I spoke to a marriage teacher today (Jewish women take marriage classes before they can tie the knot officially) by chance & she shared very intuitive things.
- A man is obliged to provide for a women financially, sexually, and emotionally.
- A woman is obliged to RESPECT a man, and please him. Please can mean.. sexually, but also, cook for him, take care of him, etc. The respect is #1 and so important. You have to praise him and not hurt his ego.
- 90% of problems start in the bedroom and bleed out into the rest of the marriage- Have sex. And lots of it. (Theres a two week waiting period every month when you're not allowed to have sex, every day after that you should try to.)
- Respect him how you would respect a parent, even if you disagree nod and smile. 5. Dress modestly for the world, save that sexual energy for your husband.
- "A man has a need to be respected by his woman, a woman has a need to respect her man."
Thought Id share as these things align with RPW beliefs!
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