats me up and to make things exponentially worse her whore mom is now telling my little girl to call her boyfriend "daddy" and she cancelled my last weekend with her saying thinks they might all be sick for the 2nd or 3rd time in the past few months and there's nothing I can do about it.

[–]sowhattwenty202 points3 points  (1 child) | Copy

Yeah, I’m right there with you. It’s a marathon, not a sprint. The good thing is that kids are smarter than we give them credit for—they figure out who actually cares for them the most.

Make sure you write dates/times/keep all emails from your ex because you never know when you’ll need it in family court. Don’t put anything in writing you wouldn’t want a judge to read.

[–]Bobbybouche15012 points3 points  (0 children) | Copy

That's definitely a good thing but my kids mom does love her for sure, she's just batshit crazy and immature and I hate her. She has now blocked my number and will only respond to my mom about when we can see her now. I found out this was because she tried to call me few weeks ago to explain why I couldn't get my daughter when I asked and I Ignored the call because I didn't wanna hear it.

I want to take her to court for split custody but I don't really make enough money to support her and myself right now.

[–]uninportent3244 points5 points  (1 child) | Copy

Did you use protection, was it a condom failure, or did that Idiot woman lie to you about being on the pill?

[–]Bobbybouche15014 points5 points  (0 children) | Copy

She was supposed to be on the pill and even encouraged me to not worry about anything and then suddenly she claimed she was getting sick so she took antibiotics a day or so AFTER fucking me and claims it cancelled out the birth control somehow. says she didn't know 😡 as if that's not the first thing the doctor tells you when going on the stuff.

And then when I tried convincing her she shouldn't be having my kid because I want absolutely nothing to do with her she tried to say she had something wrong with her cervix and that it was likely she would never be able to get pregnant again so she refused an abortion and now here we are a few years later and the stupid whore is pregnant by her boyfriend. She's also been encouraging my daughter to call this guy her daddy as well and my only guess is it's because she wants to pretend she has a perfect family and she wants to forget the fact that she has a kid with someone who not only never wanted her but now also hates her Infinitely.

She barely responds to me when I try asking to see my daughter and she cancels my weekends with her over the slightest things now. My only option is to take her to court for split custody but I'm honestly in no position to spend that kind of money right now nor am I really capable of keeping her that much do to the fact that im still working a lot and trying to figure out what I want to do with my life. The fact of the Matter is I wasn't ready for a kid when she decided to have one and I'm not ready now. I still have to get my shit together but she's not making it easy at all. I've literally never hated a person so fucking much and I swear to God I'll never trust another female for the rest of my life.

[–]Redpiller771 point2 points  (0 children) | Copy

Shit crazy? Women are literally built (biologically speaking) to want kids. Your ex is women's natural inclination.

[–]PlainTundra1 point2 points  (0 children) | Copy

Great metaphor. For the girls who post on Instagram, you can see the stories they are telling themselves and want to present to the world laid bare.

Instagram is for how people want to be seen to the rest. I've personally witnessed girls uploading happy stories while at the same time being in utter shit. Everything there is fake, nobody is sad in IG unless they are using the fake-sadness for attention.

[–]EvelynnSpoiler176 points177 points  (70 children) | Copy

I'm at the point where I'm really struggling to not be a permanent asshole to women.

The idea that almost any woman is capable of cheating when her mood goes tits-up, makes me very uncomfortable.

Before I deleted social media, many of the girls that would always watch my stories had boyfriends. Even the most goodie-goodie girl I know began throwing DMs and sent sexting messages.

When I called her out on it, she said she was going through a rough-patch.

In a woman's mind, being in a bad mood is a reasonable justification, and this, as a man is something I cannot wrap my head around.

It scares the fuck out of me because I actually want a wife & kids

[–]Endorsed Contributoritiswr1tten[S] 80 points81 points  (14 children) | Copy

I have a post on infidelity about this. Most women are emotionally cheating 24/7, so I just roll with it.

[–]Fiyin2033 points34 points  (3 children) | Copy

My beach up texting till 11:00am on WhatsApp ? Who she texting ? Lol 😂. I just ignore, know imma found out sooner than later. Bros, these women be sneaky

[–]aFida9512 points13 points  (2 children) | Copy

Better to be the guy besides her than the guy on the screen. You're smashing and that's all that matters

[–]Redpiller773 points4 points  (1 child) | Copy

Most often than not the other guy is also smashing, and doesn't have to deal with her for the most part.

[–]hiaf7 points8 points  (0 children) | Copy

Side niggas are the like opposite of side bitches

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[–]Endorsed Contributoritiswr1tten[S] 34 points35 points  (2 children) | Copy

Yeah, the red pill is the radical idea that women are also people. Thanks for reading the sidebar.

Of course people trade up. That's basic. The point of TRP is to eliminate the Women are Wonderful effect.

I'm open about not caring if a girl has a boyfriend, husband, entanglement, whatever. I don't seek taken women, but I also don't care if I find them. Sexual strategy is.....amoral.

