Gf acting distant and weird. Confront or ignore?

Imarobot2 · 2017-05-12T17:18:47+00:00

Ignore and instill some dread. Flirt w other girls. May be something bigger at play causing her change.

Rares5555 · 2017-05-13T00:36:28+00:00

Here's the thing that took me WAY TOO long to learn.

If every time your GF acts distant, cold, bitchy, shady, etc....you give her attention in way of affection, sex, asking what's wrong, etc....then you are telling her that this behavior works for her....you are training her to be a bad GF.

That is a big reason why I agree with others here that you should pull away. If she is cheating then she will grow more distant or break up. If she is not then she will freak over losing you and be a better GF.

mountainbiker178 · 2017-05-12T18:13:27+00:00

Is she on her phone more than normal? Does she talk about another (specific) guy?

[deleted] · 2017-05-12T19:28:23+00:00

Abandon her at the event

xkhlo289 · 2017-05-13T13:51:18+00:00

I'd confront. Ask her, if you get a shitty answer then dread.

Title	Gf acting distant and weird. Confront or ignore?
Author	Rares5555
Upvotes	1
Comments	16
Date	May 12, 2017 5:13 PM UTC (6 years ago)
Subreddit	Posted in /r/askTRP
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