Remember, you're good enough, smart enough, and doggone it, people like you!

whatsthisgarg · 2017-09-25T19:26:19+00:00

This is exactly what I thought when I saw that You're MORE than good enough post, which was ridiculously upvoted.

Every time some jerk writes You're the Prize! I laugh. Less than 10% of men qualify for that. The most basic understanding of statistics . . . you get my point.

redpillschool · 2017-09-25T19:11:29+00:00

Just a small appreciation for redpillschool who has to put up with Bluepillinvasions for years now. Can't respect your work enough.

Bad_nuggets69 · 2017-09-25T19:36:58+00:00

I wasn't going to open this because it sounded like bullshit. Saw the OP and almost didn't believe it. Opened it. Realized it was sarcasm. Should have known better.

Kalepsis · 2017-09-25T20:25:32+00:00

Fuck all that Disney bullshit.

I'm down 20 lbs in the past 6 weeks. Got another 70 to go, then I'm gonna bulk.

sqerl · 2017-09-25T20:33:28+00:00

The "Just Be Yourself" crowd absolutely adores the idea of that special someone stumbling across your couch laden carcass while you're eating Cheetos with your permanently dyed orange fingers. There's a special snowflake for everyone!

Or... learn game, lift, and self improve... while sucking on special snowflake icepops made from tears of their fears topped with your conquered demon sprinkles.

tittylover911 · 2017-09-26T01:52:37+00:00

I don't agree. This shit will cause people on this sub to go into full self improvement mode and next thing you know they're 180 lbs shredded making 100 grand a year and dressing like Ryan Gosling and they'll still be thinking "If I just do _____ then I'll finally be able to talk to a girl!" Sure, all of this stuff matters if you want to increase the quality of what you're pulling, but the "you are enough" mentality is what you need to actually pull.

empatheticapathetic · 2017-09-25T23:08:08+00:00

Thanks for this

I am so so sick of dragging my ass to the gym, skipping meals, and acting like a tough guy when I'm hurting on the inside.

Yes I am having sex, getting paid and respected by folks but I want to be true to myself

and Thank God my Princess and her kids will be waiting for me in 15 years. I don't care if she was plunged like an old toilet by 50 Convicts, Athletes, and Sociopaths. She chose me for me!

JohnGalt316 · 2017-09-26T00:39:30+00:00

EXACTLY

looks matter

race matters

height matters

muscles matter

status matters

confidence matters

money matters

dr_warlock · 2017-09-25T22:56:59+00:00

I was triggered for a second. Glad you took down that piece of shit post that was upvoted like crazy. Everyone who upvoted that should feel shame.

Krebota · 2017-09-25T23:14:22+00:00

And once again I have no idea what's going on here

SmilingWatermelon · 2017-09-26T12:02:24+00:00

If you're here it's because you realized you weren't enough and wanted to become more.

I don't think the red pill is about making people feel good. It's about becoming better.

Feeling good comes after you've earned it.

[deleted] · 2017-09-25T20:56:13+00:00

Guess I've been lifting for nothing.

Time to order a pizza & a 2 liter of Mountain Dew and settle into some World of Warcraft.

[deleted] · 2017-09-26T13:31:34+00:00

How the fuck can people like me when I don't like myself?

Wrong answer: You just need to learn to like yourself (read as: You need to be delusional)

Right answer: Improve.

_ManGuy_ · 2017-09-27T23:01:27+00:00

Red pill wont truly thrive with the dogmatism behind the sub. The "You're more TGE" post gave me some good vibes, not vibes that lead to getting cucked and stepped on but vibes that leads to taking action and pure internal confidence. Self esteem is just as good for the TRP man. No sense in applying RP tenets when you can't even believe in yourself.

That being said I'm infuriated that the post was taken down. Good luck dealing with pompous ass pretentious dictators on a fucking reddit sub.

TheDreadnought1 · 2017-09-25T22:19:19+00:00

There are two very different prospects in this "you are good enough" statement. A) It increases confidence, that which is per se attractive and useful, certainly what the guy of the other post tried to invoke at the readers and B) It may well cut your motivation to improve, and that's where the danger lives.