[–]RanaMahal7 points8 points  (1 child) | Copy

yeah i agree with your points but so many guys on here comment on trp nowadays with this incel “women are all bad” shit. it’s been starting to annoy me a lot too. it’s like there’s no happy medium being preached anymore and everyone is taking AWALT as gospel that every woman is terrible, and not that “they all have the potential to be like that” which is what it means.

besides you and a couple other ECs that post on here the quality of this sub has downgraded massively over the years. it just seems like this sub is becoming more incel and blackpill and i don’t know why or what the fuck happened to it

so eliminating disney princess syndrome / women are wonderful has now turned into “hate all women and they’re all trash and terrible people” somehow

[–]Endorsed Contributoritiswr1tten[S] 11 points12 points  (0 children) | Copy

It's pretty simple. The Blackpill and incel spaces grew to significant size then got banned. Now they're here. I'm just gonna continue to post quality content and fuck around on discord, it's whatever

[–]RStonePT7 points8 points  (0 children) | Copy

None of the guys here fuck guys, why do we care what dudes are doing?

[–]Aesthetik_15 points6 points  (1 child) | Copy

You’re being downvoted but that statement is an actual red pill

[–]RedGille14 points15 points  (0 children) | Copy

Only my post was downvoted; I m alive and well thank you :-) The problem is, people on this sub have gone from pedasteilizing women to trashing them; both approaches are wrong and not true red pill. This is why we are quarentined now.

[–]craneonacrane33 points34 points  (0 children) | Copy

So true man. Our culture has indoctrinated women that as long as they are being unstable (i.e playing victim) all of their shittiness is justified. Cheating, assaulting, being a general cunt, etc

[–]Aesthetik_113 points14 points  (4 children) | Copy

Mine slept with another guy because at the time I was supposedly „distant“ and we had a small dispute where I didn’t contact her for a couple of days 😆

[–]EvelynnSpoiler9 points10 points  (3 children) | Copy

Honestly what do you even do in a situation like that? If you message her, she's not going to respect you for throwing away your own self-respect.

It pains me how common these sort of cases are

[–]Blazer8087 points8 points  (0 children) | Copy

You start fucking other girls and keep being distant, if she can get over it that quick, you can too.

[–]1pluvoaz3 points4 points  (0 children) | Copy

If you can't change her, change her.

[–]RStonePT11 points12 points  (0 children) | Copy

I'm at the point where I'm really struggling to not be a permanent asshole to women.

It's because you still care and want the world to be how you want it to be. Once you let all that stuff go you may be an asshole, but you're not doing it purposefully as some sort of weird revenge against every woman whose ever wronged you, didn't live up to expectations.

Once you align with actual expectations, you learn to enjoy them in your own way ...

As for your familial plans, it only takes a hundred girls to get that 1% girl whose invested in you enough to go along with your vision, just so long as you have the skillset to capitalize on it.

[–]0ggles27 points28 points  (12 children) | Copy

Stick to religious girls, at least they have a fear in god.

[–]Noitrasama5 points6 points  (0 children) | Copy

just asking.. are u new to the redpill and experience via church/religious girls?

Church girls are the most sneaky. Hypergamy doesn't know or care about religion. And Islam is very strict. Yet Muslim girls are equally sneaky as fuck.
Let's not forget they dont value or care much about integrity, honor & loyalty. Her biology doesn't allow her these values.

[–]road_laya20 points21 points  (9 children) | Copy

Most don't.

Ecclesiastes 7:26-28.

[–]0ggles27 points28 points  (8 children) | Copy

Ecclesiastes 7:26-28

Church girls have a role to play. If they don't, their church circle will disown them. Your odds of a faithful marriage are better compared to a girl with tats and piercing.

[–]road_laya24 points25 points  (6 children) | Copy

I tried marrying a church girl. She is now abandoning me for divorce, and nobody in church is giving her any shit over it. In fact I have never heard of any of the churches in my area ever disowning any woman for cheating, divorce, being disobedient to their husbands, for withholding sex, or other marital sins mentioned in the Bible.

[–]0ggles2 points3 points  (3 children) | Copy

Just be Catholic, Jew, or Muslim.

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[–]aFida954 points5 points  (0 children) | Copy

Incels will come up with Reliogionmaxx now

[–]Mobsolidsnake-4 points-3 points  (1 child) | Copy

Marry a Moslimgirl; but one that u have tested. Build a concrete of a building based on love and religion. Love is the strongest part in this and religion gives it more power. She will pray to Allah that u both will be happy. And she would rather commit suicide than lose you. So in essence; look if love is what drives a certain woman—> no? —> Next —> Once she really is in love with you.. even if u become broke as a Mother Fucker, she won’t leave nor cheat on u.

But first you need a high SMV. For example u are UNI level male.

She merely adopted the study. Bot u were born in it.. molded by it.. u didn’t even know what not educating, bettering yourself was until you were already a MAN...

Ask yourself.. “DO YOU EVEN LIFT BRO!?”

Keep lifting, that way u will adapt, improvise and overcome all!

[–]Noitrasama5 points6 points  (0 children) | Copy

Build a concrete of a building based on love and religion...

dude have you read the sidebar? I think not.
I am in a Muslim country & am telling you hypergamy doesn't even care about religion or God. If she can get away with it, she will do it.

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[–]EvelynnSpoiler19 points20 points  (25 children) | Copy

Of course man. I wouldn't dare date a British woman.

