been lurking here for awhile. heres my story of real life RP theory/examples. when i was 21(when this story begins) i was 5'10 and 140 pounds. scrawny. ive hit the gym the past couple years on and off, finally bulked up to 190 and added a few tattoos.

i used to be a nice guy/BP. when i was 21/22 i found a girl(26, we will call girl 1) and fell hard for her. she had her own place/car/career like i had, and found her quite attractive. i would drive 40 minutes to see her whenever i could. i would take out her trash. write notes. take her out. whatever you could think of, i had the biggest erection for BP you can imagine. this goes on for almost a year. you guessed it next, she dumped me for being too nice. we'll come back to this shortly.

girl2- met where i used to work. fell quickly and moved in after 6-7 months. i was adamant about her getting a job and reimbursing me half of all the rent(which she did, i collected over half her first 2 months of paychecks), after she got a job. i bought her a car. she didnt like the stick shift, so i bought her another automatic. she gets said job, but i still made 5x more than she did. i was still the provider she wanted. i got an idea she was cheating. i told her i would sign over the car so i could be confident she was with me and not for the life i provided her(job/car/place to live), and she would be self sufficient. you can guess it again, TRP. i found out 2 weeks later she was still cheating. kicked her out. she took the car. i had a spare key and took it back while she was at work. luckily, she had left the signed over title in the car, so i shredded it and applied for a replacement(lost title) for $8. she had no transportation, so she lost her job. lost the ability to stay with her friend after i kicked her out because she had no car and no job. she had to go back to her parents house. with nothing. the kicker is that she had set up her paychecks to be direct deposited into my account, so i collected her final paycheck. her half of the rent was due anyway. revenge was so gratifying. this is the straw that broke the camel's back.

dated girl 3 for about a year. she hid the fact that she had kids for some time, and hid it well. i honestly only stuck around that long because the sex was so damn good. we went through several 'breakups' and i realized she only wanted me to stick around because her kids liked me. i just wanted to fuck. she would do anything i asked her to do, though. i was constantly demonstrating SMV. girls were always calling me at all hours of the night. her friends hit on me. i managed good friendships and ran the show.i was unemployed for a couple months. she took me out drinking almost every night and covered the bill, and helped me pay my personal bills until i got employed. while the sex was great, im not here to raise your kids. she wasnt very intelligent. so i ended it.

back to girl1- 4 years have gone by since we dated. ive begun to swallow TRP. i invite her out to 'catch up.' i wanted a second chance after i took the pill. have a few drinks and head back to her place. i keep talking about me, cracking jokes and acting alpha/not giving a fuq. go back to her place and i tell her to go get me some water. i follow her to the kitchen and playfully slap her ass to make my intentions clear. this is something id have never been comfortable doing before, especially on a first 'date.' i can tell by the look in her eyes/bodily reactions that she liked it. got laid. dated for 6 months. i got full access. she would take me out, i got to drive her car, and stay in her big big damn house while she was working. she always mentioned how different i was since we dated last, and she ate it up. i more or less lived there for free. i ended up breaking up with her. she was very hurt.

disclaimer-between these major recent relationships, i was always trying to increase my girl number anyway possible. now i like to just wait until a girl approaches me. and they do. it makes things a lot easier for me. i dont buy girls drinks at the bar. i dont take them out and pay. im not nice. i do what I want to do. im not desperate for pussy. i have a phone full of hookups i can ring up.

current-just doing my thing at work. my boss is married, but extemely attractive. i tease and make fun of her for a bit. one random day she just texts me from her phone. i continue playful teasing. doin my own thing. but i read her responses and bodily language which clearly indicate she is interested. eye contact, smiling, legs facing me, she calls me an ass, texts me all the time, etc etc. had a few drinks one night and told her some pretty explicit things (i try to stay pretty professional, this is my job we're talking about). we hung out couple weeks ago. i had to go to the bathroom and came back and she surprised me by paying the whole ($60?) tab. i said cool thanks but i gotta go. she was upset that i left so soon. she came over this week and i fucked the shit out of her for an hour. now she likes to tell me how much of a pussy her husband is.

on the last one, im trying not to catch oneitis. not to a married chick, though shes great. dont ever get the oneitis. as soon as you get it, you turn BP. maintain composure. what i take is this: be confident. dont be a sucker. lift weights. fuck bitches. dont catch feelings. thoughts? sorry for the wall of text. thanks for reading.