I just wrote a long ass post with backstory but deleted it all because it wasn't going anywhere.

Here's the deal... I play the game real well up to a point. I would ideally like to have sex on call but I can only seem to squeeze in two lays maximum with a girl before she goes cold. I know EXACTLY where I'm screwing up, I just don't know HOW to handle it any better.

When I play the game real well, the girl will begin "showing me off." She does this through social media. There's no other posts about any other guys except me. I think it's because I have a relatively high SVM. I have a nice face, dress well, am really fit, in a doctorate program, and financially self made. So they'll include a picture with me and tag me or whatever but sometimes it comes with a long winded "I'm so happy I met this 'friend'" comment. Friend is in quotations because I've already banged this girl and made her squirt on my couch.

So I naturally think I need to respond in some way if she considers me valuable enough to "show off." This is where I screw up. I begin texting more, showing her that I care too, trying to be a better friend to them. I consider this their "reward" for investing in me. But this happens every time; they lose interest quickly. It's not just one girl, same thing with another. They show me off, I give them more emotional support, they back off.

Immediately I'm thinking I lost my alpha vibe doing this. But another thing occurs to me. I know girls stalk and are all over social media. Could it be they see me in other girl's posts and try to punish me? Am I just failing the shit test? How can I better react to a girl investing some emotional interest in me without destroying the chances of a booty call?