90% of the women I've been with were foreign. Luckily, moving to eastern Europe is very realistic for me as i have lived there and have very few reasons to stay in the UK

On the down-side, the "goodie-goodie" girl was eastern European, but dating a girl with a strong old-fashioned father is definitely more likely

[–][deleted] 10 points11 points  (8 children) | Copy

This is just your hamster. EE women are just as bad.

[–]EvelynnSpoiler-1 points0 points  (7 children) | Copy

Yeah but the women are actually beautiful and many were raised doing feminine things like cooking & housework. Don't underestimate the importance of a strong and masculine father.

[–][deleted] 4 points5 points  (6 children) | Copy

I travelled EE and fucked quite a few of them. It's not like I'm a white dude either, I'm a brown dude with curly hair. They had the same minds as western women. They wanted to ride the CC. They just do a good job of hiding themselves. AWALT.

Also I don't think cooking is feminine. Not saying women shouldn't cook, but I think the best chefs in the world are men.

[–]EvelynnSpoiler1 point2 points  (5 children) | Copy

I know dude, trust me I know. But age-gap dating is much more normalised over there. I could date a 17 year old hottie and gain a lot of respect for it, while simultaneously making sure I'm with a girl that hasn't been with more than 1 guy.

Younger women are meant for older men. We have so much more experience and understanding that you can slip her the trad red-pill and she will be loyal so long as you stay in control.

How many women in Pakistan do you think are cheating on their husbands? Not nearly anywhere as much as in the West. So much fear is rightfully ingrained that it keeps the women in place.

If a woman does not get married by 30 then her role as a woman is considered invaluable on the sexual-market place, and she's more or less "thrown to the dogs"

[–]redditisnowtrash0 points1 point  (3 children) | Copy

Bro, you would be surprised at the women in Pakistan if you knew. AWALT.

[–]Noitrasama0 points1 point  (1 child) | Copy

do tell.
i was charting with one who told me she's just enjoying life i.e the CC

[–]redditisnowtrash1 point2 points  (0 children) | Copy

I was in Pakistan years back. The difference in personalities that the women have there when they are around their husbands vs when they're out with friends is astounding. It's like two different women entirely. I thought this only applied to Pakistani women at the time since they are so repressed in their culture, blah blah blah.

Years later, thanks to TRP, I've noticed that it's all women that do it. They're scared to reveal certain parts of themselves depending on who they're around, it's just in their nature.

[–]craneonacrane5 points6 points  (11 children) | Copy

How the brit broads be like

[–]beginner_23 points24 points  (5 children) | Copy

The beer is hot and the women are cold.

[–]Grimsterr22 points23 points  (4 children) | Copy

Heaven: American salary, British house, Japanese wife, French cook.
Hell: American wife, British cook, Japanese house, French salary.

Or so my German grandfather told me several decades ago.

[–]acoltismypassport5 points6 points  (2 children) | Copy

Brilliant, and still so incredibly true. I've only dated/fucked one Japanese women, but she was the most low maintenance, chilled-out girl I've ever been with.

[–]Noitrasama2 points3 points  (1 child) | Copy

Was she talented in the sexual arena department?

[–]acoltismypassport2 points3 points  (0 children) | Copy

They're extremely submissive as a general rule, which was no different in her case. Blowjob skills were 10/10, and she was one of only two women I've been with who could take all my dick in her mouth. I'm bigger than average, so that took me by surprise - especially as she was 4'10" and 95lbs.

[–]EvelynnSpoiler2 points3 points  (4 children) | Copy

Once they hit 19 their bodies go downhill, especially if they're at uni. They become hedonistic; fat, and depressed.

I've never liked British women despite being born and raised her. My standards were always based on the girls I'd see when I visited my mother's former Commie country

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[–]craneonacrane-1 points0 points  (0 children) | Copy

Yeah no doubt. Its hard to stay in shape in uk seeing how gloomy the weather always be

[–]acoltismypassport0 points1 point  (1 child) | Copy

Also British, and most of my lays have come from foreign - especially East Asian women. I deliberately go for them, and haven't slept with a white woman for about 6 years. I haven't slept with a white British woman for almost TEN years.

How old are you? I feel we have the same dilemma. Desirous of having a family, and children, but with zero domestic prospects whatsoever. Foreign girls for the most part are like trains that pass in the night. You might have anything from a few weeks to a few months with them, then it's back to their home country where the relationship then becomes impractical/not worth the effort. I have met some permanent stay chicks here, but they weren't for me, for whatever reason.

I've thought about working abroad as a teacher, but that comes with its own long-term viability issues.

How old are you mate? I'm 30, and I reckon I'll have to make a decision - or be close to it - in the next five years or so.

[–]EvelynnSpoiler2 points3 points  (0 children) | Copy

I'm 26, and pretty much very similar in the sense that I avoid British white women; most certainly would never date one.

On the bright side, we're lucky as men that we have time and don't have to rush things. Women seem to wear themselves out by 24 and then either date some loser or become a crazy cat lady.

The last girl I was speaking to was Greek, and her self-esteem hit rock bottom during lockdown. She's only been with 1 guy despite being 22, but carried red flags from her previous relationship, e.g. not wanting any physical contact.

Despite that I thought she was pretty cool as she was smart, but the moment she flew back home and started denying her mentality went downhill and pretending certain conversations didn't happen. I didn't even bother to screeny the chat logs because I remembered the story of Adam & Eve, and how Eve would rather defy God because a snake made her feel good about doing so.

