Alright, so I'll start by saying I'm 21, just began following the Red Pill. Been trying with a girl (we'll call her Samantha) for the past 3 months. We've been going strong, hanging out all of the time, enjoying each other's company and such.

Well, the other day her and I went down to my friend Daniel's house (we'll call him Daniel, I don't feel comfortable using actual names) to relax and as usual, smoke pot and just have a good time. Well, Daniel brought the topic up about our friend Jim. Jim is a raver, constantly going to EDM festivals and doing copious amounts of hallucinogenics as well as other drugs. Me being stoned, I started going on about how much I disapproved of his lifestyle. Eventually, I find myself ranting about his drug use ("perks" of being stoned, not entirely aware of what your saying). I could tell that my tirade disturbed the relaxed setting we all established and apologized. I could visibly tell that Samantha had lost some respect for me (seeing me complain for roughly 15 minutes or so). Everything seemed fine and dandy after my apology but I knew I made a negative impact.

A couple hours later Daniel decides to call it a night and Samantha and I took off, we sat in her car (she gave me a ride) and just talked before we called the night as well (we always do). I again apologized for my actions and she said "it's alright, just seemed like you were complaining". She also told me my rant kind of intimidated her, which bothers me.

I know I broke frame, even though I'm an amateur in regards to the Red Pill, I know​ for a fact I broke what frame I had. Just as things were going smoothly (her bragging to her friends and family and such about me). Now, I'm not sure what the hell I'm supposed to do, so here I am.

What should I do, guys?