"I can do drinks if it's as friends."

bmunny1963 · 2017-06-27T20:45:39+00:00

"I'll pass. I've got plenty of friends."

AwakenedSovereign · 2017-06-27T20:34:39+00:00

Do you want to be her friend? Then go grab a drink. Bridges are things you use to get somewhere else.

Only interested in a fuck? She had the decency to tell it to you straight, trying to change her mind is beta af

walawalawa · 2017-06-27T23:46:10+00:00

It's an LJBF, very common.

When I get this or a version of it I always respond the same way:

"I'm a man, you're a woman, I see you as a woman, not a friend. I have plenty of friends."

Leave it at that. It sets a sexual masculine/feminine frame.

In a few cases I've gotten a kind of "ok ok" type response and banged the girl.

In other cases the girl just falls off the map. Which is also fine.

Not everything can be cocky/funny agree and amplify.

This is a girl either tooling with you or not interested in you sexually. If you make it crystal clear, you'll never have any problems with her understanding your motivations.

Then if she agrees to meet...it's much easier to escalate.

max_peenor · 2017-06-28T00:15:09+00:00

"Sorry I only drink with enemies"

Winner. This is when you need to throw for the end zone, because they game is mostly lost. Sometimes it works.

Thecddm · 2017-06-27T20:43:36+00:00

"Best friends ;)"

my_trp_throwaway · 2017-06-27T22:32:19+00:00

so.. unless someone suggests the perfect response, then no response is the best respone 99% of the time

RPStone · 2017-06-27T21:14:29+00:00

Not even worth a reply IMO. I would just ghost and move on.

The-Hardball-Player · 2017-06-27T21:45:29+00:00

"Sure. At my place"

You know what to do to the drinks...

Kidding.

Forget about her.

juliusstreicher · 2017-07-02T19:51:58+00:00

"Sure, I'd love nothing better than to spend my money to get you drunk so someone else can fuck you."

RPAlternate42 · 2017-06-28T15:50:13+00:00

"Okay, but when I drink with friends, they wingman for me."

Use her for pre selection, pull another chick, leave with the other chick.

anotherswingingdick · 2017-06-29T09:43:59+00:00

if she's just a friend, she's buying half the drinks

Tiway22 · 2017-06-27T21:52:16+00:00

I'd still do it.

"Sure!"

Then get her to hook you up with her friends, or use her as a wingman at the bar.

Bear-With-Bit · 2017-06-27T20:46:27+00:00

your first thought comment comes off as butt hurt to me.

but if you want any chance to be more than friends with this girl. be very direct with what you want. if thats more than friendship, you should make it clear before you go do anything with her. otherwise you are gonna get your feelings hurt when things dont turn out the way you assumed they would.

NexusReflexX · 2017-06-27T21:05:10+00:00

Idk i feel like thats a shit test.

She says as friends, but wants you to be more of a man. Agree to meet her out, then escalate from there. If she still wants it as friends, who cares. If its a shit test, u pass and reap the benefits

anusbleach11111 · 2017-06-28T02:45:43+00:00

Actions > words. Ignore what she says, see how she responds to kino.

neaideabh · 2017-06-27T22:13:16+00:00

This is the same as me.... had a date.... text next day saying the usual... " Was great meeting you.... hopefully we can do it again sometime ". To which I got the "yeah... same as. Would be nice to meet up again but for me it would be just as friends!"

I responded straightaway saying "no worries. Thanks for having the courtesy of not "ghosting" me! 😂 thats too bad... would have loved another shot at trying to woo you somehow. Sure take care and best of luck in the future!"

The ghosting comment was a reference to her getting ghosted before. She never heard the term before!

I know the wooing her bit might be a bit off but how would this response be regarded by the red pill community?

Title	"I can do drinks if it's as friends."
Author	Bear-With-Bit
Upvotes	6
Comments	39
Date	June 27, 2017 8:22 PM UTC (6 years ago)
Subreddit	Posted in /r/askTRP
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