so many post here always state that op is smashing the whole town and etc with no problem and it's on the girl to understand that.

but then they have a meltdown if one of their plates is fucking someone else.

why the double standard? from what i read, a plate is a no commitment thing. as long as she's not outright disrespecting you, its fair game.

if you are over here treating her like a gf (me and you against the world, etc) , arent you plating wrong? (lets be real , alot of people here are)

just looking for a explanation