Without going into details I can see this situation starting to happen but there are WAY too many red flags to ignore. She's "friends" with her ex (they bang a couple times a year, might as well be a sexless relationship with him cause they still talk), does drugs and parties all the time. She's fun, a great all lay and all but how do I handle this without going lolnoway if she brings it up. I like talking to her and all that so whats the best way to handle this without pushing her away?