I try and avoid MGTOW, because the community seem oriented around the hatred of women. I don't want to hate women; it's ungrounded and anti-stoic for starters. But whenever I get reminded of the nature of the snake, I find it hard not to be resentful.

[–]barnowl50 points1 point  (1 child) | Copy

Out of interest...what's you're experience with them?

[–]EvelynnSpoiler3 points4 points  (0 children) | Copy

My first proper relationship was with one, but I was an absolute bluepilled beta at the time. She had a strong father figure who was a spy, as hard as that might seem to believe.

A lot of the relationship was spent bonding with her father, although I was a manchild back then.

Women like her kinda gave me hope in a sense, although that's not to say there weren't any red flags. She was tolerable.

Most other girls there are generally wannabe party girls. Smoking and drinking is heavily ingrained in the culture, although nobody gets piss-drunk like the brits.

There are some good girls there, but the biggest difference is that they are far more feminine as opposed to the monstrosity that women in the UK have become

[–]Messsi3-1 points0 points  (0 children) | Copy

Tbh I might marry a foreign bitch.

I need a VISA.

[–]RPOpenUp1 point2 points  (0 children) | Copy

Wife & Kids

More like

Kids and more kids

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[–]Brutal130 points1 point  (0 children) | Copy

Yes and add alcohol inflated libido and most of women have little control over themselves.

[–][deleted] 53 points54 points  (2 children) | Copy

I'd say the more feminine someone is the more they care about "Image" instead of "reality".

Many modern guys act like this too. They believe they're in a movie. For men it relates in the fact that they don't have to put the work in and, that all they need is a "movie montage" to learn kung-fu.

They watch so much Blue-pill media that they believe that is what life is suppose to be like.

They are intimating reality.

The pictures on the social media mean more then the actual reality. For the pictures are the frame by frame of the screenplay.

American psycho captures this concept perfectly.

"...inside doesn't matter"

[–]3xchar2 points3 points  (1 child) | Copy

What if I think my life is more like a video game? Lol I feel like I'm constantly trying to level up and move to the next stage or journey

[–]Goeppertia3 points4 points  (0 children) | Copy

I think this all the time! Like I have my quests and the objectives I need to meet, maybe a couple of side quests.

[–]HorvathRed27 points28 points  (13 children) | Copy

" That's why feelz are so useful. By channeling emotion, you can manipulate and control the situation. She's bitching about her coworker? "Yeah, that bitch Kathy SUCKS! I bet she dresses like shit, too." Now, instead of listening to 20 minutes of bullshit, you've revved up her feelz and she gets it out of her system faster.

Same with a girl you approach - "I saw you getting really animated from over there. What got you so riled up?" once she gets back into the high emotional state, you coast on it. Relate to that experience at the same energy level she was bringing. Suddenly, she'll feel that mysterious "connection" starting to form. It's all feelz. "

This style of game works and I've used it in the past, but the problem with riding her own emotional state so much is that your frame is very fragile; you're literally coasting on manipulating her energy into attraction. It can be effective but it's also borderline blue pill, pedestalizing game and can backfire / negate attraction when overdone.

Nowadays I rely a lot more on teasing them on their "whining" and overly excited attitudes with tongue in cheek approaches and it's less exhausting because it feels less like bullshit (as if we really care), and it actually displays high value when you have decent game and aren't a social retard. It spikes attraction in its own way, if she finds you at least somewhat attractive from the get-go.

[–]Endorsed Contributoritiswr1tten[S] 29 points30 points  (7 children) | Copy

This was written at "intermediate TRP" level. There's always more to say. But, the point here is to understand how the inner monologue works.

Frame isn't situational or relative. It is absolute. Just because you're playing along, doesn't mean you're "in her frame". Frame wars are a sperg trap.

[–]arakouzo13 points14 points  (6 children) | Copy

This is a very important point. Lots of men here think that they must strut around and demonstrate manly control at all times lest they be anything less than 100% true to themselves. That kind of thinking is autism.

Playing along with a woman so that she has a good time and has sex with you, when that is the outcome you wanted, is you controlling the situation to get what you want. You gave her a little of what she wanted, too, by making it fun for her. Nobody loses the game that way. Everyone wins.

It's not important to make women lose. It's okay if they win, too.

[–]Messsi32 points3 points  (2 children) | Copy

That's what I did maybe in my teens. But right now I never let them win. I have no reason to.

When you build urself to such level, you can be autothorian and they will love being your slave.

[–]arakouzo4 points5 points  (1 child) | Copy

I'm not sure that women winning or losing ought to be that much of an issue to begin with.

It's weird to me that some guys get upset by the idea of women "winning." That women can have casual sex with impunity, the guys will make it fun for them and pay them attention that they enjoy, and all parties involved walk away getting what they wanted. Everyone wins. Except for the guys sitting on the outside watching and getting angry about not having sex.

I think that after a lifetime of getting crapped on by women, and telling themselves over and over how terrible women are as some kind of defense mechanism, some guys on the outside start to fantasize about women getting what's coming to them. Revenge. Women "losing" in their exchanges with men.