This good enough mentality (restricted only to that, its evolution - "you don't have to change, there's someone for everyone, blabla" - is pure bullshit) can be somewhat fulfilling and useful for that confidence that helps with women, but it has to come from a place of self improvement, when you know you are the best that you can be, or at least is sweating your ass off and getting there, not just some fake feeling generated from a post from a random in the internet

usedsparingly · 2017-09-25T19:55:43+00:00

Thank you for removing that post.

TRebirthP · 2017-09-25T19:44:21+00:00

If you're feeling so worthless that even the prospect of improving isn't motivating, it can help to have a perspective that there is something already worthwhile in you. Arguably, anyone who pulls themselves out of the shit must have this idea inside of them in some form otherwise they wouldn't bother. That's not the same as denying AWALT, saying there's somebody for everyone, believing in fate, saying it's ok to be fat and lazy, thinking the world is just or any of the other things your post asserts. And since this post is most likely a thinly veiled justification for removing "You ARE MORE than good enough" (or a warning against posts like it), it should be noted "You ARE MORE than good enough" didn't assert any of what you did.

FirstNamesMusic · 2017-09-25T20:57:37+00:00

What I don't understand other than excuses to be sub par (like you're someone's prize), is why are there men that accept that. Like why don't you want to be the baddest mother fucker on the face of the planet. Simply put, if a man can lift 400 lbs, a real man should be unbelievably motivated to lift 405. This goes beyond the gym and applies to work, social functions, pretty much everything.

Remember don't try to imitate an Alpha. Instead be the alpha.

imbeciI · 2017-09-26T14:15:53+00:00

Fool me once, shame on me.

Fool me twice, twice the shame on me.

Redasshole · 2017-09-28T20:43:00+00:00

Never change who you are for somebody else.

I agree with that actually.

redpillschool · 2017-09-26T22:04:56+00:00

Im the author of the removed post.

My post made none of the above assertions. Mod didnt understand it at all. Though some ppl in the comments did.

Been lurking here for 5 years. Most of you ec's I remember. The thing that bugged me from the start was the inherent masochism of trp, the celebrated suffering and aversion to truths that feel good.

muh trp is bitter muh hard to swallow muh pain is good muh it hurts so right!

You've come at a stage when everything that feels good must be a lie that will destroy you. I can imagine that happening to many of you since the reason most come here is they get broken by source of most pleasure in life - for not yet fully actualized man, that source are women. You see, you really are running at the same spot here? Underlying problems in your mind still run circles around you.

What is this bullshit about men are worthless, seed is worthless? Are you fucking insane? Maybe you and yours is. Good luck with that. Trp has reached a point when it became the thing it fought against.

I thought this sub was a place 4 propagation of "alpha" or 20%ers mindset. You realize that none of the people who rule in those terms think themselves worthless? How can you give worth to the world when you walk around carrying your inadequacies? And the feminine approach to life you do - take care of the outer and it will take care of the inner, is apposite of what manhood is about. If you were a girl, mr mod, you would beg for likes on facebook and you know its true.

If you go to sleep thinking you are worthless, than you win every confrontation mr mod, since nothing can be taken away, when you effort to destroy your self every day. I lived like that once it wasnt fun. But by all means continue.

As for people who understood my post: Thanks for commenting, helped me sharpen some insights myself, Im glad I helped some of you get that aha moment, keep working on yourself and love your self trough the process. Good bless. Im out.

MonkeyCoconut · 2017-09-26T16:34:12+00:00

The problem with not thinking of yourself as the shit is that this unabashed confident mentality works with women. I would even go as far to say that having an absurdly inaccurate perception of yourself would do wonders, but the crucial key is to maintain it while interacting with a woman. The issue is a lot of these incels and low-on-the-totem-pole guys may think of themselves as the shit after three masturbation sessions, but this perception CRUMBLES when it's actually challenged and the woman can feel the crumble. Hell, I bet the guy feels it too, but he blames her and doesn't look inward. However, if you can maintain that frame that you are the prize in her presence while she's throwing shit at you, I don't see how that wouldn't be ideal.

