Fuck, man. This is my biggest problem.I don't know who to be.

I read in one of TRP's best posts that girls want to be around a

fun, carefree, positive, dominant and relaxed

male, but fuck, man. Whenever I try to be those things I 'let loose' and look like an absolute moron. I can't dance so being 'fun and carefree' in my type just turns out moronic.


Then there's the confident dominant 'I own this place' style. Believe my, I've tried it. But whenever I do I this style I look like this, which makes sense since I kinda look like him in his younger years.

Don't tell me Be Your Self. My 'self' is undisciplined, scared of everything, insecure and boring.

I hope I can find some help here.

I'll give Gold if your answer is fantastic ;)

Thanks in advance.