I'm not used to getting rejected. We'd been talking on social media for a few weeks, she was eager as hell to meet me and wrote every day and I just built the tension. She's not normally my type, but because she's Turkish like I (we live in Sweden), having never dated a Turkish girl, I thought it'd be fun because she seemed pretty chill and interesting and was pretty attractive too.

I turned down the first date because I wasn't in the mood, but she kept goin gon about it so we set another date up and it went smooth. We went out for a few drinks (she actually offered to pay so I thought why not, especially since I really dislike paying for other people's shit if I don't know them).

In orderly fashion, she shit-tested me quite a lot upon meeting me. Height this, height that, went on about my accent (we do have pretty disgusting accents down here in Southern Sweden.) and shit-tested me about not being a real Turk because I barely know any Turkish. Nothing big, I deflected everything and had no reason to be butthurt.

We order drinks and have a smooth conversation the hours to come. We had pretty intense eye-contact and I could tell she was into me because she kept leaning closer and was trying to get me to touch her, and I did escalate with kino a few times.

She then shit-tests me a bit more. I pass everything smoothly.

Since I took the train to her, she followed me to the train-station. Now we started getting intimate. I was about to touch her face because reason reason, she says "No, anywhere but the face."

I say "Anywhere?" with a grin and I grab her leg. She says yes, smiles back and then we make out, basically. Couldn't really fuck her because, while girls most often use silly excuses, she has Turkish parents and I'm pretty damn sure they wouldn't let her bring home some random dude she's never met before. She even told me this before she met me, when she was all on me trying to get me to date her.

So she went from being super fucking interested to wanting me to escalate physically and even insinuating that she wants to be fucked during the date to having one conversation with me post-date (and I was pretty off during that conversation, definitely not more enthusiastic than I usually am) and then not hitting me up for more/a second date. We haven't been in contact for almost a week now I think.

I don't really care about it, I'm just trying to figure out where I went wrong so I can avoid it in the future. I'm honestly kinda baffled because I very, very rarely don't get a second date and this one felt like an easy home-run.