Backstory:

24M. Found TRP 9 months ago. Been lifting for 4 months.

I've read The Rational Male, Sex God Method, much of the sidebar, and currently halfway through Models and Way of Superior Man.

Nearly 8 months ago, I met an HB6 air hostess via WhatsApp that quickly became an FWB situation. While we're yet to have "the talk", she's basically been a GF for the past couple of months.

TL;DR She refuses to come back to my place and is ambiguously busy on her next days off. Branch swing?


Situation:

3 weeks ago, I traveled for work. While I was away, she sent me 2 letters. I asked her what it was about. She was vague about it. Whatever. I keep working.

She asks me to bring her a gift. I didn't handle it with too much finesse but basically ended up saying that it'll only happen on her birthday.

A couple of days before coming back, I text her to say I'm coming back and to wear black underwear & be at my place.

Now, up to this point, she's been respectful, submissive, punctual, the sex is readily forthcoming, and (much to my recently unplugged surprise) she leaks like a damn faucet much more than weeks/months earlier (coinciding with some time after I started lifting), so I thought I've been doing something right.

If it matters, she'd spend 2-3 days at my place at a time where we'd fuck, she'd clean and keep herself busy until we'd fuck again.

What does she say?

Good evening. kenpachitz I need to speak to you in person and I can't do that in bed you know(The bed part will come after the conversation ).Let us meet tomorrow some place quit maybe restaurant and have a talk.By the way did you do the reading of the letters I sent you?

I ignored it. And she didn't show up. I kept quiet for a couple of days.

I text her to say I've read her letters and to arrange a meetup.

(One was a love letter hoping this lasts for "days, weeks, months and years." The 2nd was a long attempt to convert me from atheism to Christianity.)

She says she'll get ready and meet me in an hour. And she does. New hairstyle and dressed sexier than usual.

She asks why I'm an atheist and presses on until I cave and explain. (Not a good move. It's a bit of a sob story) She gives me a sermon, I cut her short and we finish our drinks to leave.

I invite her to sleep over at my place. And she says 2 things that really tripped my internal alarm:

  1. She refused, saying she told her parents she was coming back. This is in stark contrast to months of watching her lie to her parents she was at university or a friend's place in my bed.

  2. She said she's busy on her next days off. This is in stark contrast to her either spending her days off entirely with me or if not possible, making time to see me after she's finished her stuff. Stuff that she volunteers information on without my asking.

This was Tuesday. I've been quiet. She's been quiet.


So, my fellow gents, are my instincts right? Am I witnessing a branch swing?