I've only been dating the last couple of years (late to party at 29) and I'm just trying to learn as much as I can at the minute.

I got out of a 10 month relationship a month or so back and have since met and slept with a couple of women on Tinder. I saw them both for a couple of weeks in the same weekend - seen one a few times and the other 4/5 times.

BOTH of them have raised the issue of me texting them. One of them said she feels like I don't care or have any interest in her.

They've both messaged me randomly through the week asking how my day is or whatever and I've replied but kept conversations very short. I've only ever got in touch when sorting out logistics. From what I've read, this is exactly how I should be texting.

They've told me themselves other guys never stop and they hate being bothered all the time. Are they just frustrated that I'm not playing into their games? Do I keep doing what I'm doing? I'm quite ok not texting for 3/4/5 days if need be. In fact, I'm quite ok not texting AT ALL and leaving it to them to chase me. If they don't, they weren't that interested anyway.

I've been reading plate theory and have read about how plates should spin themselves in a way. Is that what I should be aiming for? Plates that chase me and I just set up logistics and have fun with 'em?