I think the one thing both sides can agree on is the simple fact that dating today SUCKS. However, one thing I've yet to see very often despite their perceived problems with dating, is an actual solution to fix the current dynamic. For this to be productive I want to see proposed solutions for each gender since this is within a heterosexual context, there doesn't need to be the same amount of reasons since I'm not delusional enough to think both sides are somehow "equally" to blame. Whichever side is more to blame is up to you all to decide, however. I won't chime in unless asked, I've left my relationship status and gender out of the prompt so as to not skew any results.