Hi, 18 M here. Stats: (1,80 m, I run and do kickboxing. I read the RP sidebar, plus I also like reading about religions and different philosophies. Used to be very religious, now I don’t even know if I am or not. I think a lot about life and have quiet times with any god out there. Never had a gf) I’m from Spain so excuse any mistakes I might have. Feel free to be harsh or somewhat rude, as I want real advice.

I’ve always thought that making out with someone you just met at a party was pretty lame tbh. However, nowadays hardly anyone understands me when I say I want to have something serious and not just make out because I find someone fisically attractive. I’ve never found more than like 2 people in my life that consider marriage something precious or even just a relationship with your boyfriend/girlfriend. They just want to have fun, have sex and make out with anyone they find attractive or that asks them to have sex/make out. And I know I shouldn’t change because of this, but honestly I’m thinking about becoming one of those guys that just want to see how many girls they can get on a night out at the disco.

To be fair they seem happy, and waiting for a girl that shares this view is almost mission imposible. People even laugh at me when I say I never made out with a girl because I’d rather do that with a girlfriend in a relationship based on respect and true love.

I’m starting to think those people are right. I’m tired of being the weird guy in those situations. What do you guys think? I’m even considering leaving religion and just be like the rest. I don’t think I want to keep living my life like that because the fact that people live differently and seem happy makes me think that what I’m doing doesn’t make any sense. Also everyone says that at this stage of my life I should be thinking that and that I should just “go with the flow” and have fun. I’d really like to hear your opinion and experiences.

P.S.: Do you guys think making out with someone before being in a relationship with them is OK as a Christian? Even if you don’t really want to have anything to do with them after making out. Thanks.