I'm that guy obsessed about his physical shape and body. In the past I've been rejected many times and this ingrained in my brain the belief that I have to be perfect to get laid.
I can't really change this belief as I'm still a virgin, and I guess until I lose my v-card I will always feel this bad and this desire for perfection.
For example I've got a quite decent physique (especially considering my age, 18. I'm surely in the top 5-10% (been lifting for 3 years) as I rarely even see a fit guy around in my city so it's not even hard to be in that 10%). The problem with this is that I can't accept myself even if my physique is better than 90% of the people out there. I feel like I must look like Jeff Seid in order to be satisfied, but we all know getting there is impossible (especially without gear and great genetics). Yet I feel sad and unsatisfied. It hurts quite much.
How do you accept yourself as long as you are doing your best? I'm probably not even doing my best, otherwise I would have been fucking a different girl every day, but that's not what I'm actually doing. I feel like "doing your best" means nothing as there are no real limits in self-improvement. Until I'm not earning money and fucking girls daily I can't tell myself "I'm doing my best" as that's being dishonest with myself.
How do I deal with it? What you think about all this?
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