[deleted] · 2017-09-27T16:55:17+00:00

The universe is yours as soon as you stop giving a fuck about what you were told and read the sidebar.

Frenetic_Zetetic · 2017-09-28T08:49:55+00:00

The scary part is, people who can't figure out this is satire will be blinded by emotion and take this as truth lol.

Alpagon · 2017-09-28T13:46:54+00:00

You're good enough when you train, you are smart enough when you study. You don't have to prove anything to anybody, you have to prove everything to yourself.

Your boss may betray you, your gf/plate/wife may betray you, your parents may betrat you. Your effort will not.

True confidence does not come from within, ignorence does. Make yourself the best there is because noone else deserves it most. But only when you shape yourself, you become on top. This is my mantra I am trying to live by.

You're the Prize! mentality can become an asset depending how you utilize it. If you can become the prize, capitalize on it, use it. All your hard work is a waste if you don't reap the benefits. We see a lot of people wasting themselves because they don't realize they are the prize. And we see a lot of people just being lazy because they think they are. I think there is a balance here we must achieve.

biggerbetterjobs · 2017-09-29T20:57:12+00:00

If I never adopted a "be the prize" mindset when I was a chubby virgin, I probably wouldn't have ever had sex and continued being a chubby virgin. Having more sex and a girlfriend who dumped me helped me find trp and become who I am today.

It's not saying you're just as good looking as a dude who puts in work lifting, it's just having some self esteem and not seeing yourself as "unworthy" of sex simply cause you're not an alpha bro chad thunder cock (yet)

Small steps people.. you don't need to be a 10 of a dude to get laid.. just gain a little confidence. You get nowhere without taking the first step forward.

RedPill_Swinger · 2017-10-01T08:26:35+00:00

WTF is this "just be yourself" BP post doing here?

GoTomArrow · 2017-10-06T16:13:22+00:00

Wanted to write "wtf, how is this red pilled" until I realized it's sarcasm.

Trustedflipper8 · 2017-10-06T16:45:32+00:00

wow this really helped me out today thank you so much for this man

darkmagicmge · 2017-10-07T13:41:02+00:00

Reminds me of a time I tried to pick up a chick in my car. She completely blew me off, and said "she doesn't date Asians". My mind was blown by that statement.

TRP_mask · 2017-10-13T13:13:10+00:00

Delete this post from the top already, jeez

YestoShua · 2017-09-25T23:54:37+00:00

You know what the real irony of this post is? There is so much wisdom in being able to accept ourselves as we are in order to begin our process of improvement. The difference is doing so out of compassion for ourselves rather than competing against the herd to have the better prize around our arms and dicks.

This subreddit is absolute trash. There's a reason why competition doesn't breed honesty, compassion, or well-being for society and society is the mess that it is. But I guess the red pill solution is to devolve back into primitive alpha bros who justify being pathetic douche bags to sell their souls for pussy. "Useless feel-good" sounds about right, red pill. Enjoy your lifetime of suffering. NEWS FLASH: We don't live in a jungle anymore.

Lost_soul95 · 2017-09-25T21:31:59+00:00

I was about to tell you to go fuck yourself lmao. Good one.

Desadarius · 2017-09-26T00:56:51+00:00

I was about to say...

Shakydrummer · 2017-09-26T07:16:31+00:00

Yeah, that mentality is just going to get you burned.

I wasn't fucking good enough a year ago when I found this sub. I don't even know if I am good enough now - all I know is you gotta work your ass off and stay disciplined because life is exactly what you make of it, and you are what you do every day.

grngr · 2017-09-26T08:41:35+00:00

As I was reading this, I kept flicking my eyes up to who posted it and saw the MOD flare. Then I got to the end and thought... thank fuck.

pevans12 · 2017-09-26T10:07:35+00:00

It’s sad many will upvote and move on and think to themselves this is the mindset they should have...