If a guy can't admit that it's his own fault he spent the first twenty years of his life getting crapped on by women, and he makes up stories about how it's women's fault and society's fault, he's just shooting himself in the dick. It will be harder for him to have sex, and he won't enjoy it as much.

[–]Messsi30 points1 point  (0 children) | Copy

It's just matter of power.

If you own her like a little bitch, she will love and hate it at the same time. The reward is sex.

I don't mind losing if someone can actually pull it off against me, sure. Why tf would I be angry?

You're confusing me with angry men as far as I can see, just because I don't play such games.

Like I said, I did that in teen years. I don't need to anymore. I don't have nerves for that shit.

Manipulations and mind games are PUA and beta crap. I don't need that shit.

Now if I do ever find myself to care about one woman more than I usually do, sure I'l be less of a "machine" and maybe let her win a bit.

But first she's gotta earn herself promotion to serious relationship material.

[–]Smurflicious23 points4 points  (3 children) | Copy

Yeah, the best way is to just date a normal person, they do not want drama constantly. Avoid the crazy women though they are crazy in bed too so maybe play with one for a while 😉

[–]1empatheticapathetic1 point2 points  (0 children) | Copy

normal person


[–]Senior Endorsed Contributormax_peenor0 points1 point  (1 child) | Copy

What is a normal person?

[–]Smurflicious21 point2 points  (0 children) | Copy

Someone who does not require drama to feel content.

[–]BitchesBrew_MF11 points12 points  (0 children) | Copy

Patrice O’Neal was the G. To the youngins who haven’t listened to the Black Philip Show, I implore you to take a listen.

As Patrice pointed out, women think of themselves as the director, producer, and lead actress of their life as a movie. If you can work with that and manipulate it to your liking then you’ve got gravy coming.

[–]no_regret2011 points12 points  (0 children) | Copy

Reality is you don’t need to generate all those cheesy emotions on her to get her hooked into you. I’ve meet many dudes who were real assholes to them, they would treat them like garbage and they would open their legs for them.

There’s 243 guys out there giving her laughs, excitement and telling them exciting histories already. Women are getting tons and tons of these emotions 24/7, don’t fool yourself buddy.

That’s why you want her to at least hate you/ think your an asshole or get her mad at you first, they never experience that on the daily basis, and they know that. Hate and love are the strongest passionate emotions out there, love they get it everywhere(family,friends, Instagram followers, male friends etc etc) but this muscle head guy who is a total jerk to and treats her like a complete cum slut shows up, ohh she hates his guts, she will talk shit about him for hours, but you know what?? She will be sucking his cock 2 hours later. Women want to feel vulnerable and feminine when it comes to dealing with men. They ones who get it are the ones who take the pussy, funny thing they do it unconsciously.

Feminine literature isn’t wrong, they get wet for the hyper masculine figure, the total sexist asshole, because they know those type of males are in extinction. I’ve lived in 4 different countries and the same scenario repeats again and again. Just be a fucking man all the way and don’t care about them, treat them like women and you’ll succeed.

[–]muff_marauder19 points20 points  (0 children) | Copy

This is spot-on.

I've always joked that women either hate you or don't notice you at all, so it's better to be hated.

[–]BurningOrangeHeaven35 points36 points  (2 children) | Copy

Not really a woman only thing, most people think they are the main character

[–]Messsi36 points7 points  (0 children) | Copy

Well hell yeah I am, I love myself. I'm likely narcissistic tbh.

[–]zephenrage8 points9 points  (0 children) | Copy

Dude, you nailed it here! A number of years ago we had a woman that worked at my company and she was always causing drama and making scenes around the work place. One time someone asked why she always has to be like that. I told them that she is the star of a movie in her own head and every time she causes a scene the imaginary audience watching her life on the silver screen applauds her. Every single person there agreed with me.

[–]BIGFACTS9820 points21 points  (2 children) | Copy

My boy who introduced me to game used to say he could fuck my ex if he wanted to and I never took him seriously cause I’m taller, more masculine physique, less body fat and better looking and she was head over heels for me

We later broke up cause I had a lot of insecurities involving her and our history which made it very hard to be vulnerable or develop trust with her. (was beta in her mind first couple years of HS and she treated me like shit until my homey mentioned above put me on to game.)

after some months of deep introspection and a copious amounts of drug use I realized this and began the process of overcoming the insecurities and repressed resentment towards her for how she treated me

Now I wanted to try again from a fresh slate

I had to learn how to get a girl who wasn’t at all emotionally invested and now completely detached from the relationship to start having feelings for me again by means necessary

I learned very quickly that ANY emotion from a woman is better than no emotion

it dawned on me that in HS when we would all sit at lunch together (post her treating me like shit) my homey could always get on her nerves

they never fucked (at least not to my knowledge) but now I understood what he meant

He doesn’t have to be tall, good looking, or in shape if he can get her emotional, because once she’s emotionally invested it’s your game to lose

[–]Endorsed Contributoritiswr1tten[S] 27 points28 points  (1 child) | Copy

That's why so many dudes on trp struggle to break through. They lift, they read, but they get obsessive about it. SMV is a pie chart. There's physical attractiveness, Hierarchy status, and money.

You just need to get past the post. There's a million combinations to do it. And a "passing" SMV is relative to the girl. Not because she's an X out of 10, that's basic bro thinking. Her hotness is merely correlated with what it takes to fuck her. For all you know, she just broke up and she's ready for a revenge fuck with the first dude who can stay consistent.

