Cousin's wedding is coming up in a few months, just got the invitation in the mail today. I have 2 plates spinning at the moment but I don't want to bring them to the family wedding. Should I go stag or should I work on finding a date? I know chicks love weddings so I'm thinking of trying to pickup another plate beforehand and asking her, do you think there's a "too soon to ask" rule for a wedding date?