Girls who message you “come over” late at night with minimal convo before that - any success converting if you don’t catch message on the night of?

Y’all ever get some chick on a dating app message you saying “come over” late at night with minimal to zero conversation before that?

I’ve had it happen a few times. Never caught the message on the night of. And nothing ever comes of it when I respond the next day.

My guess is they were arguing with / mad at some pseudo boyfriend figure. But has anyone ever successfully converted these situations to lays?

I’ve taken several different strategies in responding, and none of them have worked. Maybe it’s just too late if you don’t catch it night of, and they feel too slutty the next day.

Any thoughts on or experience with this?