Long story short, I was with a plate tonight in my car hooking up, knowing she had to be home within the hour (we're both young enough that this is still a concern).

I attempted to escalate but she pulled away saying "you go that far I'll definitely be late home."

moments later she was taking my pants off, so I said "I thought you didn't want to be late?"

she replied with "doesn't mean I can't tease you for a bit."

In that moment a thought crossed my head that I should go mini-nuclear on her and just say something like "if you're going to play games and not do anything else then we might as well stop and go home." But I decided against it with my excuse at the time in my head being I didn't feel like an awkward 20 minute car ride.

Instead I said "two can play at that game" and teased my hands around her body/kissed her neck etc.. It was obvious she enjoyed it, but I pulled away after a bit and said "I know you want more but remember you can't be late home." She tried to act unaffected and said "haha yeah of course" but she was flustered. Even so, I still ended the night with no close with a side of blue balls.

My question is, how does what played out in real life compare frame wise to the scenario in my head? I only question it because looking back, I feel like the nuclear option would've shown all the power is in my hands and that I don't fuck around, but that unfortunately never happened.