So I guess it might a coincidence that my LTR said she loved me for the first time the other night, made a prior post about it but this has come arise since then.

So about 3 weeks ago my phone was charging next to hers when I went to go grab it and check on some things. While I was checking mine a notification popped up on hers that her ex (dated 3 years) has added her on snapchat. I didn't say anything about it, didn't wanna sound like a bitch and let it go to see what she would do about it. She never made any mention of it which I expected.

So fast forward to the other day, went to check my phone on the charger, hers was right next to it so I just lit up the screen to peek at her notifications, guess what, she has a snap from her ex. At the end of the night I pulled her aside and said "You're free to make your own decisions but my girl doesn't communicate with exes" and she just said "okay" in a hurt kind of tone like she got caught and was sorry. I left it at that and went home, no kiss or fuck goodnight and ghosted for a few days. She sent all kinds of texts at me saying she's sorry for disrespecting me, she really loves me, but I didn't respond for a few days. The biggest thing that got me was that she said she only sent one snap to him which I HIGHLY doubt since he added her around 3 weeks ago. Should I call her out on her lying? I feel like I'd sound like a little bitch for looking at her phone and knowing she added him so long ago after I didn't say anything then.

Since the incident, I've hung out with her already but I have that nagging feeling. She's been a great LTR but now I feel like my trust is gone with her. Next? Demote to plate for awhile? Or am I making too big of a deal about this?