My girlfriend and I are in a very good LTR. We are both in college, she comes to see me very often. When I have the time I go to see her, we go to different colleges but are about an hour away.
When we see each other, we fuck 3 times a day. She's deeply in love with me. This girl is invested into me. She isn't a unicorn, but she's a prime pick for a wife if I were to go for one. She doesn't go out, maintaining a nice 3.9 in college as a Bio major. She has a plan for dental school.
Her family loves me. Her father treats me like a son, he literally buys me things to bring back to college with me. I don't have a father of my own, but this man is a good man.
Her little sister is like a sister to me. They feel like family. We've been dating for a year and a half.
I'm an attractive guy. I go to college. The amount of girls I could get with are a lot. The amount of times I've been tempted are a lot. I've had so many opportunities at parties. Girls shoot me eyes or purposely stand awkwardly around me so I can speak to them, and I swerve them.
If I were to leave my girlfriend, I would alpha widow her. I'm sure of this. She would move on, but never fully move on. I care about this girl a lot, but I want to have sex with many girls. I meet so many guys that say they would kill for my relationship.
Honestly, in a perfect world, I would break up with her, enjoy a semester of college, and come back to her where she never met another guy or did anything. But that's not how girls work. I'm not naive.
I know she isn't the only girl in the world guys. I understand one-itis. If we broke up, it would suck, I would get over it, meet some other girl etc. However, I am 100% telling you this relationship is a good one. I don't deal with bullshit that all guys in college are stupid enough to deal with. I don't get told to wait for sex. I have a girlfriend who wants me, wants to fuck me, wants to love, wants to cook for me, does my clothes for me, etc.
I take care of her, I'm her rock.
I want to cheat on her. This doesn't mean I will, but I want to. I don't know if I will. I don't want to hurt her. This is only because of my physical needs. She fucks me a lot, just other girls look so appealing.
Flashback to before I dated her, I always believed that cheating was stupid. Don't cheat, just be straight up and break up with her.
Now I'm here being a hypocrite.
Opinions? Advice? Perspectives? Go for it. I'm free game
TL;DR: Thinking about cheating on a very happy LTR and mutually beneficial one.
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