Women have the incredibly ability to go from 80 to 8 in a blink of an eye. One day she is super interested in you, the other day she doesn't even talk to you. One day you mean everything to her, the other day you mean exactly zero. And to get their interest back is close to impossible. Men often go back. They're willing to give second chances. They're still capable of wanting to be with women that they haven't been with for a long time. Women not so much. It's like they completely erase you from their existence.

Now, i've seen all sorts of evolutionary theories trying to explain this, but i really don't buy any of them. I think it's all BS. It all comes down to one simple thing: OPTIONS. They have countless options. Fun never ends to them. You will probably suffer alone once she no longer cares about you, and if you want another booty, you might have to work hard for it. She won't need to do anything. She knows dumping you won't stop her from having any of her needs fulfilled.

The reason i know this is the exact reason is because, the more options i have, the closer to women i act. OPTIONS is the most powerful weapon you can have at your disposal. It's a powerful anti-stress and anti-depression. When you have options, suddenly things seem to matter a lot less. The girl stopped responding? Ok, so what? I have 5 more hot girls that are still responding. I'm not even gonna think too much about that one girl because i have my mind occupied with other temptations, just like women usually always have their minds occupied with other temptations. She dumped me? Ok, so what? It's not like i'm gonna be forever alone now. Nobody is that special. She dumped me, i got another one. My mind is occupied with the new one, so don't stress about the old one. I don't beg for her to forgive me. I don't send her sms years after telling her i still think about her, like i've seen so many guys doing, but rarely any girls. I just move on. Sending sentimental messages to women who barely remember you. That's the ultimate indication of lack of options.

The moments where i really feel more emotional and attached to a girl are simply the moments where i don't have that many options available. That's when i hate them for moving on so quickly. That's when i might try to get them back, or write them needy messages about how much i miss our time together. All that shit disappears once you have a good amount of options. The thing is: most men don't, so this creates the illusion that men are a lot more romantic and attached. I don't think they are. They just don't have the privilege of having nonstop sexual and romantic opportunities.

Working towards having options makes life better in every single aspect. It's an amazing shield against people's ability to hurt you and control your feelings.