OK I posted a while ago about this chick I banged, I thought the sub would find it interesting because you'd get to see TWO angles, the alpha fucks angle (my POV) and the beta bucks angle. This girl tells me about her BF, generally I don't talk to girls about that kind of shit, but with this girl I do, I learn a lot about how a beta gets treated without being the beta, so I somewhat encourage it purely for the sake of validating RP philosophy from the real world and being able to add to my own experience of it without actually being in that position.

I iced the chick out for quite awhile, not picking up her phone calls, texting her back days later and etc. Anyhow last night I decide to ring her and see what's up. She shit tests the fuck out for me for ages, there's far too many shit tests to list, she tells me about other men buying her stuff, her new boss who's a multimillionaire and how she's going to dress sexy for him and all this other crap, trying to see if I'll cave or lose frame, which I don't. I'm very nonchalant and indifferent.

Eventually we get to this dialogue:

  • "I told beta_boy about what happened with us"

  • I said "really, you broke his heart, why?"

  • she says "I just couldn't keep it to myself anymore, I felt so guilty" (validates the theory someone posted here recently that women cannot keep secrets to themselves)

  • I say "how did that go down then?"

  • she says "well, I changed it a little bit, I said we just kissed and that it didn't go any further than that"

  • I say "well technically, you're not lying"

  • and she goes "I know, right?" basically, it did go further, we fucked, but she had some LMR where she said she wasn't going to cheat on him, I acted like I didn't give a shit, quashed the LMR and then we fucked.

She's rewriting history by using her memory selectively to only reveal parts of the truth rather than the full truth, which is omission of truth, the lack of full disclosure is an indirect lie when you purposely leave out crucial information, which is what she's doing here with her beta bf.

When she told him about it, he got really angry and almost left her (her words) bare in mind this reaction is based off the trickle truth that we merely kissed and that things went no further than that, which is a lie. If you're ever on the receiving end of this and it's "just a kiss" or a "handjob" or "a blowjob" or "she just watched" don't believe her for a second, she's trickle truthing your ass.

She then threw an ultimatum at him "if you're going to leave, then leave now and don't come back" (now there's multiple reasons she threw him this ultimatum - #1 is she wants to branch swing to me even though I told her I want no exclusivity with her, she's fucking silly, she's still trying for it anyway, #2 is she wants to control the frame of her relship and keep him enthralled by suggesting shes indifferent to whether he leaves her or not, either way she wins) after that little stunt, her "i dont give a fuck attitude" towards him is successful, with his rage wearing off, he starts blaming himself, saying if he'd worked less (guy does 12 hour shifts and works like a fucking boss) and paid more attention to her then maybe she wouldn't of felt the need to go off with another guy and cheat.

He takes all the blame for it and she lets him. She even believes her own hamstering afterwards which is quite funny, she says to me "if he paid more attention to me we'd probably never have had sex" (trying to steal my power by saying I'm not attractive in and of myself, I realise what's she's doing) so I reply with "you shouldn't be left alone with me because you can't resist me." (Narcissism always works THEY EAT THAT SHIT UP.)

She tells me that me and her can't do that again (I know this is a shit test) and I say "If that's your choice then fair enough" (acting like IDGAF!) we talk some more and we're flirting back and forth over the phone, she's flirting with shit tests and I'm batting back, she loves the banter, she's giggling and getting turned on (her voice becomes increasingly sexualised and feminine in tone) then eventually she says "so what are we gonna do about this situation?" I play my asshole game, I know she wants the plausible deniability and for me to ultimately make the decision that leads to her doing something naughty so that she can blame me for it later on, but instead I say "whatever you want I don't care" she goes "Noooooooooo tell me!" in a girly voice and I say "Haha, winding you up, come and stay at mine at the weekend, wear sexy underwear" she's like "OK, I'll message you tomorrow to arrange logistics" we flirt some more, and then say good night.

TLDR: fucks me, tells her beta bf we only kissed, he gets pissed and almost balls up, she throws an ultimatum, he falls for that BS and stays, she tells me she isn't going to fuck me again, I say "OK, that's nice" flirt with her, now she's coming back for round 2. LOL.