It's all about the feelz on the game side.

[–]BIGFACTS985 points6 points  (0 children) | Copy

Right All those things can increase her emotional receptivity but if she isn’t feeling intense emotions when actually interacting with you, you have it all backward

[–][deleted] 20 points21 points  (1 child) | Copy

She might hate his guts, but immediately gets a dopamine rush when her phone buzzes and it's him. Feelz are highly addictive.

You're about to make some poor soul DM a oneitis or ex lmao

[–]Senior Endorsed ContributorVasiliyZaitzev4 points5 points  (0 children) | Copy

When I lived in nyc, I told girls to meet me under the clock at Grand Central Station.

This, much like the clock, is Solid Gold. Excellent usage at "creating a narrative" as I say.

The bar at the Hôtel Plaza Athénée, or the Algonquin depending on a girl's preferences in pop or literary culture would also do.

[–]bharath_cr72 points3 points  (0 children) | Copy

After I read this, the only thing I can say is - it's showtime, baby.

[–]Fulp_Piction3 points4 points  (0 children) | Copy

People confuse holding frame with being serious, stoic, unemotional. That'll work with low self esteem girls who are dying for your validation but, as you say, it's no fun.

Holding frame is just maintaining your emotional state. Greene talks about not letting yourself be overcome by 'viral' emotions. Don't let her, or anyone else's emotions become your emotions.

Also, there's plenty of his laws that deal with letting people use their imagination to your advantage. The cult following, creating spectacles, being a mirror, assume formlessness. Roissy talks about frolicking in the sea of emotions, but being an oak tree for her to shelter under in the storm of her emotions.

TLDR: This post is legit, feelz before realz, read Robert Greene.

[–]Andgelyo6 points7 points  (0 children) | Copy

Being a “playful asshole” as most women have described to me works fairly well.

[–]0ggles5 points6 points  (0 children) | Copy

Girls just want a romantic story to tell. If you do not look like the leading role, well on to the next.

[–]SpamFilterHatesMe9 points10 points  (8 children) | Copy

girls are not looking for clowns, being aloof and having fun has nothing to do with being a jester that would spill out straight nonsense

you might be somewhat entertaining for a short time, but none of that time would make a women wet, and after you’ll just be tiring cause you’re still needy by default 'cause you still hopefully want to fuck her and need something from her

talk in a way that it’s not a big deal if you get rejected or not, but you don’t need to make a fool out of yourself just to have a funny role in her movie

and btw, whenever you got yourself thinking it’s about her movie, you’re willingly entering her frame

go do your own thing, relax and have fun, whatever you’re trying to act it’s still an act and by default worse than real authentic you

[–]Endorsed Contributoritiswr1tten[S] 7 points8 points  (2 children) | Copy

Behold the ego invested brand of guy I wrote about

Frame wars are for spergs my guy

[–]Redpiller771 point2 points  (0 children) | Copy

ego invested

He's literally saying to pay no mind to her shit and do what you want.

[–]RStonePT1 point2 points  (0 children) | Copy

Just be yourself


[–]ebaymasochist1 point2 points  (2 children) | Copy

go do your own thing, relax and have fun, whatever you’re trying to act it’s still an act and by default worse than real authentic you

I picked up more Machiavellian vibes from the post, not "go be a clown". Women want to be manipulated by strong men because it removes responsibility from them for making poor decisions. "He just makes me feel so ____. I know it doesn't make sense but..." This is the way they talk about shit. Being able to produce those strong feelings is very valuable.

[–]Noitrasama0 points1 point  (1 child) | Copy

go be a clown

i cant find it. Do u have the link?

[–]ebaymasochist0 points1 point  (0 children) | Copy

First line of the comment I replied to.

[–]no_regret200 points1 point  (0 children) | Copy

OP is they type of dude who’s emulates the Hollywood type of man, let him be that way

[–]vwowv7 points8 points  (0 children) | Copy

You are confusing my internal language. What you just spoke about I refer as 'the rollercoaster.' Women want a feelzy emotional rollercoaster ride. You have to give them one.

When I refer to women as 'movie stars' I'm saying they dress top notch, walk around with proud heads, and use their cell phones on the street, every call thought of as a big deal, and every one around them (mostly men) are below them. I'll say to my LTR, "look another movie star" referring to a pampered nobody whom carries herself like a movie star.

That said, yeah. I agree with all you said.

[–]INNASKILLZ2K181 point2 points  (0 children) | Copy

This is absolutely true.

In no way am I disagreeing with you, but I like Omlala's explanation of how women see emotions.

They are always looking for sources to fill her emotional needs.

They definitely asseses the world by what emotions they attribute to things.

Does she see you as a source of excitement, lust, intrigue, fun?

Does she see you as a provider, stability, validation, consistency?

Does she see you as weird, awkward, gross etc.

There is a distinct different in how he explains it.

Think of the emotions you OFFER rather than directly trying to spike or control her emotions.

It's important, because you can't actually control someone's emotions. A lot of spergs and autists will end up over doing it and just be weird.

So I find it easier to think about the emotional package I might presents rather than DIRECTLY trying to control her emotions.

