Before I swallowed the red pill, I was effectively just going from girl to girl and the inevitable would happen, it wouldnt work out. Looking back on every single one, I am glad it did. Especially after swallowing the pill.

Last year I had a long drought, in which I then sort of started a casual 6 week thing with someone who I ended up banging. I noticed that in that period, after the drought, I had lost weight, I had looked better, stood better, and so on. The inevitable happened with the casual again, and she had issues and it didnt work out even though I never even asked her out.

So I was a little baffled, lost and alone so I went and banged some other chick to make me feel better, however it didnt really. But I had realised that I never rebounded as quick as I did after the "break up" in the past. Then day after the bang I had another date with another.

I realised, if I can't get a fucking relationship or never really had a serious one, then I might aswell enjoy my life, and bang as many girls as I can and spin plates. My lack of plates probably made the casual girl uncomfortable, and now I line them up day by day.

My advice to you guys is to spin fucking plates. You may find a great unicorn in there somewhere else, but it will prevent a drought, and you can potentially have all you get with a gf, in just loads of different girls.

Suddenly you dont have to eat out or see that movie alone. You can get a plate. Suddenly you dont have to go out to bang etc when you can booty call one of 3 girls.

This for me is the only way i can see myself operating, as in my culture marriage, and relationships are important and im sure great. But I have only met idiots, and people who are crazy and have made me doubt myself. So in that case, as much as it would be nice to have that, im going my own way. i dont care if its empty, and i dont care if times it makes me lonely, i might aswell bang my way around like you guys who felt like me should to understand that this is the world we live in.

Good luck guys