About me, I am 25 years old male that recently graduated college. I have been in only 2 relationships. Both my relationships were long term (3 years and 2 years).Both ended by being cheated on. After the second one I decided to sit down and figure out what is wrong with me (instead of blaming the girl). Now I learned a lot about myself and the mistakes that I have done, and my journey was truly full of panic attacks and regrets to how I behaved in the past. It took me a year to change myself and work on myself (internally and externally). I know I changed simply because so many people including my own parents told me that I am different (they'd mention it completely out of the blue), and I've always asked if it was for better or worse? The answer almost always was (much/way better). I'm thankful for that, I gained more respect from my family and friends and now I view the life in a complete different way.

Yet, I'm not particularly happy about it. I'm wondering if you were given the choice to go through what you went through and mature, or simply not going through it what would you choose?

Before you answer please remember this, even though you might be happier and more confident now, don't forget the terrible pain you had to go through