Not sure of that makes sense. There is something important in recognizing that you can't directly control how someone feels. Least a guy ends up this weird dancing monkey trying way too hard for her to get an emotional spike with everything he does.

[–]GuyWithAnAngel1 point2 points  (0 children) | Copy

This post explains a lot and I had never thought of it to that level. Thanks for posting this!

[–]Shaqs_foot1 point2 points  (0 children) | Copy

Sounds like entering her frame to me. Why do I care about how she looks in her stupid fake movie? I'm focused on bettering myself and being better than yesterday yet I'm supposed worry about how a girl feels in her life? I don't know man this screams dancing monkey try hard. Most guys won't be able to pull this off nor should they.

[–]3LiveAFTSOV1 point2 points  (0 children) | Copy

Relevant Facebook whorer story I just read from one of my acquaintances...

Was just remembering something a few hours ago that I'd actually forgotten about.

I'm sitting in a fast food restaurant, next to a guy I couldn't stand. Didn't have the heart to break up with him yet but wanted to. Meanwhile, there's the guy friend across from me. While I'm sitting there, trying to get my bf to stop clinging to me like Velcro, this other guy and I are stealing glances and smiles at each other.

It was very romance novel.

That guy, I kept smiling at, mere days after that became my boyfriend and later, my husband. Sure, we've had our ups and downs but we've always known that we belong together.

When things get tough, you fix it, not throw it away. Love CAN conquer all if you put in the work to back it. :)

Jason X I love you!

As pointed out by Osiris in another comment, she is so unaware by saying "she wanted to break up with boyfriend," then says "if something is broke it fix it not throw it away!"

To tie it back to itiswr1tten's point, notice how in her story she is the female protagonist of the romance novel that is her life.

Red pill theory confirms itself everyday.

[–]Bobbybouche15010 points1 point  (0 children) | Copy

Lol how does one work on not being emotionally disconnected? I feel like this might be me...

[–]moxiecalc0 points1 point  (25 children) | Copy

Ugh. As a New Yorker who has been asked to meet at the clock more times than I can count by friends or family members upon their arrival to the city, it is NOT a cute date spot. It’s loud, crowded, disorienting, and the clock’s building is CIRCULAR, ffs. I’ve been waiting on one side while the person I was meant to meet was around the other side for upwards of 10 minutes since we came from different entrances to the concourse. Then you have to leave directly from there because there is nothing even mildly inexpensive to eat or do around Grand Central unless you want to hop on the subway with your date and go somewhere else. Which I’m sure is “totes romantic” with the garbage wind from the subway blowing up your date’s skirt. Just yuck. I sincerely hope OP no longer lives in NYC so he can’t pull this shit anymore.

[–]Senior Endorsed Contributormax_peenor1 point2 points  (23 children) | Copy

As a

As a? No one cares. What I do find interesting is your reply reads like a narrative, the sort of kind we would ask for when we are flushing out a screenplay. Full CIRCLE indeed with the topic at hand, yes?

/u/TheRedPike, momentary amnesty please. I'm curious as to the response.

[–]moxiecalc0 points1 point  (21 children) | Copy

I can’t decipher your response. I can’t tell if you’re being homophobic and trying to say I must “think like a woman” just because I’m gay, or if you are getting at something else entirely and I’ve missed the point here.

[–]Redpiller771 point2 points  (14 children) | Copy

How could he know you're gay. He's just saying what you said is your experience and irrelevant.

[–]moxiecalc0 points1 point  (2 children) | Copy

Maybe I didn’t read it correctly. Hence why I said as much in my reply. But he never explained further, so I am left with the impression he was trying to use me to “prove” OP’s point by saying that I have an effeminate mindset, or something along those lines.

[–]Redpiller771 point2 points  (1 child) | Copy

You're reading too much into it.

[–]Senior Endorsed Contributormax_peenor0 points1 point  (10 children) | Copy

Well, let me clarify. Experience is interesting, but it holds no inherent value. Make the case. Just telling us you have experience is worthless.

[–]moxiecalc0 points1 point  (8 children) | Copy

I think that most people who have lived in New York more than a year or two would agree with me on this specific point, many of the locations romanticized in movies and on TV are not what they are made out to be. I’m not trying to invoke some sense of authority, it’s just my opinion (based on experience) that this is a very obnoxious place to meet a date. I didn’t realize that the comment section barred any opinions not backed by scientific evidence.

[–]Redpiller770 points1 point  (6 children) | Copy

Not necessarily by scientific evidence, but dismissing a point because of your preferences holds no value like the other guy said.

[–]moxiecalc0 points1 point  (5 children) | Copy

Neither of your opinions hold any value, either. You’re just dismissing my point based on your own preferences. So why don’t you hop off my dick and find something more meaningful to argue about?

[–]Redpiller770 points1 point  (4 children) | Copy

The difference is that I know that my opinion has no value and that's why I don't shit on the post. And I only commented to correct you.

[–]moxiecalc0 points1 point  (3 children) | Copy

It’s very brave of you to admit that you only stepped in for the sake of being pedantic and contradictory. This no longer interests me. Have a great day/night.

[–]RStonePT0 points1 point  (0 children) | Copy

Yes you are, it's so instinctive you didn't even notice.

If you can't explain it without having to say 'you had to be there' then don't explain it because you don't understand it yourself.

