Backstory:

Been on 3 dates. We fucked on the third, which was last week Tuesday.

After our first date and even more after our 2nd date, I've been cutting back heavily on text/phone communication.

She knows I'm busy. I often work weekends, too. So she NEVER calls (unless we're meeting up that day) and 95% of texts she sends me are unreplied or say I'm busy.

Yesterday, I may have fucked up.

I texted her "Thinking of you"

She was pretty surprised and seemed delighted. Transitioned that into setting up a meet. She's gonna cook food and come over to my place on Tuesday. (A dish she made for me before which I told her I loved)

Got a shit test (which is a first), but A&A'd past it. She texts me that she laughed and will do it. I reply, "Good girl. Sweet dreams, [her name]." and radio silence.

Current Issue:

She called my phone. I wasn't near it, so missed call.

She then texts me saying:

Hello

Sorry for calling you may be working now but

I need your assistance in a certain issue pertaining converting a file in a computer i would like to ask for you help.

I do NOT want to be tech support to ANYONE because, RP or not, that's a shit task.

Questions:

Am I overthinking this?

Or did I dock myself AF points and give myself BB points by sending "Thinking of you"?

I'm going to ignore it. But I'm more interested in what caused me to be the guy to ask for this stuff.