How do you set up and pull off fucking a date at a motel/B&B?

Auvergnat · 2017-02-21T10:20:25+00:00

The only difference logistics make are relative to her interest in same night lay:

if she's not into the idea of same night lay, you can still bang her at her place by juggling with her ASD and giving massive amounts of plausible deniability.
if she's lukewarm at the idea, you can bang her at your place by juggling with LMR and giving good plausible deniability.
if she's keen on the idea, she won't mind going to a hotel.

So there you go. Just go on the date like any other, escalating constantly, gauging her interest in same night lay. If you get her up to heavy make-out and obviously all over you, you can just tell her "let's get out of here and book a hotel" and she'll go along with pleasure.

Plan the date backwards to move fast and minimise chances of her changing her mind. Check in advance the possible hotels around. Have an app ready to be able to book from your phone. Although many hotels now have automated booking machine at entrance.

The most important is to not sweat it out. Don't let the logistics difficulties and the lower chances to score convince you it's not worth organising a date with that tinder match. Just do it. If she turns out to be really keen, you score. And if it turns out she doesn't sleep on first date, it's great game practice & she might on 2nd

quicklogaccount · 2017-02-21T13:42:49+00:00

I actually only do it like that, ever since I broke up. Hopefully that'll change in April.

Comfort. Lots of comfort. Comforting routines, romantic lines. The cube, "if you could wake up anywhere, where would it be", wada wada;
You'll need to optimize escalation because you need to have her insanely turned on without scratching comfort. She'll give you LMR before you even get in the room. Observe her reactions, if she's insecure, pull, take a minute, then try again. Be conservative, you need a lot of comfort;
Lay the idea, make out, let it settle. Then escalate a lot more and once she's really turned on (my thermometer for it is fingering in the car) go back to it;
The best strategy I found is laying the idea as soon as I have my hands under her shirt (on her back, not even front) by making some joke. "We're a bit too much dressed" / "The environment doesn't allow the required clothing you know, they're really conservative here". This will be on the first date, still in public. Later, when making out heavy in the car, once she's moaning or preferably getting fingered, I'll go back to it. It'll hardly be on the same date;
If she's uneasy about going, I'd rather not going. I'll just leave her at home, tell her I want her more at ease, and set a new date quickly. I know we'd probably have sex on the morning if she still had LMR, but it's fucking hard to hide the frustration and insane blueballs, so I'm rather leaving it for another day.

All in all it'll work on the second or third date. If the resistance to escalation increases from one date to another, you were BB-zoned, so just next for a while.

Find yourself a hotel that keeps your file and doesn't require you to fill in paperwork. Around here hotels must require identification from guests, but residence services don't, so it's really just about keeping your file. It beats motels by far.

lietruth · 2017-02-21T06:47:33+00:00

You've gotta be high value enough for her to not feel like a slut. She knows what's up when she's going to the motel, and she'll do it with Chad on the first date.

It'll vary from girl to girl. Some girls might be down with it, others won't and will have high ASD.

Probably works best with a FWB rather than a ONS.

youcantdenythat · 2017-02-21T14:38:30+00:00

Watch some of the RSD guys on youtube, they do this alot.

Basically, it just needs to kinda happen. You don't explain it, you just guide them where you want them to go. The pretense is to just go have some drinks, watch a movie, etc.

sharkbrah · 2017-02-21T11:33:05+00:00

i don't think you should cheat on your partner srs

Title	How do you set up and pull off fucking a date at a motel/B&B?
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Date	February 21, 2017 6:42 AM UTC (7 years ago)
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