[–]Redpiller770 points1 point  (0 children) | Copy

You're explaining this to the wrong guy.

[–]Senior Endorsed Contributormax_peenor0 points1 point  (5 children) | Copy

As a New Yorker

Um... being from New York means you are gay? Careful with the logic there, friend. Shit gets contorted.

This is the first problem with your comment:

[–]SanFranDons940 points1 point  (4 children) | Copy

Jesus Christ not everything is a logical fallacy. I swear 10 year olds on reddit discovered logical fallacies and haven’t turned back in them since. His opinion is totally relevant and, in fact, quite correct. I have a feeling you would would yell at your doctor for “appealing from authority” when he makes a diagnosis

[–]Senior Endorsed Contributormax_peenor0 points1 point  (3 children) | Copy

As a New Yorker

What part of that confuses you?

And I don't give a fuck about his opinion or your opinion. Give me something to work with or piss off.

[–]SanFranDons940 points1 point  (2 children) | Copy

Let’s say you have a big lump in your neck and you go the doctor to get it checked, and he tells you, “As an oncologist, I think you have cancer” would you call out this “logical fallacy” as an appeal to authority?

Let’s say you have an upcoming trip to Cancun in December, and you’re talking to your friends about how excited you are. One friend says “As someone from Cancun, I can tell you December is a bad time of year to visit” would then bitch about how he’s just “appealing to authority”?

If you’re answer is yes to both those questions, idk what to tell you but at least you are logically consistent. If it a no, then I think you should rethink your initial objection to the dude stating his opinion, to which being a New Yorker is pretty much a necessary prerequisite for him having (given that the opinion of whether these locations are good date spots relies on subjective experience of going to these locations)

[–]Senior Endorsed Contributormax_peenor0 points1 point  (1 child) | Copy

would you call out this “logical fallacy” as an appeal to authority?

No. I solicited his medical opinion based on his licensed position. Even then, I would expect him to explain his opinion, as most will do.

I can tell you December is a bad time of year to visit

Worthless. What does "bad time of year" mean? What is their criteria? Does it match my criteria? I happen to like wet weather. Others don't. Just telling me they are from there does not help me.

I think you should rethink what you think this logical fallacy is.

[–]Endorsed Contributorex_addict_bro0 points1 point  (0 children) | Copy

This probably deservers its own post, but a woman round here driven straight under a running train because before road pass the train slowed down and made noise SO SHE THOUGHT THE TRAIN IS GIVING HER WAY.

That's the solipsism.

[–]Mobsolidsnake0 points1 point  (0 children) | Copy

Have u even read the sidebar? I am talking about 1%. U must become 1%. And she must be 1% who is not about “getting away” with it. Her worry will only be; I want a LTR Alpha.

[–]sowhattwenty200 points1 point  (0 children) | Copy

I’d try to shoot for increased visitation before the 50/50 custody, but in any case, keep being a good example.

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[–]Endorsed Contributoritiswr1tten[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children) | Copy

We're describing the same thing

[–]Legatti0 points1 point  (2 children) | Copy

Damn, this sub might actually just be full of assholes. Egg in my face for defending trp, my b.

[–]Longgbottom0 points1 point  (0 children) | Copy

You what?

[–]fuckouttahea0 points1 point  (0 children) | Copy

This is probably the realest shit ever wrote saving this one.

[–]ebaymasochist0 points1 point  (0 children) | Copy

Same with a girl you approach - ....... Suddenly, she'll feel that mysterious "connection" starting to form. It's all feelz.

So look boys....if you want to get to the next level, just remind yourself - this girl really thinks she's a movie star. Don't let it be PG rated - bring the excitement and feelz, fuck with her head a little, and you'll be amazed how many girls will be obsessed with you.

Just a reminder to guys here that a lot of movies don't have happy endings for women, and they like that now, nihilism, so this applies to the sad ones too. The chicks that post shit like "OF COURSE I would drop a cup of coffee... On a Monday!" And expect people to laugh... And a bunch of other shit of no value but to show how they are the victim of the universe(yet live in safe modern country of opportunities). Yeah they're the star in their movies as well.

How is this good? Because while these (18-28)girls are the main character in their own movie, most of them are still in the first act where they make "mistakes" which means "fucked some jerk"(exactly what she wanted that night). She wants excitement much more than she wants the boring truth. So like OP said, fuck with her head a little bit. Outcome independence is usually this vague concept but this is it in practice- being self amused while talking to her and not caring if she gets frustrated and walks away. PUAs called it 'breaking rapport' aka pushing, and it is crucial for sexual tension and that emotional roller coaster.

What're the traits women are drawn to? Dark triad.. what do psychopaths do? They lie with a straight face. What can be more mysterious than a guy who you never know if he's telling the truth or not? You just met her and owe her absolutely nothing, certainly not the truth. Make some shit up, not to impress her, but to amuse yourself for the next minute. She will either believe you or play along because it is not boring. For example... You have a girl stalking you. Really? No. But she's not going to care if it's true or not because it's fun.

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[–]cafeitalia-5 points-4 points  (0 children) | Copy

Do not revolve your life around her wishes or stardom. That is bs. They will revolve their lives around you instead.

You can kill a man, but you can't kill an idea.

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