Married Women

kenpachitz · 2017-01-30T16:05:09+00:00

How do the rules of engagement change in regards to the typical dates, escalating and fucking process?

It can be a pain in the ass to arrange dates and stuff because of her obvious other commitments. Things can come up last minute that she is strongly obligated to do. She might not be able to meet for weeks at a time. She can make this all up as well of course, and you have no idea.
You definitely need to have your own place and be discrete about things.
possibly flakiness if she gets guilt pangs about it. She might want you to confirm her hamstering that what she is doing isnt so bad etc.
possibility of getting lead on for a prolonged time. I had this quite recently. Went out on a couple dates, got a bit hot n heavy, each time she had to go back before too late. She broke it off just at the point where intercourse was the only place left to go, leaving me a bit gagging. In short, she played me for a bit of a cheap thrill (I guess that I didnt bang her left her concscience clear) and some company (we went on a little trip that her husband clearly couldnt be fucked to go on).
strong chance of getting ghosted at any time.
she might be looking to branch swing out of the marriage and you have to be on your toes. All hell could break loose.
most likely still banging her husband. I was seeing one who turned out was absolutely just using me to get back at her husband, who had cheated on her first with her friend. Sex was fun, the full realisation of what had happened was a bit humiliating (and I had no idea of the full story until quite a bit afterwards).

Pros?

decent sex
it's a bit of an illicit thrill, and you might have to be sneaky about it which can be fun.
she cant possibly be in any position to be possessive of you, or jealous of other girls or any of that crap. She has to eat that right up.
married women usually have a bit of spare cash to spend and dont mind treating you.

Metalgear222 · 2017-01-30T15:39:46+00:00

The pros - You get an orgasm. Typically they're sexually frustrated resulting in good sex.

The cons - Heavily outweigh the pros. Risking your career or reputation (which as you know you are to guard with your life). Risking income. Risking her telling husband (or him finding out) and him coming after you with a machete.

Just doesn't seem worth it.

hiddenonion · 2017-01-30T18:39:42+00:00

I've been with a few married woman. They might ghost you at anytime. Also be prepared to hear shit about their their husband (he doesn't listen, he's a loser/jerk/wimp, he doesn't understand her). The most likely have obligations with family so they are not always available, so it's sometimes tough to set things up, middle of the day is best. You also have to watch out for jealous husbands, so keep it discrete. I have only been confronted twice. I throw it back on her. But I will say, married woman often times are sexually frustrated, their husbands are BP, and these ladies have not be seriously fucked in a long time. They will be super grateful and will be up for some freaky stuff. If their husbands only knew. I have never been with a married woman who didn't orgasm multiple times, often uncontrollably. Also I have never been with a married woman who didn't feel guilty afterwards about it, which is why you will most likely get ghosted. Just be cool about it, sometimes they get over it and will keep thinking about it and will contact you again after a while.

Kalidane · 2017-01-30T20:32:08+00:00

You didn't mention her age. Probably best to find a newer younger model.

Married women like to flirt and receive male attention. No different to unmarried women.

She will be happy to cheat in the right situation.

If you proceed with this, she is likely to use it as LMR "I have a husband you know" Just be cocky "So do I. He's sooo boring. He never wants to have fun" and continue with whatever your hands were doing Or "I didn't invite him because it's your pussy I want to lick" and proceed to undress her. You get the picture.

max_peenor · 2017-01-30T17:10:45+00:00

Why the dumpster diving? Fuck nubile 19 year olds that are looking to find their inner sex beast. She already wrote her sex book and you aren't even in the epilogue.

Title	Married Women
Author	kenpachitz
Upvotes	3
Comments	9
Date	January 30, 2017 3:12 PM UTC (7 years ago)
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