Oh fuck... feel like we are going backwards sometimes

11-Eleven-11 · 2017-09-26T16:42:44+00:00

Good post but a key aspect of inner game is realizing that you are in fact good enough which is what I thought you were going with. Of course inner game is something you should conquer after you've been lifting and building confidence. It takes work to learn to be good enough.

NullIsUndefined · 2017-09-27T06:52:40+00:00

Relevant? https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=CFh5FzXIeBg

SpongeDickSemenPants · 2017-09-27T13:25:29+00:00

Lmao I was wondering 'what is this faggot shit, has this sub finally gone down the drain'

TissueBabies · 2017-09-27T14:40:39+00:00

Damn you got me OP. I walked in here from being away for a while and was like "What the fuck is this shit?" 600+ upvotes. That last line was just in the nick of time. Always gotta remember value=work.

ThickDickWarrior89 · 2017-09-27T22:55:47+00:00

Is this glo just trolling on one of his other reddit accounts?

doladolabillyall · 2017-09-28T03:07:49+00:00

There's somebody out there for everybody!

Whoa, when did this place become so blue pill. There isn't someone out there for everyone, this thinking is actually quite dangerous. When you wake up, and realize that your on a sort of unfair primal planet that happens to have technology and society on it, your sex life will make much more sense. When you realize that you there is nobody out there for you, just waiting around, you'll be relieved. When you realize that you must take what you want, and probably settle for less than your expectations (when you really realize what the world is and who you are and how you fit into it), you'll be much more productive romantically.

(Ok I just read the bottom of your post, good job sir.)

WillyWonka321 · 2017-09-29T07:24:41+00:00

Those words feel so good. Its easy. No pressure....."sigh".... Anyway back to the treadmill.

JFMX1996 · 2017-10-04T14:48:12+00:00

Seriously. Since I was young I hated the feel good bullshit.

I think it makes us feel good about where we are, when there's nothing to feel good about. Sets us to just be conformist.

I have no problem with decent motivating stuff, but hate the simple "feel good" shit.

FirstNamesMusic · 2017-10-05T19:43:21+00:00

This post is dumb, failure is literally not an option. This isn't complaining, cause I won't fail. Really just a reminder. As a man you have to win, good thing you're given the tools at birth. So go fucking do it, you're no one's prize until you make yourself a prize. (Except God, but he isn't a human)

oracleoftemple · 2017-10-08T18:22:31+00:00

It just dawned on me - needing someone to tell me that I don't have to prove anything to anyone means that that's probably exactly what I need. I'm just really insecure and not very attractive to women. I'm just going to have to live with that. Oh well - just have to wait for my sex robot to climb its way out of that uncanny valley! lol

[deleted] · 2017-10-10T02:33:37+00:00

My variation on this is something like "You're good enough, but you can be better." Not sure complacency ever accomplishes anything?

SonOfTerra92 · 2017-10-11T02:25:34+00:00

Self improvement + sidebar dude

GoGetting · 2017-10-11T17:06:20+00:00

In defense of fact, women do have different tastes and preferences. But it's only in the weightings, and in a single direction.

I.e. tall vs rich, not tall vs short.

This is true with men too. Visit any online community and look at a thread where men post pictures of women they think look good. Guarantee you you'll find "she's so hot" "nah she's plain" debates, face vs body debates. T vs A polls. Etc.

And this isn't just nitpicking. It's important, for instance, that short men, or ugly men, know there is variety in weightings, on top of what the valued traits are, so they can adjust their expectations and strategy.

OGAbunai · 2017-09-26T06:10:24+00:00

Damn! You kept my hopes up until i read the comments. LOL!

fonzidgratie · 2017-09-26T02:01:23+00:00

Finally, and please, address the whole "society and people suck so just be a hermit" crap that goes on around here.

g8TUNESbra · 2017-09-26T04:31:54+00:00

I see pride! I see power! I see a bad-ass mother who don't take no crap off of nobody! ~ Yul Brenner

Title	Remember, you're good enough, smart enough, and doggone it, people like you!
Author	redpillschool
Upvotes	1311
Comments	208
Date	September 25, 2017 7:05 PM UTC (6 years ago)
Subreddit	Posted in /r/TheRedPill
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