I'm a pastor of a small Reformed church. I've read a lot of negative things in this sub about churches and pastors, "churchianity" etc. And I agree with a lot of it. I'm trying to make my church a positive place for men that doesn't idolize or pedestalize women as so many churches do. I don't want to pedestalize men either- I just want to be faithful to what the Word says about both.
I'm curious as to everyone's perspective on church right now. I am especially curious given a Gallup poll that just came out that showed that regular church attenders are the only group whose mental health did not decline in 2020.
So: What's your current perspective on church? Do you think there are good ones? Is church a lost cause? What are your experiences, positive and negative? What do you think churches need to do to overcome the feminization that is present in so many churches? I'm sorry if this has been discussed to death- feel free to point me in the right direction if so.
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